Fat IG model tired of being treated badly by men, tells some stories

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That's why I said fat women have a completely different mindset compared to y'all fat bruhs...from what I've seen...

Fat bruhs ain't expecting love coming from top tier/dime looking women...they know it ain't happening so they deal with the reality (they know where they stand) or even try getting into shape in the meantime.

Whereas fat women on the other hand expect in-shape / fit type bruhs to somehow pick them up and sprint into the bedroom & find them sexually appealing or else we're "body shaming" them :mjlol:.

There's men out here that probably treat her right but they're not the men she wants attention from...so they don't matter in the grand scheme of things:yeshrug:.
 

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“I’m interested in you and that is reason enough for you to be interested back.”

This cuts both ways. You being interested in a man doesn't require him to be interested in you - nor does his disinterest require a twitter thread or article about how black men reject you. You have choice and agency...so do we.

That being said I sympathize with a lot of the other stuff she said. Being rude is never ok. Plus disrespecting a chick's friend seems like a terrible way to get at her. Be cordial, acknowledge the friend...and then go for the main target. I've had many cases personally and I've seen plenty with other people where the fat or unattractive friend becomes the biggest supporter for your cause. Treat her nice and like a person, and when the girl you like asks her "so what do you think about such and such" she'll have your back.
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