Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

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Good stuff. Why do y’all think most men in their early 40s usually don’t date women in their early 40s?
Men are visual. There's a perception that younger is always more beautiful; all that women hitting the wall nonsense is just that... nonsense. I've run across some bad 40+ chicks. Only reason I'm looking younger is I want a kid and I don't want to feel like I have to have it tomorrow with someone older.
 

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Men are visual. There's a perception that younger is always more beautiful; all that women hitting the wall nonsense is just that... nonsense. I've run across some bad 40+ chicks. Only reason I'm looking younger is I want a kid and I don't want to feel like I have to have it tomorrow with someone older.

And with the proliferation of flabby and sick women younger women aren’t immune to being washed in their 20s and 30s. Even going younger it’s still hard to find in shape women, attractive, good career, AND trying to settle down. You basically have to get lucky. Of course this is location dependent so your mileage may vary.
 

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Men are visual. There's a perception that younger is always more beautiful; all that women hitting the wall nonsense is just that... nonsense. I've run across some bad 40+ chicks. reason I'm looking younger is I want a kid and I don't want to feel like I have to have it tomorrow with someone older.
Facts. My Wife’s friend is 40. She wants a family tomorrow and is straight pressure to every man she deals with. So much so they can smell the desperation.
:francis:
She’s a cool chick too. Works, cooks, is pleasant and legit funny. The Atlanta men aren’t checking for her though.
:mjcry:
 

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shyt be hurting my soul seeing the fine ass young chicks let a nicca trap them with a baby and fucck they bodies up.

Chicks be 21-22 and already washed up :francis:
The upside is, as terrible as this sounds, they're just easy pickings at that point :yeshrug:
Can literally damn near never run out of 22 year olds with poor choice making ability when you're 30-35 and doing well in life.
:pachaha:
And I mean FINE ASS 22 year olds :laff: they immediately take a hit in options, start looking for partners who got a little something
going on and all of them standards hit the ocean floor. shyt is :banderas:
 

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The upside is, as terrible as this sounds, they're just easy pickings at that point :yeshrug:
Can literally damn near never run out of 22 year olds with poor choice making ability when you're 30-35 and doing well in life.
:pachaha:
And I mean FINE ASS 22 year olds :laff: they immediately take a hit in options, start looking for partners who got a little something
going on and all of them standards hit the ocean floor. shyt is :banderas:
You can have that. I prefer the ones who don’t let that shyt happen.

Women with kids the most annoying people in the world to try and schedule with
 

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The people who say this, ain’t actually dating or tried to date younger women. I have a few . They’re fun. They’re really fukkin fun. But they’re just for play.

There is no free lunch. BECAUSE they haven’t been beat up by the world and/or dating, they still think the world is their oyster. Younger women are raised by social media and all the delusion, vapidity, and materialism that comes with it. She’s gona have 1k+ followers, she’s gonna think she can do better, etc

So there is a certain age sweet spot as you get older. Traditionally it’s half your age plus 7 but I’d make it more like half your age plus 10

Older women aren't deluded by online?

So older women will go 50/50 on bills?

Older women will date a man making $45,000 a year?


If anything, it sounds like you're saying older men are more valuable to young men. They are way more likely to have resources vs a 20 year old dude.
 

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Facts. My Wife’s friend is 40. She wants a family tomorrow and is straight pressure to every man she deals with. So much so they can smell the desperation.
:francis:
She’s a cool chick too. Works, cooks, is pleasant and legit funny. The Atlanta men aren’t checking for her though.
:mjcry:

She had her chance, she had numerous opportunities. Bet if you were to talk to her she prob has an ex fiance, ex long term bfs that she broke up with who didn't cheat or abuse she just didn't "feel it". But in a blink of an eye years go by and suddenly the hot 28 year old who wants to have fun is now 37, 38, 39, 40 and the pickings are slim. Dudes her age can canoodle and cavort with a 30 year old and older dudes that are available are prob divorced, got a gaggle of kids, flabby and sick or the ones she is interested in again can get a younger woman or just will pump and dump.

buh buh i can go on hinge and get 50 matches but are you walking down the aisle? Do they want to be loyal and start a family with you?
 

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And with the proliferation of flabby and sick women younger women aren’t immune to being washed in their 20s and 30s. Even going younger it’s still hard to find in shape women, attractive, good career, AND trying to settle down. You basically have to get lucky. Of course this is location dependent so your mileage may vary.

I'm 40, every women I knew that was curvy and thick in my 20s are like fat now

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Men are visual. There's a perception that younger is always more beautiful; all that women hitting the wall nonsense is just that... nonsense. I've run across some bad 40+ chicks. Only reason I'm looking younger is I want a kid and I don't want to feel like I have to have it tomorrow with someone older.
Bullshyt. Thats the exception not the rule.
 

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Bullshyt. Thats the exception not the rule.
and those bad 40+ were almost always even badder in their 20s unless they were overweight.

If you live in a major city it's not hard to find attractive 30-something women but once you hit 40s yeah...for men and women that curtain falls quick.
 

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and those bad 40+ were almost always even badder in their 20s unless they were overweight.

If you live in a major city it's not hard to find attractive 30-something women but once you hit 40s yeah...for men and women that curtain falls quick.
Exactly even the most beautiful women in the world like Sofia Vergara, Monica Belluci, Kenya Moore, Salma Hayek, etc. even though they’re still fine now are not as fine as they once were. MFs lying if they say otherwise
 

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Facts. My Wife’s friend is 40. She wants a family tomorrow and is straight pressure to every man she deals with. So much so they can smell the desperation.
:francis:
She’s a cool chick too. Works, cooks, is pleasant and legit funny. The Atlanta men aren’t checking for her though.
:mjcry:
She's aged out in the A

Shiddd.. My female cousin who's in her early 40's threw in the towel on finding love aswell and her dating range was from 35 - 70 yrs old.
 

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Bullshyt. Thats the exception not the rule.

and those bad 40+ were almost always even badder in their 20s unless they were overweight.

If you live in a major city it's not hard to find attractive 30-something women but once you hit 40s yeah...for men and women that curtain falls quick.
Where did I say they were badder? I said they don't hit the wall at the same time.

Date whoever you want it makes me no difference...
 
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