Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Insensitive]

Yeah but at some point “potential” ain’t attractive anymore.

Little kids got “potential”. Many women out there have seen 24-year-olds who have their shyt together and will only make that comparison when they see some 30 year old cats still trying to figure it out.

shyt some kids know exactly what they want to be by the time they’re 10, graduate college at 20 and those aren’t even super geniuses. Women will compare the field to that, shyt as a man I compare people to that.

People entering 30, time is running out if their resources and system around them aren’t great because they’re falling seriously behind. Next thing you know, they’re 40, then 60 and they still don’t have their “wonderful life” meanwhile that 24-year-old and their significant other has been living their “wonderful life” the last 30 years.

This is why you'll see nursing programs with a gang of women who decided "get their shyt together" at like 36.
Taking class with kids 18 years younger than them. Lmfao!

I'm a non-traditional student myself. So I try not to judge to harshly
but it's hard to take people serious who basically fukked around for
a decade+. Even harder when she comes with children especially if the
Children are very young.

 

[lib123]

Most single men/women over the age of 28 are single for a reason.

The most stable relationships with two good partners, college educated, by the time they’re 28 are already an into it a few years and maybe have 1 or more kids they’re raising together.

You aren’t going to keep up with them happy couples who have a solid foundation.

I think that’s moreso for women (assuming she’s seeking a long term relationship) than men. A lot of men who are hip to the game now and realize they’ll have more options if they focus on themselves in their 20s.

 

[Insensitive]

I listen to enough men speaking in real life, podcasts, social media, etc. to know men are just as delusional.

“What do you bring to the table” talk is just as delusional as “I am the table” talk.

Both sexes are equally tripping, but I’m a man, so I’m speaking from a man’s perspective.

If you want to deep dive into how stupid it is for a protector and provider to go into a relationship asking what he’s getting out of it *hint hint, hopefully a great partner, mother to your children and… well, children* we can do that another time. I gotta get some work done.

That's exactly what a man should ask.
Being a provider and protector is largely a thankless job.
I did that in my late 20s, I literally took care of my ex and put that woman up.
She never touched her own money unless she had to, I made the mistake of NOT asking those questions.
Thankfully we didn't have children but the first thing a man should ask himself (and then the woman he wants to commit to)
is exactly that!
"What will this woman bring into my life that'll justify spending 60 to 70 hours at work, dozens of hours doing homework, finishing multiple degrees, missing sleep nightly, saving and investing, etc. What does this woman offer for me to sacrifice so much of my life for ?".
Once I started asking that question, it got a lot easier to to just cut women off or take them less seriously.

 

[aliG]

COVID changed everything

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's exactly what a man should ask.
Being a provider and protector is largely a thankless job.
I did that in my late 20s, I literally took care of my ex and put that woman up.
She never touched her own money unless she had to, I made the mistake of NOT asking those questions.
Thankfully we didn't have children but the first thing a man should ask himself (and then the woman he wants to commit to)
is exactly that!
"What will this woman bring into my life that'll justify spending 60 to 70 hours at work, dozens of hours doing homework, finishing multiple degrees, missing sleep nightly, saving and investing, etc. What does this woman offer for me to sacrifice so much of my life for ?".
Once I started asking that question, it got a lot easier to to just cut women off or take them less seriously.

Western nikkas so stupid and never ask why the fukk am i providing for a bytch my age lmfaooo

nikkas aint in situations where ok she younger and popping out kids every 2 years. Nah nikkas be same age bytch working and just spending her bread on bullshyt while you funding eveything. Aint even like she paying for all the leisure while you pay bills or her money all goes into investments for you both (meaning both names on it).

 

[Insensitive]

Western nikkas so stupid and never ask why the fukk am i providing for a bytch my age lmfaooo

nikkas aint in situations where ok she younger and popping out kids every 2 years. Nah nikkas be same age bytch working and just spending her bread on bullshyt while you funding eveything. Aint even like she paying for all the leisure while you pay bills or her money all goes into investments for you both (meaning both names on it).

That's the reason I'm so picky now.

Had my ex's friends asking "Girl! Does he have a brother ? Or friends?" all because I was doing some sucker ass shyt like paying
all of the bills while she's laid up buying wigs weekly, copping new shein outfits and testing out different nails every other week.
And weed is legal in Cali, so she was smoking CONSTANTLY.
Like spending $1k a month or more on Weed


My money kept going up, my titles were changing, degrees were getting completed, etc. and my ex stayed the same.
Eventually we broke up.
She is still working the same lil dead end job making like $15/hour, I'm so glad I didn't wife her up or have kids with her.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's the reason I'm so picky now.

Had my ex's friends asking "Girl! Does he have a brother ? Or friends?" all because I was doing some sucker ass shyt like paying
all of the bills while she's laid up buying wigs weekly, copping new shein outfits and testing out different nails every other week.
And weed is legal in Cali, so she was smoking CONSTANTLY.
Like spending $1k a month or more on Weed


My money kept going up, my titles were changing, degrees were getting completed, etc. and my ex stayed the same.
Eventually we broke up.
She is still working the same lil dead end job making like $15/hour, I'm so glad I didn't wife her up or have kids with her.

Exactly you a slave to her, and then nikkas wired to be sexual slaves of you not on a sexless financial domination situation.

