People love to say monogamy isn't natural. either they love drama and creating it or they haven't been in a relationship where infidelity happened.1. monogamy isn't natural
2. majority of women will take you back anyways if you cheat
3. nearly 70% of wives will cheat on their husbands at one point
in the 10 years i been married, i cheated twice. once that my wife knows about and one she doesn't (didn't go farther than lackluster head that lasted 2 minutes). both times were during times where i thought divorce was imminent. i have decided to stop pressing my luck and get serious. even when we are having issues. i really love my wife with everything and i don't want to hurt her at all for any reason. so i shun all strange twat whenever it's presented. not worth hurting someone that i love dearly and messing up our stable family life and giving some other nikka the opportunity to come in and take my place in the household. just the thought of that makes me wanna puke
so to answer the question, it's not hard to be faithful. just think about what's important and what you stand to lose if shyt goes sideways. it will ALWAYS be worth more than the side twat you are trying to get.
True. If you're dealing with a slut, then it's a bit different.
At that point, it's best to avoid a situation where you can accidentally trip into her puzzy![]()
If I may ask, did you think divorce was imminent because she found out about you cheating?
Peace
no. we were having issues beforehand. lots of arguing back and forth. just a disconnect. and neither of us were working towards reconnecting. just lots of finger pointing. during that time, i went to vegas for a bachelor party and during a drunken stuper (i don't drink, by the way), i got some 30 second struggle head. i deaded that as soon as it started. i didn't want to go that route again to solve the issue. she doesn't know about that one. that was the second time. the first time, we actually separated and i got my own spot. after trying to get back with her for 5 months and kept getting rejected, i gave up and stumbled upon some strange. THATS when she wanted to finally talk. she showed up at my crib unannounced when ol girl was there (she didn't know that i had moved on) and all hell broke loose. we eventually worked it out and moved on.
i would never do either one again tho. i'll just walk away completely and file for divorce and wait until its final to even begin to think about pursuing other women. it's not fair to her and i regret both situations totally. it makes me feel like shyt when i think about it.
play dumb and don't read between the lines