And those white kids know what that n-word means yet they don't have anyone to check them
What I am saying is IT MATTERS TO NONE OF THEM....
they see themselves as one.....
dress, talk, date and do everything the same....
the ONLY thing that could stop it is if rappers and the blk community as a whole took a stand and the KIDS stopped saying it....
from everything I am seeing....it will get worse....more mixing, more friendships, and being bonded closer than years before....
I am not sure how it will change....
the kids are leading the charge....that is why I asked if it is that way where you are.....
because I presume anywhere white n blk people are mixing as friends or lovers....THAT is exactly what is happening....
IF that is how they speak and live....
so then what we are discussing is a class issue...
as how your puerto rican girlfriend and her family do not use the word....
as how you do not use the word....
I will also add this....
the words we use most become AUTOMATIC on our tongues....
some are able to control it....yet for example if you curse a lot....you will curse in front of your parents/kids/boss...
because it is just natural....
one reason I am very careful of the words I use and their frequency....