Fat IG model tired of being treated badly by men, tells some stories

Kane1

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When a fat lady starts talking.....I start walking :hubie:





I don't have the time to listen to ugly/fat chicks.....SIMP do tho:flabbynsick:
 

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Treat people like humans even if you aren't trying to have sex with them, it's not a radical concept.
The problem is her insecurities, not respect.

If a man she isn't attracted to walks into a room with her and doesn't say a word she doesn't even pay it any mind, yet if a man she were attracted to was just as silent her insecurities would make her perceive that as disrespect.
 

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The problem is her insecurities, not respect.

If a man she isn't attracted to walks into a room with her and doesn't say a word she doesn't even pay it any mind, yet if a man she were attracted to was just as silent her insecurities would make her perceive that as disrespect.

I think this is dismissive because it doesn't negate the argument that people treat people they aren't attracted to worse. She has attractive friends and gets to bear witness to the stark contrast in real time, she even gave examples that dismiss the idea that it's all in her mind.
 

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I think this is dismissive because it doesn't negate the argument that people treat people they aren't attracted to worse. She has attractive friends and gets to bear witness to the stark contrast in real time, she even gave examples that dismiss the idea that it's all in her mind.
Ironically enough, she proves that point herself




People you aren't attracted to are dogs or people you aren't attracted to must be treated with respect by everyone :hula:
 

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So on one hand shesupset that men that were interested in her friends more than her basically ignored her

Then on the other hand she feels like men who re interested in her but she isn't interested in them shouldnt feel entitled to her attention

:mjlol: What kind of mental gymnastics.

So why are the men who ignored you wrong but you're right when you choose to ignore men you're not attracted to?!? :mjlol:
 

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One last example. Hanging with my friends at our homegirl’s place. She invites her boo and his friends over. Each of my thin friends were being chatted up by one dude. The one dude left completely ignored me. Like didn’t even make small talk—nothing.

Men’s entitlement is funny as hell. They really think they’re owed access to women for the simplest shyt.

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She’s probably rude and blunt and cock blocks. Or either her friends get approached by a$$holes and her friends have no standards. If a woman is approached by a guy when she’s out with her friends and that guy is being rude to her friends he should be dismissed. It shows where she stacks up with her friends.
 

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Do women carry this same energy:jbhmm:
I’m all for people living by the golden rule and common courtesy..
But the argument this young lady is making is full on hypocritical at best..
Double standard at the least..
If some women had to deal with the rejection brehs have to deal with:skip:
If we are going to have serious discussions on romance and attraction..
A lot of these Twitter fingers are going to have to start being transparent and honest..
The same energy she is expecting..
I guarantee she is not practicing with the fat, nice nikka that really digs her..
Or..
The goofy/awkward nikka..
And I know brehettes will talk all that standards shyt..
But get mad at a nikka that has standards:skip:
People feel the need to desire what they WANT..
This goes for the everyday joe, incel, fat nikka/fat girl and so forth..
People are entitled and want others to do the work for them..
Instead of being introspective, doing the hard work and becoming better..
I’ve been a fat nikka all my life(lost 35 pounds recently)..
Suffered self esteem issues, got rejected all through high school..
Yeah I was bitter for a moment..
Got my social weight up(don’t ask me how:skip:)in college and turned into a complete a$$hole until about 31 because of past slights(hurt a lot of women along the way:snoop:)
At the end of this anecdote..
I had to do work on my inner self and out..
This young lady is projecting like a mug..
Nobody owes you conversation or anything in this world..
It’s the harsh realities..
I think everybody wished things were different..
But these tweets reveal something much deeper..
Get better or stay bitter:manny:

Depends on the woman tbf.
Im not fat or ugly but in general i think there are good and bad people men and women.
But still we should all be nice to eachother regardless of if someone is fat or not.
Especially to our fellow black kinfolk.
 

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Thank you! Combine a lack of reading comprehension skills with general disgust with fat people and you get the responses in this thread. Y’all saw how big she was and all logic went out the window.

She’s not saying she’s entitled to a man’s attraction, she’s saying when a man is not attracted to you they aren’t even capable of respecting you, as evidenced by the vast majority in this thread.

Like, why is the solution for her to lose weight, rather than just being decent fukking person capable of showing respect regardless of whether you want to fukk someone?

It’s mind boggling to me how people cannot seem to treat fat people with respect. Physical attractiveness should have no bearing on whether you are respected.
Shes not entitled to ANYONES respect PERIOD

I wish yall would get that through yalls thick skulls
 

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Shes not entitled to ANYONES respect PERIOD

I wish yall would get that through yalls thick skulls

My question is why? Saying “she’s not entitled” to respect is a lazy ass argument. Why are you less entitled to respect the fatter/less attractive you are? What is the reason? What is the reason fat people are automatically disrespected and disregarded off rip in a way thinner people are not? Why are thinner people more respected than fat people?
 
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