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I had a relative pass away and left my father enough money for 2 or 3 lifetimes, I'm talking like millions. However, he has decided to not share any of it with me or my brother. Or his ex wife (my mom). My mom helped put my bro through engineering school without any help from my father. I'm still paying for school loans.

My guy friend says I'm wrong for wanting anything from my father. I feel like he should want to see his seeds come up without struggling.

Am i wrong for wanting help from my dad knowing that he could provide it easily???

No. You are not wrong for wanting your pops to break bread, but you can’t force him to break bread with you nor your brother. I am not sure what type of relationship you have with your pops, but if he isn’t willing to share the wealth, then he probably don’t have you nor your brother in his will. Maybe he does have you in his will? I don’t know?

Maybe you could hit him up and ask him why he isn’t willing to help you out?
 

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I'm reading this thinking fuk your pops, but then I thought if my parents got a large sum of money I couldn't see them giving me any. I'm sure they would put it in the will, but they aren't just writing out checks.
:mjcry:
 

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Maybe your pops had some doubts about paternity? Or maybe the will was altered.

Don't let it get you bent out of shape. If it really bothers you seek a lawyer.
Lawyers can't force a person on how to spend money he inherited.

Anyway, I think best strategy to get some of that money is to become his best son just like those gold diggers but dude had a rough upbringing with him. :yeshrug:
 

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We all know he's not obligated to break bread but the fact that he wont chip his seeds off is pretty foul unless yall dod something shytty to him

We never did anything to him. After he and my mom divorced he kept it moving. I was the one who would initiate keeping in contact with him. We would go months and months not hearing from him. My brother and i never did anything to him.
 

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I'm reading this thinking fuk your pops, but then I thought if my parents got a large sum of money I couldn't see them giving me any. I'm sure they would put it in the will, but they aren't just writing out checks.
:mjcry:

Is it a race thing? A culture thing? I see immigrants that i work with send all kinds of money back home to help their family. Then they send for them and help them get on their feet.

I've seen others races leave their kids trust funds, and they have access to it before the parent dies. And it helps them get a good start in life.

Why are we content with seeing our seeds struggle?
 

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Is it a race thing? A culture thing?
I don't think so, I work with several brehs who are still cutting their adult children checks large checks for car repairs and other day to day things. I listen to them complain thinking, I hope my kids get their shyt together cause I can't see myself writing out checks after their past the age of 22.
 
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