Extremely introverted black men Appreciation

[east]

never had a problem dating as an extreme introvert but it would be much more difficult without the internet. i wouldn't be a foreveralone if i never dated anyone i met online but i'd be very close.

i can see why older heads would have the opinion that it would be romantically stunting

 

[Lannister]

I feel as though your life is somewhat limited when you are an introvert.

And this is coming from someone who is one.

Life is what you make it. I don't feel like my life is limited at all. I can go out, have a good time, enjoy myself but it's not something I can do all the time. I got sick of it real quick when I was younger and had a decent circle of friends.

 

[Street Messiah]

If i could change one thing about myself it would easily be to be an extrovert. Life is simply harder when its a task to be social. I wish we didnt place so much importance on it but it is what it is.

 

[King Static X]

Being introvert doesn’t always mean that your shy and social awkward. I’ve known plenty of introverts who do well in social settings. It basically just means that you usually prefer to spend most of your time alone then with other people.

lol @ all these people just coming out to shyt on what they think is introversion.

social anxiety and shyness are not introversion. those are their own separate situations. a lot of people be claiming introvert when really, they just scary

but also, some people who claim extrovert, are just annoying, attention seeking, mufukas

Exactly.

 

[jaydawg08]

When I'm at work I generally don't say much. People be gossiping and probaby say a bunch of negative things when I'm not there. I like some of the younger people, and we finally got a young black dude from Cali who's a cool dude.

That's the one thing about these places man, when you're around a bunch of white people.... Gossip

 

[Warren Peace]

In light of Devanté Swing skipping the BET awards and being damn near untraceable in life...I just wanna say

I love y'all

Out the way brothas

Private brothas

Quiet brothas

You are appreciated

this is a crippling disability man I desperately wanna enjoying hanging out with people. I just can't. shyt's exhausting.

 

[Lannister]

Introverts are more likely to be socially stunted.

This will cause issues with communication, social situations, networking and as a by product this affect things like relationships, jobs/work life, opportunities, experiences etc.

You're also less likely to be trusted and less likely for people to actually want to be around you or even want to talk to you.

It's just a bunch of disadvantages. There is nothing good about being an introvert.

You getting introversion confused with social anxiety. When you're introvert, you just simply prefer your own company, and it when it comes social engagement, you're more selective instead of rushing out to every gathering or event. Most introverts can navigate social situations just fine if need be, many are successful(ton of people in Hollywood, business are introverted), but it's seen as more of a means to an end.

Social anxious people tend to be more socially stunted and awkward. They usually avoid a social opportunity and gathering all together, and go to extreme lengths to do so.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I admire extroverts and at times.i.wish I could talk about any and everything but its not who I am. Growing up I truly thought I was just weird

 

[Jazzy B.]

Someone is mad at introverts

Why would I be mad at introverts?

You just prefer to spend most of your time alone then with other people.

Think about what you just wrote breh.

Do you think it's normal or healthy for a person to willingly prefer wanting to spend their time alone?

That is called being antisocial. What positive or benefit is there to being that?

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Why would I be mad at introverts?




Think about what you just wrote breh.

Do you think it's normal or healthy for a person to willingly prefer wanting to spend their time alone?

That is called being antisocial. What positive or benefit is there to being that?

Because you made a wide generalizatin of introverts, not even knowing what an introvert really is.
Introverts can be extroverted, have plenty of friends, etc. it's simply a personality type
They need time to themselves how long that depends on the person it could range from being a complete loner for who knows how long
to spending a couple of hours to themselves.

 

[Majestyx]

this is a crippling disability man I desperately wanna enjoying hanging out with people. I just can't. shyt's exhausting.

you not an introvert, stop it. introversion is not a disability.

 

[Throne.]

I recently figured out I truly did not care about 90% of people i speak too. I be forgetting our last conversation, don’t ask followup questions, dropping on texting, perfectly fine with not speaking for weeks. Can never relate to anyone etc. But when I fukk with you and comfortable my personality shines. I do t get how extroverts can just walk up to strangers bearing all their gifts. That only is good when you’re an attractive female.

It does suck when I’m out and about and someone tries to start a conversation with me and catches me off guard. I be just saying a sentence or two and end the convo. It’s quite pathetic

 

[Warren Peace]

you not an introvert, stop it. introversion is not a disability.

nikka gon tell me what i am

i don't know what to tell you, I don't like being around people. I wish I did because it would make networking much much easier.

 

[Jazzy B.]

You getting introversion confused with social anxiety. When you're introvert, you just simply prefer your own company, and it when it comes social engagement, you're more selective instead of rushing out to every gathering or event. Most introverts can navigate social situations just fine if need be, many are successful(ton of people in Hollywood, business are introverted), but it's seen as more of a means to an end.

Social anxious people tend to be more socially stunted and awkward. They usually avoid a social opportunity and gathering all together, and go to extreme lengths to do so.

I'm not.

To be introverted means you are either antisocial or have some form of social anxiety.

You are drained of energy when you are around people.

This means you are socially stunted either way.

Everything I said still applies.

 

[Majestyx]

nikka gon tell me what i am

i don't know what to tell you, I don't like being around people. I wish I did because it would make networking much much easier.

cuz you mentioned "crippling". nothing about being an introvert makes being around social settings crippling bro. introverts will prioritize alone time over social shyt, while also preferring smaller gatherings over large shyt. an introvert will be cool with kickin it with like 5-10 folks, introvert might even be the one to set up the function. introverts aren't shaking at the though of social gatherings. introverts are more or less more self focused. its more akin ot being indifferent than being scary/anxiety