The problem is her insecurities, not respect.Treat people like humans even if you aren't trying to have sex with them, it's not a radical concept.
The problem is her insecurities, not respect.
If a man she isn't attracted to walks into a room with her and doesn't say a word she doesn't even pay it any mind, yet if a man she were attracted to was just as silent her insecurities would make her perceive that as disrespect.
Ironically enough, she proves that point herselfI think this is dismissive because it doesn't negate the argument that people treat people they aren't attracted to worse. She has attractive friends and gets to bear witness to the stark contrast in real time, she even gave examples that dismiss the idea that it's all in her mind.

What kind of mental gymnastics. 
One last example. Hanging with my friends at our homegirl’s place. She invites her boo and his friends over. Each of my thin friends were being chatted up by one dude. The one dude left completely ignored me. Like didn’t even make small talk—nothing.
Men’s entitlement is funny as hell. They really think they’re owed access to women for the simplest shyt.
Do women carry this same energy
I’m all for people living by the golden rule and common courtesy..
But the argument this young lady is making is full on hypocritical at best..
Double standard at the least..
If some women had to deal with the rejection brehs have to deal with
If we are going to have serious discussions on romance and attraction..
A lot of these Twitter fingers are going to have to start being transparent and honest..
The same energy she is expecting..
I guarantee she is not practicing with the fat, nice nikka that really digs her..
Or..
The goofy/awkward nikka..
And I know brehettes will talk all that standards shyt..
But get mad at a nikka that has standards
People feel the need to desire what they WANT..
This goes for the everyday joe, incel, fat nikka/fat girl and so forth..
People are entitled and want others to do the work for them..
Instead of being introspective, doing the hard work and becoming better..
I’ve been a fat nikka all my life(lost 35 pounds recently)..
Suffered self esteem issues, got rejected all through high school..
Yeah I was bitter for a moment..
Got my social weight up(don’t ask me how)in college and turned into a complete a$$hole until about 31 because of past slights(hurt a lot of women along the way
)
At the end of this anecdote..
I had to do work on my inner self and out..
This young lady is projecting like a mug..
Nobody owes you conversation or anything in this world..
It’s the harsh realities..
I think everybody wished things were different..
But these tweets reveal something much deeper..
Get better or stay bitter![]()
Shes not entitled to ANYONES respect PERIODThank you! Combine a lack of reading comprehension skills with general disgust with fat people and you get the responses in this thread. Y’all saw how big she was and all logic went out the window.
She’s not saying she’s entitled to a man’s attraction, she’s saying when a man is not attracted to you they aren’t even capable of respecting you, as evidenced by the vast majority in this thread.
Like, why is the solution for her to lose weight, rather than just being decent fukking person capable of showing respect regardless of whether you want to fukk someone?
It’s mind boggling to me how people cannot seem to treat fat people with respect. Physical attractiveness should have no bearing on whether you are respected.
Shes not entitled to ANYONES respect PERIOD
I wish yall would get that through yalls thick skulls