Faithful Brethren: how do you avoid the puzzy thrown at you?

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Usually science, basketball, or art. Other times, I'm thinking about the poor mental abilities I come across daily and why do I have to be surrounded by idiots. I think about vagina like 4 mins a day at the most.

I refuse to be classified as equal to a man who is mostly only capable of thinking about "p*ssy." We are not the same. We are not mentally equal. That man would be lesser than I.

are you a scientist?
 

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and like dude said earlier. avoid any uncomfortable situation at all costs. The one time I cheated I was drunk :to:.
 

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As far as relationships go, I'm at a point in my life where I have no interest in being with one woman. I tell every one of them right out of the gate. Some the relationships are purely physical, others are physical with conversation and random nights together, but that's about it. Entering some of the best years of my life and there's no way I'm ready for that commitment. Kudos to those fellas who can and do.
 

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As far as relationships go, I'm at a point in my life where I have no interest in being with one woman. I tell every one of them right out of the gate. Some the relationships are purely physical, others are physical with conversation and random nights together, but that's about it. Entering some of the best years of my life and there's no way I'm ready for that commitment. Kudos to those fellas who can and do.

One simple boundary: safe sex. Do you just not practice it or are you okay with not kissing or giving each other head? (Safe cunnilingus involves Saran Wrap.. awful).

Besides being able to nut in her raw dog - which might be my top reason for keeping her/keeping it teal with her - there is no friend in the world like a woman who loves you. Lemme guess, you share your innermost feelings with other men instead..
 

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in the 10 years i been married, i cheated twice. once that my wife knows about and one she doesn't (didn't go farther than lackluster head that lasted 2 minutes :snoop:). both times were during times where i thought divorce was imminent. i have decided to stop pressing my luck and get serious. even when we are having issues. i really love my wife with everything and i don't want to hurt her at all for any reason. so i shun all strange twat whenever it's presented. not worth hurting someone that i love dearly and messing up our stable family life and giving some other nikka the opportunity to come in and take my place in the household. just the thought of that makes me wanna puke :scusthov:

so to answer the question, it's not hard to be faithful. just think about what's important and what you stand to lose if shyt goes sideways. it will ALWAYS be worth more than the side twat you are trying to get.
 

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Very simple for me...I just think about what I have at home.

Do we have a little fun as guys? Yeah, if shorty is throwing the flirt action at us (or me) then I'll engage her a bit, just to see her get let down when I bring up my fiance (or when she asks if I have a GF, I just don't lie lol)

It is hard, but so is getting up for work everyday, saving money, raising a child(ren)...Nothing worth doing in life is easy (and that goes for staying faithful)
 

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Honestly we are men and we got p*ssy on the brain 24/7 and the struggle is real out chea. But I think the struggle is lost or won with what type of dude you are. Me I'm a real loyal dude and love my home life. Love my wife and my kids, and really don't think some side p*ssy is worth fukkin that up. My pops was influential in this too though. He never cheated on mom dukes, and if he did he never ever had it spill over to home. But I honestly think he never did. Dude was about his family and work.
So when the temptation is real I fight it and fukk the shyt out of my wife. Porn will help you get the demon seed out too lol and you'll be clear headed after you get that nut out.

If you got a good woman the grass ain't always greener. But we all know the fight is always on so I salute my soldiers out there keeping it honest with they women. :salute:
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Lord, let my future husband be this way!!
 

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It's not as hard some may thing. I mean banging chicks is a awesome idea, but going through with it is suicide especially if you value the relatiionship you have with your lady. She is going through the same thing as you are. But if you made that commitment, and you are faithful, then there isn't anything on your heart that makes it weigh heavy. Right now, I've been deployed for 9 months, in 3 months I go home. Now I've seen some really good looking females, and even work with some - but I would not dare cross that line and break that trust with my wife. I know what is waiting for me back home - she is worth every bit worth of the wait.

Some people can look their better half square in the eye and not blink knowing full well they are dogging them out... what comes around goes around.

BTW - I masturbate like crazy so this helps out too :mjpls:
 

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It's not as hard some may thing. I mean banging chicks is a awesome idea, but going through with it is suicide especially if you value the relatiionship you have with your lady. She is going through the same thing as you are. But if you made that commitment, and you are faithful, then there isn't anything on your heart that makes it weigh heavy. Right now, I've been deployed for 9 months, in 3 months I go home. Now I've seen some really good looking females, and even work with some - but I would not dare cross that line and break that trust with my wife. I know what is waiting for me back home - she is worth every bit worth of the wait.

Some people can look their better half square in the eye and not blink knowing full well they are dogging them out... what comes around goes around.

BTW - I masturbate like crazy so this helps out too :mjpls:
Where are you stationed at?
 

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One simple boundary: safe sex. Do you just not practice it or are you okay with not kissing or giving each other head? (Safe cunnilingus involves Saran Wrap.. awful).

Besides being able to nut in her raw dog - which might be my top reason for keeping her/keeping it teal with her - there is no friend in the world like a woman who loves you. Lemme guess, you share your innermost feelings with other men instead..

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I'm not sure how relaying my personal choices effected you enough to delve into childish personal insults, but I value my health and well being entirely too much to have unprotected sex. I'm not interested in children, currently. In fact, at this point in life, I'm solely focused on furthering my own goals and don't have any inclination nor desire to attempt to engage in a serious, interpersonal relationship with another human being. Every woman I've interacted with on a physical level isn't bamboozled by any of this after she's spread her legs - they're informed well ahead of time, and they make a decision to entertain or to not entertain the situation like a rational adult would.

As far as your last passive aggressive insult, I've stated in my previous post that the basis of my relations with some women isn't there for a purely physical standpoint, but since you are clearly curious, I also have a man that is something like a brother to me that I discuss day-to-day events with and personal matters - although I've never been interested in sleeping with him. Dad is always a phone call away, too, so I do guess I have a pretty decent support system all around.
 

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As far as relationships go, I'm at a point in my life where I have no interest in being with one woman. I tell every one of them right out of the gate. Some the relationships are purely physical, others are physical with conversation and random nights together, but that's about it. Entering some of the best years of my life and there's no way I'm ready for that commitment. Kudos to those fellas who can and do.

No man should ever settle down and commit until he's ready. It's hard enough to restrain yourself when you are ready. It's pretty much impossible to do so when you aren't. I applaud you for being honest with yourself and the females as well. Too many people lie to themselves (and others) when it comes to relationships.
 

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No man should ever settle down and commit until he's ready. It's hard enough to restrain yourself when you are ready. It's pretty much impossible to do so when you aren't. I applaud you for being honest with yourself and the females as well. Too many people lie to themselves (and others) when it comes to relationships.


My sentiments exactly. :salute:
 
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