Faithful Brethren: how do you avoid the puzzy thrown at you?

JLova

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It's not as hard some may thing. I mean banging chicks is a awesome idea, but going through with it is suicide especially if you value the relatiionship you have with your lady. She is going through the same thing as you are. But if you made that commitment, and you are faithful, then there isn't anything on your heart that makes it weigh heavy. Right now, I've been deployed for 9 months, in 3 months I go home. Now I've seen some really good looking females, and even work with some - but I would not dare cross that line and break that trust with my wife. I know what is waiting for me back home - she is worth every bit worth of the wait.

Some people can look their better half square in the eye and not blink knowing full well they are dogging them out... what comes around goes around.

BTW - I masturbate like crazy so this helps out too :mjpls:

Same. love my girl too much to cheat. Would be a very dumb idea. Built up too much to throw it all away. I jerk it on occasion to keep my sanity :damn:.

Summer is tough :sadbron:
 

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When I had a gf? Wasn't hard, I just refused to think about it. If I thought about it too much I knew I might slip, so I'd just dismiss chicks automatically.

if you really love someone you won't even think about it brehs. That's your woman, that's your teammate - end of story. At least that's how I looked at it.
 

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1. monogamy isn't natural
2. majority of women will take you back anyways if you cheat
3. nearly 70% of wives will cheat on their husbands at one point
 

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shyt isn't even hard for me. I can't even really relate to nikkas who act like it is. The only shyt that's difficult is getting to the point in my life where I wasn't thinking I was entitled to fukk other broads despite whatever commitments I made to my girl at the time. Physically its nothing to resist fukking a broad for me though, I'm not a teenager, and I've fukked enough p*ssy and had too much p*ssy thrown at me to still trip over it easily.

Beyond that my wife is the just GOAT. She's my best friend plus gives me great sex, great conversation, and holds me down in everything. Why would I ruin that by fukking with a broad I won't be able to stand to look at after. And that I won't even be able to hit raw :bryan:
 

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Faithful breh's how many of you are still attracted to your S.O

I think knowing how beautiful the woman you have at home is helps too...

This is definitely key. It's one thing to turn down hot young slore when you got a bad broad at home. But if you going home to Florida Evans....:patrice:. :russ:

Seriously though it's not all about her being a beauty queen it's about here doing it for you. You just gotta know your type. You find a woman that does it for you and she's fun to be around and can cook and has a good head on her shoulders. :blessed:
 

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This is definitely key. It's one thing to turn down hot young slore when you got a bad broad at home. But if you going home to Florida Evans....:patrice:. :russ:

Seriously though it's not all about her being a beauty queen it's about here doing it for you. You just gotta know your type. You find a woman that does it for you and she's fun to be around and can cook and has a good head on her shoulders. :blessed:

LOOOL @ Florida Evans, breh you ain't shyt :dead:

Yea it helps. My girl has remained a size 4 through out the relationship. I know she'll gain abit when we have kids but as long as she stays in shape I'll be good. :blessed:
 

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LOOOL @ Florida Evans, breh you ain't shyt :dead:

Yea it helps. My girl has remained a size 4 through out the relationship. I know she'll gain abit when we have kids but as long as she stays in shape I'll be good. :blessed:

Working out together :shaq:
 

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Working out together :shaq:

Exactly. I don't get when breh's just give up when the missus starts gaining pounds

Man get her some gym wear and sneakers, get gym memberships and drag her ass to the gym every night with you, be her personal trainer.

Now if your wife isn't interested in going gym and is content with the weight gain ..... :patrice:
 

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It comes down to making a personal decision about who you are. Just like most things...
 
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