Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Insensitive]

Maaan you were playing a dangerous game.

I really was.
When we were on the verge of breaking up, she kept asking for a baby, thinking it would "Fix things".
She knew where I was going and what I was achieving and looking back, I sincerely think she was tryna
be my baby momma.

 

[King Poetic]

I would say this

For the brothers and sisters who’s teens and 20s was wild times. From drinking, smoking, getting pregnant and having kids, going to jail or broke and barely working and surviving, so by 30 majority is burnt out and hard to recover

You see a lot of women who have kids kinda bounce back because they re enrolled in school to better their life and kids because baby daddy or the random nikkas they fukk with at 30,35,40 years old still is on some teenage/20s bullshyt

A lot of the guys tend to shack up at a fat chick house and try to figure out life

 

[that guy]

Well, the ones I know personally, were actively fukking up.
So I have a hard time believing anyone my age or older that isn't on their shyt wasn't doing anything
but fukking around.

Also, I dated those kinds of women, the "I'm a creative" types.
I'm from LA man! I've had rappers, actresses, photographers, wannabe models, etc.
ALL OF THAT !
Every single one of them broads had no plan in life, they were supposed to just blow up one day.
I'm a rapper, beatmaker, musician, etc.
I was hitting shows, making beats, linking with people, shyt got me right to the point I was meeting punch's artist development team.
shyt was cool! But along the way? I met a lot of aimless, goalless, bums which is cool because people should do whatever they want with
their life but it doesn't mean I shouldn't judge em!

Especially the ones I tried dating seriously while actively ignoring them getting fired, evicted from their apartments, their cars repo'd, kids
not getting christmas gifts. All of this to pursue hoop dreams.

I have SEEN SOME shyt!

This is why being a traditional man is overrated in today’s society. Women want a traditional man but don’t want to be traditional women.

Traditional men paid all the household expenses because women weren’t working back then so I told women if you want me to go 100% then you must be planning to quit your job
They hit me with the

Instead of having the benefit of a 2-income household you have one-income, double the expenses, and a frivolous spender.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Well, the ones I know personally, were actively fukking up.
So I have a hard time believing anyone my age or older that isn't on their shyt wasn't doing anything
but fukking around.

Also, I dated those kinds of women, the "I'm a creative" types.
I'm from LA man! I've had rappers, actresses, photographers, wannabe models, etc.
ALL OF THAT !
Every single one of them broads had no plan in life, they were supposed to just blow up one day.
I'm a rapper, beatmaker, musician, etc.
I was hitting shows, making beats, linking with people, shyt got me right to the point I was meeting punch's artist development team.
shyt was cool! But along the way? I met a lot of aimless, goalless, bums which is cool because people should do whatever they want with
their life but it doesn't mean I shouldn't judge em!

Especially the ones I tried dating seriously while actively ignoring them getting fired, evicted from their apartments, their cars repo'd, kids
not getting christmas gifts. All of this to pursue hoop dreams.

I have SEEN SOME shyt!

I'm from L.A. too bro I know exactly the type of folk you talking about
creatives are generally not type A personality types Them Quincy Jones (R.I.P.) or Jay-Z types are rare

A lot of them are reckless and impulsive, comes with the territory. I live by the Oscar Wilde quote "It's absurd to divide people into good or bad. People are either charming or tedious." If you work in finance you'll be around more type A high strung always on point people albeit with nagging coke or Adderall abuse issues.

 

[Astroslik]

COVID changed everything

How? shyt was a sinking ship before then

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is why being a traditional man is overrated in today’s society. Women want a traditional man but don’t want to be traditional women.

Traditional men paid all the household expenses because women weren’t working back then so I told women if you want me to go 100% then you must be planning to quit your job
They hit me with the

Instead of having the benefit of a 2-income household you have one-income, double the expenses, and a frivolous spender.

Thing is nikkas be saying dont work just for the bytch to just be sitting sround and not even having a ton of kids lmfao

 

[MikelArteta]

having a good marriage and a kid is the goat , i pray y'all get to experience a good marriage and a loving family

 

[MostReal]

Good thread brehs

 

[Insensitive]

This is why being a traditional man is overrated in today’s society. Women want a traditional man but don’t want to be traditional women.

Traditional men paid all the household expenses because women weren’t working back then so I told women if you want me to go 100% then you must be planning to quit your job
They hit me with the

Instead of having the benefit of a 2-income household you have one-income, double the expenses, and a frivolous spender.

Heavy on the frivolous spending!

So many women are watching soft life shyt on TikTok and Youtube and think that kind of lifestyle just falls out of the sky
or that the guy who's making all of those sacrifices while he's young (late 20s, early 30s just eaten up by his goals, IE: me) will
want to put his dreams on the line for a bum.
Talkin' about vacations and trips and luxury hotels while making like $45k/yr.

Just silly people who don't live in reality.

 

[Stuntone]

This is why being a traditional man is overrated in today’s society. Women want a traditional man but don’t want to be traditional women.

Traditional men paid all the household expenses because women weren’t working back then so I told women if you want me to go 100% then you must be planning to quit your job
They hit me with the

Instead of having the benefit of a 2-income household you have one-income, double the expenses, and a frivolous spender.

This.

We've allowed Women to pick and choose benefits of the past and avoid their traditional duties. Women arentobligated to do nothing in marriage now. Cooking, cleaning, sex, loyalty all are negotiable depending on their feelings and emotions.