Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[kaldurahm]

And nikkas are afraid of settling?


I think nikkas are afraid of settling and being miserable more than settling.

I don’t mind settling down. Most men aren’t trying to hang around out here in the streets like that after a certain point. But it’s about what you are willing to live with.

I almost settled down multiple times with chicks who was not my first anything, some with kids, prego belly scars, etc., and as soon as I am about to, she does something that makes me want to fall allllll the way back. I take it as signs of whats to come if I do choose her to be my last anything.

Whether it is disrespect after I go out of my way (and comfortability) to do something for them, some kind of physical altercation, entertaining other men, etc..

So the willingness to settle down isn't the issue imo. I know I don’t expect any woman to be perfect because I’m not perfect either, but we can be perfect for each other with work and understanding. It’s the finding a person you are willing to risk settling with that is our issue and I’m sorry but learning someone new takes time… at least for me.

Perfect post, I agree 1000% this is the issue.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Perfect post, I agree 1000% this is the issue.

Family law is the issue not settling. Assuming we talking men who can actually get relationships

 

[kaldurahm]

Family law is the issue not settling. Assuming we talking men who can actually get relationships

That's definitely an aspect too for sure. But I find when I want to invest in a lady, she reveals something that makes me want to pull all the way back, now that I'm in my 30s. it would appear minor but you could definitely see it ass a huge problem later on.

Of course I've worked hard to save the little money that I've been able to save, so that's also on the back of my mind as well. I'm putting that on the line too. The behaviour that rears its head is why you don't want to invest your savings, or that condo/house you have lined up etc.. cause your aware all that can be curtains in a moment.

I don't know if men deal with the scars better but it doesn't seem to affect us as much, well I can't say that, I know some dudes that have been done dirty and has affected every relationship they have going forwards, but I try not to allow the past to affect present/future

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's definitely an aspect too for sure. But I find when I want to invest in a lady, she reveals something that makes me want to pull all the way back, now that I'm in my 30s. it would appear minor but you could definitely see it ass a huge problem later on.

Of course I've worked hard to save the little money that I've been able to save, so that's also on the back of my mind as well. I'm putting that on the line too.

I don't know if men deal with the scars better but it doesn't seem to affect us as much, well I can't say that, I know some dudes that have been done dirty and has affected every relationship they have going forwards, but I try not to allow the past to affect present/future

If family law wasnt the core issue there would be no fear of a relationship not working for an adult man.

Being upset emotionally about a breakup/divorce is nothing. Potentially being ruined financially and losing autonomy as a father is something else.

 

[kaldurahm]

If family law wasnt the core issue there would be no fear of a relationship not working for an adult man.

Being upset emotionally about a breakup/divorce is nothing. Potentially being ruined financially and losing autonomy as a father is something else.

I see what you're saying, yeah you're right actually.

 

[Phitz]

fukk all that.

Glad I’m not out there looking for a partner at my Larry Holmes age.



Glad I got all the p*ssy I wanted in my 20s and 30s and got that cheating itch scratched and survived with my wife by my side too.



Even in my 30s these women were burnt to a crisp looking for that one last fantasy fling before they fully embraced flabby and sickville. I can’t tell you how many newly separated and divorced pools I took a dip in. I had a helluva run.



I laugh at the brehs talking that dumb shyt about brehs “settling” because they’re afraid to be alone. When they get to 40+ and that blood pressure starts hitting a lil different and health starts to become a ticking clock, they’re gonna wish they had some children around them who love them and a woman down like 4 flat tires.



A whole generation tricked into a lonely old existence.

youu're right, people think they will be young living in some sitcom or romcom forever, not realizing they will get old and statistics and science show that family is more important the older you get.

 

[OGBobbyJohnson]

And nikkas are afraid of settling?


I think nikkas are afraid of settling and being miserable more than settling.

I don’t mind settling down. Most men aren’t trying to hang around out here in the streets like that after a certain point. But it’s about what you are willing to live with.

I almost settled down multiple times with chicks who was not my first anything, some with kids, prego belly scars, etc., and as soon as I am about to, she does something that makes me want to fall allllll the way back. I take it as signs of whats to come if I do choose her to be my last anything.

Whether it is disrespect after I go out of my way (and comfortability) to do something for them, some kind of physical altercation, entertaining other men, etc..

So the willingness to settle down isn't the issue imo. I know I don’t expect any woman to be perfect because I’m not perfect either, but we can be perfect for each other with work and understanding. It’s the finding a person you are willing to risk settling with that is our issue and I’m sorry but learning someone new takes time… at least for me.

