Fell out with my bro over money
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Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I can agree with that. The bro could have been more apologetic about it even if he couldn't do anything. Maybe that's the part that's really throwing OP off.
Grizzly
Home Run Hitter
I either just give people the money or tell them no straight up. Cause I know how I am already. I'll fukk around and slap the shyt out of a nikka on impulse for owing me money and tryna come back around like it's good. And your "homie" of 13 years is a bytch if he's still cool with that dude after pulling some shyt like that. Any of my real homies gonna treat it like it happened to them and press that nikka every day to get that debt paid.
This is a result of bad decision making on your part. Hold yourself accountable and learn from the situation.
I definitely feel you that Your brother should check his boy but, you cant expect anyone to do anything for you, thats why you gotta move accordingly.
I definitely feel you that Your brother should check his boy but, you cant expect anyone to do anything for you, thats why you gotta move accordingly.
silk scarfs
All Star
fell out with my bro that i knew since elemtary cause he was texting me paragraphs saying he need to hold $600 and promises to pay me back.
then like 2 months go by of him promising to pay me back but dodging me then i see him he saying oh remeber when you said this and that 3 years ago to me well i aint like that so my spirits telling me not to pay you back. but ima do it.
i stop picking up his calls and havnt had contact with him since feburary and my life has been so much better. my girl notice to that ive been way better too. 600$ was a cheap price to pay to get him out my life
then like 2 months go by of him promising to pay me back but dodging me then i see him he saying oh remeber when you said this and that 3 years ago to me well i aint like that so my spirits telling me not to pay you back. but ima do it.
i stop picking up his calls and havnt had contact with him since feburary and my life has been so much better. my girl notice to that ive been way better too. 600$ was a cheap price to pay to get him out my life
nikka, what?This ain't enough to fall out with homie for, imo. I get where he's coming from: You made an agreement separately with the deadbeat dude.
You may have met him through your bro, but the agreement y'all brokered was separate from the agreement you made with your bro.
I'll put it to you like this. You made an agreement with your bro. That's one agreement.
You made an agreement with bro's friend. That's another agreement.
I totally get why he doesn't want to get involved. You need to step to the other guy like a man, and tell him he gotta give you your money back and get that straight.
Only thing your bro can really do in this situation is to be like, "come on, dude..." to the friend.
But what you want him to do? Give the dude a whipping with an extension cord?
These are all grown men in this situation, including you.
If you vouch for somebody and they do me dirty, I blame you. The only info I had was what you gave. At least make an effort and say you tried. If you not gonna address the dude that you vouched for, fine. But I ain’t gonna trust you again. Now I gotta get into a back and forth with some nikka that the only thing I know about him is that he’s untrustworthy. Who knows where that path is gonna lead. Dusty nikkas tend to act like they ain’t got nothing to lose… and now you put me in a situation where I gotta deal with him because I trusted you.
So either handle that… or I’ll handle it and we just gon be associates going forward.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
After looking at what you and @TRUEST said, I can see both sides of it.
OP definitely should have got his money upfront either way. I'd have gotten my money the same day BEFORE I put it on my card
Naw if your "new" friend fukks over an old friend you are responsible for the new friend. All my close friends understand this. Don't bring anybody around who fukks up the environment...even people we used to be cool with lol. I don't expect the 13 yr friend to cover the debt (unless he's rich) but at the very least he should be apologizing for bringing that dude around...
NeilCartwright
All Star
I feel the same, at least recognize aye I brought a hoe ass nikka around, and let me acknowledge it.
See this is how we think in the south..but my bro don’t understand now I can’t trust him bc of some shyt his homie did
I feel like I should have to explain that concept in this point in our lives
I'd be hot if I paid for another dude's vacation. If you're not the violent type chalk it up to a learning lesson. Stunt on that broke bytch whenever you can and I wouldn't trust your friend and anyone he associates with again.
OP definitely do himself any favors. And that’s why I don’t loan people money… friends or otherwise.
If I give you money, it has to be a situation where you desperately need it and/or I have no expectation to get it back.
that's shyts not even a trick it's just stupid.Oldest street breh trick in the book..
From now on, get the money in your hands 1st.
some idiots are willing to have beef with anyone over a few dollars
really reckless way to move
Not this particular situation, its bigger money involved..
But the front me now and I'll pay you back trick is as old as humanity.. Definitely something OP should've picked up on in grade school..
fukk all this “hold the L” talk. Somebody fukked you over and for all you know your man was in on it. People on here acting like just smile and charge it to somebody outsmarting you
like they improved your character by fukking you over. Thats not how the world is supposed to work.
like they improved your character by fukking you over. Thats not how the world is supposed to work.
Oldest street breh trick in the book..
From now on, get the money in your hands 1st.