Faithful Brethren: how do you avoid the puzzy thrown at you?

[LordFendiMane]

I don't befriend females anymore because it's inevitable. There is no such thing as a platonic friendship to men because it's gonna cross your mind many times. Also, women don't give a fukk if you gave a girl whether they admit it or not.

 

[Carolina Slim]

I have been struggling with this recently at work too.... There is this cute lil thang that works on my floor with a different team. Cute face, ridiculous booty and real sweet personality. She just started not too long ago but I used to work with her homegirl in another department. We kick it off and on, and she low key let me know that other broads in her group was hating on her cause they see us kicking it and generally getting along well. She was like "they always telling me, 'ain't he married', why you always hanging around him" but made sure to let me know she ain't care cause she know what it is between us. A couple times she wound up chilling at my cube talking and conversation got sideways, when she told me how she's a squirter and loves anal. A n1gga had a rough night that night with that on his mind, lol. I had to start falling back cause I know this is the kind of situation that leads to fire. But then shorty popped over to my cube and was like "you know, you can come see me, I seen you walk by like ten times today" and the broads in my team was looking at me like . Then I ran into her in the breakroom and we was sitting down during lunch, and she looked at me real serious and said "I'm not a homewrecker", left a n1gga like , but I quickly recovered and kept it pimpin and told her "I know that, you ain't gotta tell me... Unless you hiding some motives"..... I think the fact that I'm a married n1gga who ain't necessarily tryna spit good game at her, and says whatever is on his mind is messing with her... Low key I've caught her standing up working and when I look up, smiling at a n1gga on some ... Fortunately I get to go home to wifey and get it out my system.

 

[Solano707]

Where are you stationed at?

I'm in Kuwait right now

 

[Lakers Offseason]

If you have kids, work them in the conversation. Should kill it right there.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

I'm in Kuwait right now

Wow...I know your wife is counting down these next few months.

 

[Carolina Slim]

If you have kids, work them in the conversation. Should kill it right there.

That doesn't always work... If a female is about that hustle, that won't stop her. I've had broads come at me on some "aww, you are such a good father... your wife is lucky to have you.... "

 

[Lakers Offseason]

That doesn't always work... If a female is about that hustle, that won't stop her. I've had broads come at me on some "aww, you are such a good father... your wife is lucky to have you.... "

True. If you're dealing with a slut, then it's a bit different.

At that point, it's best to avoid a situation where you can accidentally trip into her puzzy

 

[Carolina Slim]

I been trying to stay low with ol girl... Just ran into her outside the bathroom, like "I'll come by your spot later". I think she loves pissing off these white broads that I work with.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

As far as your last passive aggressive insult, I've stated in my previous post that the basis of my relations with some women isn't there for a purely physical standpoint, but since you are clearly curious, I also have a man that is something like a brother to me that I discuss day-to-day events with and personal matters - although I've never been interested in sleeping with him. Dad is always a phone call away, too, so I do guess I have a pretty decent support system all around.

Sorry if you thought I was implying that you're ghey. I am strongly suggesting that you keep it real with a woman and follow through with the whole relationship not just the puzzy. Women say they are okay with sport fukcing but all women want to be a mate (they migt not wanna be that particual dude's mate so she cuts out on him, but she can be settled down right quick by a man she's feeling). You said yourself that they sometimes come with the blah blah blah and you let em go. You're using them.

I was imagining that scenario where dudes love they boys but shyt on women. Let they boys fukc they women. Spend all day with their boys. Suggesting that you put that kind of energy into your woman, not other niqqas. I am speaking from the standpoint of someone who thinks you will eventually get where I'm at. Giving you some of the important benefits in case it helps you decide to try it.

I still think the safe sex piece is a huge reason. Getting head raw and all that heavy petting shyt is not safe sex. The wrong stripper rubbing her finger on your lip could be bad.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

IM BAD AT CATCHING WHEN WOMEN ARE FLIRTING WITH ME SO THAT HELPS.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

If you are faithful to your lady, what are some tips for staying ahead of the homewreckers who will offer no strings poon tang?

Me first: had a bish ask me to help her videotape a speech for graduate school. Askin me about the capabilities of my computer at home (ie, needing to come through my place).

Deaded it right there. No intimate study sessions.

breh...there aint no secret to it.

simply decide.

decide what kind of man youre gonna be and what youre gonna be about....

will there be temptation....yep....but once you make up your mind beforehand that youre not gonna cheat on your lady....thats that

im not gonna hurt my wife.... plain and simple.

and im no holier-than-thou nikka...i ruined my first marriage doing that...and spent years after my divorce doing the same thing....i grew up breh....lifes too short for all the drama and headaches cheating leads to

 

[So-Chi]

Where are you stationed at?

the struggle continues breh

 

[Killer Instinct]

Sorry if you thought I was implying that you're ghey. I am strongly suggesting that you keep it real with a woman and follow through with the whole relationship not just the puzzy. Women say they are okay with sport fukcing but all women want to be a mate (they migt not wanna be that particual dude's mate so she cuts out on him, but she can be settled down right quick by a man she's feeling). You said yourself that they sometimes come with the blah blah blah and you let em go. You're using them.

I was imagining that scenario where dudes love they boys but shyt on women. Let they boys fukc they women. Spend all day with their boys. Suggesting that you put that kind of energy into your woman, not other niqqas. I am speaking from the standpoint of someone who thinks you will eventually get where I'm at. Giving you some of the important benefits in case it helps you decide to try it.

I still think the safe sex piece is a huge reason. Getting head raw and all that heavy petting shyt is not safe sex. The wrong stripper rubbing her finger on your lip could be bad.

Don't necessarily agree with a few things, but I do appreciate the thought. For now, I'm living life the way I choose and enjoying these few years.


If, and when, the time comes that I choose to settle down, I'll make that jump when I'm ready.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

the struggle continues breh

 

[Theraflu]

breh...there aint no secret to it.

simply decide.

decide what kind of man youre gonna be and what youre gonna be about....

will there be temptation....yep....but once you make up your mind beforehand that youre not gonna cheat on your lady....thats that

im not gonna hurt my wife.... plain and simple.

and im no holier-than-thou nikka...i ruined my first marriage doing that...and spent years after my divorce doing the same thing....i grew up breh....lifes too short for all the drama and headaches cheating leads to

THIS is all that needs to be said.

Make up your mind what kind of man you're going to be.

Almost every marriage in my family was ruined by cheating.

I decided I wasn't gonna be about that and that's it.

Life's too short.

Unless your wife turns into a dead fish in bed then just keep fukking