Exploring other options while in a committed relationship
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I don't know how one can NOT at least consider other options, that's such a secular way to live.
Think of all the people you know, then the ones you don't, but want to know and how much experiences you are losing out on. I always have that in my mind.
The very structure of most relationships doesn't really appeal to me, as anything more than one option of many, unfortunately, it is still very much the most common model.
Think of all the people you know, then the ones you don't, but want to know and how much experiences you are losing out on. I always have that in my mind.
The very structure of most relationships doesn't really appeal to me, as anything more than one option of many, unfortunately, it is still very much the most common model.
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I got approached last year by four married women ....two of them had an open relationship. You guys don't know the jungle is changing. Adapt or die
Aceofspades404
Superstar
This is a fear of mine. Being a placeholder while he searches for Ms. right, then when he finds her, leaves you high and dry.
Youseenmywork
KING
I'm not big on celebrities but I believe Kevin gates and dreka gates have an understanding. Last I heard she picks out the females that they entertain. I think dreka is 60/40 or something like that ....
ultraflexed
Superstar
I'm really noticing a worrying trend of people not being committing to anything these days. It's not just relationships, but goals and tasks as well.
Start something when the going is good but crumble at the first sign of adversity.
There's no testimony without a test. Nothing good comes easy
Part of the excitement in pursuing something to the end is overcoming the valleys and trenches to get to peak.
Start something when the going is good but crumble at the first sign of adversity.
There's no testimony without a test. Nothing good comes easy
Part of the excitement in pursuing something to the end is overcoming the valleys and trenches to get to peak.
Youseenmywork
KING
This is a fear of mine. Being a placeholder while he searches for Ms. right, then when he finds her, leaves you high and dry.
How do you convey this feeling when dealing with men or a man ?
I knew something was up....because your "GMB/HOH" post content level has gone WAYYYY down lately.
Hats off, anyway....
Youseenmywork
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BigE214
Future GOAT
If this is something that you're experiencing then you're not down for the person you're with. If you got a ace by your side then getting to know someone or filling a vibe ain't even in the question. Which in turn means you owe to to yourself and the person you're in a relationship with to let it go
Why do you feel like you have to commit for the rest of your life
you can have whatever kinda relationship you want, just find someone on the same pageAceofspades404
Superstar
I don’t. I’ve just grown to be inconspicuous about my feelings and the way I move. Is it healthy? No.
But it is what it is
In marriage you owe each other what you agree to. If agreements are broken thenEven if you're married nowadays...the woman don't owe you shyt. Just look how often they end marriages.
Gotta lay shyt out in the beginning during the engagement phase what you're expectations are.
Youseenmywork
KING
I don’t. I’ve just grown to be inconspicuous about my feelings and the way I move. Is it healthy? No.
But it is what it is
I gotcha ...