F!!K low self-esteem

[mortuus est]

Yes just not self help books though.

not self help books, alot of history is incoded in books tho and the human condition, if you read then you wouldn't say

I don't know why but its comforting to know that others have gone through the exact same problem if there is clearly an article on it.

just an observation, you read philosophy?

 

[Roid Jones]

You got a shytty diet?

I'm glad you brought that up, people look at all sorts of factors but leave out what they are eating. A shyt diet and poor sleeping habits are things that need to be addressed. Also working out I feel is a must, it does not have to be bodybuilding but the body needs to be active in some way.

 

[Roid Jones]

What advice would you have for someone who isn't superficial? Could care less what these nikkas have. What gets me, or what got me, was the fact that majority of my friends had already graduated college, moved into their own place, traveling, etc. while I'm stuck attempting to finish school, lucked into a decent job, still living with moms, and don't have any hobbies. I believe I have a good enough grasp onto who I am; lazy, polite, vulnerable, caring, "old soul", dependent.

The real question is what do you want?

 

[Roid Jones]

Life isn't a race. Everyone moves at a different pace. Pay no mind to what your friends are doing. They're most likely using money they don't have for travel aka credit cards and I'm sure they're still paying off school loans and paying quite a bit on rent. So yeah it looks like they're doing a lot but they are at the expense of more debt. Right now you have an advantage. The current situation may seem to suck but it isn't that bad. Yes you live with moms but what does that let you do? Save more money. Your expenses are most likely much cheaper with moms. That allows you to save money easier and pay for your school and not have to worry about debt or anything. Hobbies, Try to find something based off your interests. If you don't have many interests try and think of something you've always wanted to try or something that sounds cool. As I said above though stop comparing yourself. I grew up comparing myself to everyone and it just leaves you feeling like shyt. If you can unplug from Facebook or Instagram too. At least until you stabalize. It's bad for people like us with self esteem issues.

The bolded is bullshyt to me, why must we create negative contrast? why can't we use what others are doing as extra motivation, being negative is just another reason to remain in a rut

 

[Catch these Hands]

The bolded is bullshyt to me, why must we create negative contrast? why can't we use what others are doing as extra motivation, being negative is just another reason to remain in a rut

It's not about being negative it's being realistic. Judging by his post I'm guessing he's in his early 20s. Hardly anyone at that age has expendable income. People that graduate college now either have loans to pay or don't have a lot of money from paying for school if they worked while in school.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

not self help books, alot of history is incoded in books tho and the human condition, if you read then you wouldn't say


just an observation, you read philosophy?

None really. I read fiction and I read a lot of it. I love reading in general though so hit me with those recommendations brother.

I'm glad you brought that up, people look at all sorts of factors but leave out what they are eating. A shyt diet and poor sleeping habits are things that need to be addressed. Also working out I feel is a must, it does not have to be bodybuilding but the body needs to be active in some way.

shyt I can speak from this from personal experience. I don't even work out yet but I already have a better mindset and boost of moral and energy with the way I've been eating now.

We tend to forget our body is a temple. We take care of our computers better more than ourselves.

 

[N*E*R*D]

Sorry to hear about your father. My condolences.

Thank You