Exploring other options while in a committed relationship

[FLATOP]

if your girl continually went out with a dude she had a connection with would you feel betrayed?

I knew someone would ask a gotcha! question

My post is predicated on the assumption that your partner will never know

 

[Ahadi]

If you have a good one. Don't even think about it.

Trying to find that vibe, that person you can trust, who knows how to lift you up at the end of the day is hard.

There's nothing out here in these streets.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Wither people like it or not this is becoming a normal conversation. Relationships in the us will transcend the rules that have been set many century ago. This year alone I've already meet so many bi sexual males and females. Most people aren't ready to have these types of conversations. Peoples egos is fragile....

Bisexual males Im tired of society

 

[the bossman]

I knew someone would ask a gotcha! question

My post is predicated on the assumption that your partner will never know

Too much work having to tiptoe around.

Honestly this only happens if you get into a so-called committed relationship with someone you not really feelin like that. You just did it for consistent p*ssy, or cause your lady pressured you or whatever.

Now you want to try to go after something you REALLY want, but always have that committed relationship to fall back on just in case.

If that's the case you need to just break it off and go after what you really want. Otherwise you just wasting her and your time

 

[13473]

I knew someone would ask a gotcha! question

My post is predicated on the assumption that your partner will never know

i don't see how that is relevant.

if i cheat on my husband and he never finds out, then it is still a betrayal. it being a betrayal is independent of whether your partner knows or not.

i asked you the question to see how you would categorize the act, and i am guessing yes you'd consider it a betrayal, whether you knew or not, that your girl was meeting up with dudes she had feelings for or connections with. so the same applies when the shoe is on the other foot.

if not an outright betrayal it'd at least be something the other partner was uncomfortable with

 

[intruder]

Penises belong in vaginas. If the attraction is there why not just let nature take its course?
All that marriage and committed relationship shyt is just shyt that man has invented to complicate life. Other animals fukk who they want when they want and live a stress free life.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Maann look at the response in here. When women open open around me the conversations that have had about thier sexual fluidity...nikkas feeling would be hurt. Then again I seen my uncle pimp women so ...I've seen a lot of shyt. You can't have a ego in this game. If I've learned anything from pimps that it ...no ego.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Penises belong in vaginas. If the attraction is there why not just let nature take its course?
All that marriage and committed relationship shyt is just shyt that man has invented to complicate life. Other animals fukk who they want when they want and live a stress free life.

 

[ViShawn]

That's called monkey branching.

I've met a few women I've vibed with and enjoyed talking to. If I were single I would totally go after them. I'm in a relationship though and committed, so I don't try to make new female "friends" or anything like that.

 

[BigMan]

From the sound of it, anything even slightly non-platonic should be bushed or you're not really "committed"

Why do you need to have nonplatonic relationships with women if you’re in a committed relationship

 

[Youseenmywork]

Bisexual males Im tired of society

You haven't seen anything yet ...

 

[MikelArteta]

Isn’t this called tree branching aka never leave your bf or gf unless something else is set up

 

[Basil of Baker Street]

I've been doing this continuously with my current gf. She's just awful. From going back to exes, and testing the waters with 4 other women in a now almost 3 year relationship I'm trying to kick her stupid ass to the curb in the worst way once I find something better physically and she is none the wiser. That's literally the only reason I haven't gotten rid of my girl. She's too damn fine..as soon as an 8 with some sense about her comes through my 9 is getting fukking HURLED in the bushes. All I've been running into have been 7's but they come all the way the fukk through.

My current water tester she's 5 years younger than my girl, submissive, does everything in the bed, freaky as shyt, cooks for me when I ask and rolls me up some shyt after. Only thing is she is a hard 6.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I got approached last year by four married women ....two of them had an open relationship. You guys don't know the jungle is changing. Adapt or die

 

[FLATOP]

i don't see how that is relevant.

if i cheat on my husband and he never finds out, then it is still a betrayal. it being a betrayal is independent of whether your partner knows or not.

i asked you the question to see how you would categorize the act, and i am guessing yes you'd consider it a betrayal, whether you knew or not, that your girl was meeting up with dudes she had feelings for or connections with. so the same applies when the shoe is on the other foot.

if not an outright betrayal it'd at least be something the other partner was uncomfortable with

I think I wrote the OP wrong than what I want to ask. I appreciate the reply.

If your partner wants you to not do something, then you should stop doing it for the sake of the relationship. The choice and consequences are clear to me

I'm asking from the solely personal perspective: Should you engage with people you have a connection with or not