 

[Mowgli]

I remember when we were telling you guys to get married Bruhs you said I'll still be able to bag 20-year-olds when I'm in my 40s.

Now look at you....... In your 40s, andt it's just 20-year-olds handing you your bag of McDonald's

 

[Stuntone]

I remember when we were telling you guys to get married Bruhs you said I'll still be able to bag 20-year-olds when I'm in my 40s.

Now look at you....... In your 40s, andt it's just 20-year-olds handing you your bag of McDonald's

I feel you, but you got the wrong dude.

Bruh, I make 100k in Louisiana and I DJ too. Girls all in the booth. Needing rides home, want to just chill. Putting me onto new musics.

These 20 year olds are out here!

That's all I'm pulling is 20s and 30s somethings. Pulled a 18 year old at a wedding receptions a few weeks ago, she actually pulled me. Some are gold diggers, but a lot of them just want to be around a man with money to blow and something positive going. Are we building a future together?... Probably not...

Do I spend money on them... Kinda, I keep Don Julio and trees on deck by default, some poboys and pizza and that's more than enough for most of them.


I mean as long as you look decent and clean, you can pull at least an average 20s something. I'm 6'2 and a fly dresser (DC stepped my game up). Not in the best shape, but when I do, it's game over.



Ya'll gone make me post some pics and vids

 

[Mowgli]

I feel you, but you got the wrong dude.

Bruh, I make 100k in Louisiana and I DJ too. Girls all in the booth. Needing rides home, want to just chill. Putting me onto new musics.

These 20 year olds are out here!

That's all I'm pulling is 20s and 30s somethings. Pulled a 18 year old at a wedding receptions a few weeks ago, she actually pulled me. Some are gold diggers, but a lot of them just want to be around a man with money to blow and something positive going. Are we building a future together?... Probably not...

Do I spend money on them... Kinda, I keep Don Julio and trees on deck by default, some poboys and pizza and that's more than enough for most of them.


I mean as long as you look decent and clean, you can pull at least an average 20s something. I'm 6'2 and a fly dresser (DC stepped my game up). Not in the best shape, but when I do, it's game over.



Ya'll gone make me post some pics and vids

Proximity to youth based on your work Djing. Free weed and alcohol provided to birds. We call that a bird feeder. Case closed. Your world is completely different without Dj'ing.

 

[Digital Omen]

Speaking of old head DJs one of my homies is going through it, his wife is taking him to the cleaners in the divorce she filed cuz my guy's 47 and bagging college age broads as a DJ. Some of them are younger than his 25 year old daughter. As a fellow old head divorcee I told him this is all in the game. You can't just stay smashing college birds pushing 50 and not expect it to come back to you.

I say all that to say if you an old head wanting zoomer action get you a MacBook and Serato. Don't even need to learn how to mix and blend, the sync button does it all for you.

 

[Phitz]

I feel you, but you got the wrong dude.

Bruh, I make 100k in Louisiana and I DJ too. Girls all in the booth. Needing rides home, want to just chill. Putting me onto new musics.

These 20 year olds are out here!

That's all I'm pulling is 20s and 30s somethings. Pulled a 18 year old at a wedding receptions a few weeks ago, she actually pulled me. Some are gold diggers, but a lot of them just want to be around a man with money to blow and something positive going. Are we building a future together?... Probably not...

Do I spend money on them... Kinda, I keep Don Julio and trees on deck by default, some poboys and pizza and that's more than enough for most of them.


I mean as long as you look decent and clean, you can pull at least an average 20s something. I'm 6'2 and a fly dresser (DC stepped my game up). Not in the best shape, but when I do, it's game over.



Ya'll gone make me post some pics and vids

That one sentence would have sufficed, even without the 100k and DJ gig. You didn't need the entire post. IT's almost self explanatory.

 

[The ADD]

She’s taking him to the cleaners because she already filed and found out about other women or she found out and filed

 

[10bandz]

Proximity to youth based on your work Djing. Free weed and alcohol provided to birds. We call that a bird feeder. Case closed. Your world is completely different without Dj'ing.

Facts lol. Promoters too.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I remember when we were telling you guys to get married Bruhs you said I'll still be able to bag 20-year-olds when I'm in my 40s.

Now look at you....... In your 40s, andt it's just 20-year-olds handing you your bag of McDonald's

Negro, we just not going out

Some of us are just fine where we at. Nothing out here, and not everyone can paag