Unless you want kids or entering your twilight years and just want a gf to keep company those final years the so called judeochristian western commitment idealology makes zero sense. Im mot saying waste away life smashing and dashing or being a monk, i mean its time for men to play by modern rules the way modern women are

 

[Rayzah]

I can’t believe this thread is still going

Funny thing is we had a good two years of Kevin Samuel’s giving guys and girls free game and nikkas was too busy trying to call him every type of bad thing they could think of. He was a grifter, he was gay he was blah blah. Women were trying to cancel him because he didn’t lie to them

People are failing in the dating game because they don’t learn from their mistakes, they aren’t self aware and they are too stupid to take advice from anyone.
People are just mean and bitter, scorned and suffering from PTSD. And this new generation is rude.
We need therapy or church or something to get us out of the cycle

 

[Apollo Creed]

I can’t believe this thread is still going

Funny thing is we had a good two years of Kevin Samuel’s giving guys and girls free game and nikkas was too busy trying to call him every type of bad thing they could think of. He was a grifter, he was gay he was blah blah. Women were trying to cancel him because he didn’t lie to them

People are failing in the dating game because they don’t learn from their mistakes, they aren’t self aware and they are too stupid to take advice from anyone.
People are just mean and bitter, scorned and suffering from PTSD. And this new generation is rude.
We need therapy or church or something to get us out of the cycle

The mordern therapy and church are rooted in and thrive from this disfunction. This whole culture needs to be destroyed and something new created. It’s over this shyt doesnt work no amount of remixing it will make it work.

 

[Givethanks]

I was going out 3 times a week spending almost $100 with 5 different chicks I met, plus gas and I had to buy some new drip. Looking back my pre-FUE pictures makes sense why my ex was walking over me I was washed.

Ahhh that makes sense tbh, I thought it was $700 on like one girl. I was confused to how that even happens.

I knew guys spending like that on escorts but never on dating.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

This is why you'll see nursing programs with a gang of women who decided "get their shyt together" at like 36.
Taking class with kids 18 years younger than them. Lmfao!

I'm a non-traditional student myself. So I try not to judge to harshly
but it's hard to take people serious who basically fukked around for
a decade+. Even harder when she comes with children especially if the
Children are very young.

You don't know peoples circumstances. Maybe they tried to do something creative in their 20s like music or writing or being a filmmaker and they weren't able to make a living at it so they switched up. Maybe they had a drug or alcohol problem and spend their 20's partying. Maybe they met a spiritual guru and spent their 20s living and meditating in Bali. Who cares? Not everyone is super gung ho about "Success" in the traditional sense of stacking achievements and making money. If you think that makes them lesser beings, oh well. You don't take them seriously, they may find you to be boring or pompous.

 

[Insensitive]

You don't know peoples circumstances. Maybe they tried to do something creative in their 20s like music or writing or being a filmmaker and they weren't able to make a living at it so they switched up. Maybe they had a drug or alcohol problem and spend their 20's partying. Maybe they met a spiritual guru and spent their 20s living and meditating in Bali. Who cares? Not everyone is super gung ho about "Success" in the traditional sense of stacking achievements and making money. If you think that makes them lesser beings, oh well. You don't take them seriously, they may find you to be boring or pompous.

Well, the ones I know personally, were actively fukking up.
So I have a hard time believing anyone my age or older that isn't on their shyt wasn't doing anything
but fukking around.

Also, I dated those kinds of women, the "I'm a creative" types.
I'm from LA man! I've had rappers, actresses, photographers, wannabe models, etc.
ALL OF THAT !
Every single one of them broads had no plan in life, they were supposed to just blow up one day.
I'm a rapper, beatmaker, musician, etc.
I was hitting shows, making beats, linking with people, shyt got me right to the point I was meeting punch's artist development team.
shyt was cool! But along the way? I met a lot of aimless, goalless, bums which is cool because people should do whatever they want with
their life but it doesn't mean I shouldn't judge em!

Especially the ones I tried dating seriously while actively ignoring them getting fired, evicted from their apartments, their cars repo'd, kids
not getting christmas gifts. All of this to pursue hoop dreams.

I have SEEN SOME shyt!

 

[that guy]

That's the reason I'm so picky now.

Had my ex's friends asking "Girl! Does he have a brother ? Or friends?" all because I was doing some sucker ass shyt like paying
all of the bills while she's laid up buying wigs weekly, copping new shein outfits and testing out different nails every other week.
And weed is legal in Cali, so she was smoking CONSTANTLY.
Like spending $1k a month or more on Weed


My money kept going up, my titles were changing, degrees were getting completed, etc. and my ex stayed the same.
Eventually we broke up.
She is still working the same lil dead end job making like $15/hour, I'm so glad I didn't wife her up or have kids with her.

I went through this same exact situation in my early 20’s

 

[Sterling Archer]

That's the reason I'm so picky now.

Had my ex's friends asking "Girl! Does he have a brother ? Or friends?" all because I was doing some sucker ass shyt like paying
all of the bills while she's laid up buying wigs weekly, copping new shein outfits and testing out different nails every other week.
And weed is legal in Cali, so she was smoking CONSTANTLY.
Like spending $1k a month or more on Weed


My money kept going up, my titles were changing, degrees were getting completed, etc. and my ex stayed the same.
Eventually we broke up.
She is still working the same lil dead end job making like $15/hour, I'm so glad I didn't wife her up or have kids with her.

Maaan you were playing a dangerous game.

 

[Brolic]

That's the reason I'm so picky now.

Had my ex's friends asking "Girl! Does he have a brother ? Or friends?" all because I was doing some sucker ass shyt like paying
all of the bills while she's laid up buying wigs weekly, copping new shein outfits and testing out different nails every other week.
And weed is legal in Cali, so she was smoking CONSTANTLY.
Like spending $1k a month or more on Weed