Fat IG model tired of being treated badly by men, tells some stories

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Ironically enough, she proves that point herself




People you aren't attracted to are dogs or people you aren't attracted to must be treated with respect by everyone :hula:


Why are y’all equating being liked by someone with being respected? This girl is saying just because you are nice doesn’t mean she has to LIKE you back—she never said she doesn’t have to respect you if she doesn’t like you. She just said she doesn’t have to like you or be interested in you.
 

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Why are y’all equating being liked by someone with being respected? This girl is saying just because you are nice doesn’t mean she has to LIKE you back—she never said she doesn’t have to respect you if she doesn’t like you. She just said she doesn’t have to like you or be interested in you.
Do you really think she hasn't treated a man she wasn't interested in with the same level of disrespect she claims to have experienced by men who didn't find her attractive?
 

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Do you really think she hasn't treated a man she wasn't interested in with the same level of disrespect she claims to have experienced by men who didn't find her attractive?

I don’t know what she’s done, but she’s telling what actually happened to her and many of y’all are making assumptions about she treats others. She said men are entitled to access to women, she didn’t say they are entitled to our respect or to our attention. Often when guys are nice to us we are shamed for not liking them back—but not liking them back isn’t the same as disrespecting them.

But I guess I’m different. I respect everyone until you give me a reason not to—and that reason is never because they are unattractive to me.
 

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I don’t know what she’s done, but she’s telling what actually happened to her and many of y’all are making assumptions about she treats others.
It's not an assumption that she has compared men who like her to dogs.

That is not showing respect.

Can you imagine if any of the men who didn't find her attractive wrote a tweet comparing her to a pig?

I'm all for treating everyone with respect but we are being disingenuous by not pointing out her own hypocrisy.
 

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My question is why? Saying “she’s not entitled” to respect is a lazy ass argument. Why are you less entitled to respect the fatter/less attractive you are? What is the reason? What is the reason fat people are automatically disrespected and disregarded off rip in a way thinner people are not? Why are thinner people more respected than fat people?
No one is entitled to anyone's respect

Respect is EARNED

The only thing she's entitled to is common courtesy

I'm not OBLIGATED to talk to anyone just because they're in my vicinity

"Respecting" a person is not the same thing as "not disrespecting" that person
 

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Well, she’s also not entitled to those nikkas attraction either.:yeshrug:
Women always hit men with that entitlement shyt and then turn around and act entitled. Two sides of the same coin.:francis:
Took the words right out of my mouth.

She needs to pick a side and either be a victim or a victimizer instead of trying to be both.
 

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She’s probably rude and blunt and cock blocks. Or either her friends get approached by a$$holes and her friends have no standards. If a woman is approached by a guy when she’s out with her friends and that guy is being rude to her friends he should be dismissed. It shows where she stacks up with her friends.
This.
 

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The “why” is still not being answered. “Common courtesy is “politeness that one can usually be expected to show”, and many informal definitions include respect in that definition. Call it common courtesy, respect, or whatever you want because mincing words doesnt work here. Why wasn’t this girl given the “common courtesy” of being acknowledged in a group setting? So she was given common courtesy when she was told to go to the nearest McDs while dude talks to her thinner friends? You’re telling me there’s nothing impolite about being told to “go away” because someone wants to get at your friend?

Y’all are making mostly baseless assumptions about her instead of addressing why she’s less entitled or deserving of respect or common courtesy than her thin friends. Sure she could lose weight that would help, but why can’t she be given common courtesy whether she’s fat/unattractive or thin/attractive?
 

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The “why” is still not being answered. “Common courtesy is “politeness that one can usually be expected to show”, and many informal definitions include respect in that definition. Call it common courtesy, respect, or whatever you want because mincing words doesnt work here. Why wasn’t this girl given the “common courtesy” of being acknowledged in a group setting? So she was given common courtesy when she was told to go to the nearest McDs while dude talks to her thinner friends? You’re telling me there’s nothing impolite about being told to “go away” because someone wants to get at your friend?

Y’all are making mostly baseless assumptions about her instead of addressing why she’s less entitled or deserving of respect or common courtesy than her thin friends. Sure she could lose weight that would help, but why can’t she be given common courtesy whether she’s fat/unattractive or thin/attractive?
She was acknowledged

She just wasn't being entertained while her more attractive friends were

And ONCE AGAIN, common courtesy =/= respect
 

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Oh right, she was acknowledged when she was told to go away to McDonalds. Yea, that’s the common courtesy you’re talking about.

Lol.
 

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Why are y’all equating being liked by someone with being respected? This girl is saying just because you are nice doesn’t mean she has to LIKE you back—she never said she doesn’t have to respect you if she doesn’t like you. She just said she doesn’t have to like you or be interested in you.
The guy in that example didn’t disrespect her. He just didn’t talk to her which she perceived as disrespectful because all her other friends were getting male attention. She not entitled to his attention or conversation.
 

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Hey guys translate for me....I can't read fat instathot babble.

All the words look like "hey hey hey and its time for some kool aid"
 
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