FELLAS: Her place, or yours?

[TinFoilSnapBack]

When I was in the dating game, I mostly brought chicks to my spot because most of these bytches got fukked up living situations. They either still living at home w/ mom, have roommates, or living in an unsafe or inconvenient neighborhood. I never even entertained single mothers, so I don’t know how you nikkas be sneaking over hoes cribs while they kids asleep.

My apartments were always optimized for the smash. I would always deep clean my place before a date. I usually tried to take chicks to a bar in close proximity, so I could bounce her back my spot easily. I had wine, music, weed, snacks, whatever a bytch liked on deck. I also had my home studio setup and would play keyboard and sing as a last resort to impress hoes. Home field advantage has its perks.

However, the rare instance that a broad has an optimal living situation is GOAT. When I lived in Philly, I had this chick with a nice two-level apartment near Kelly Drive. It was so great not having to do any of the legwork of hosting. Bytch used to bake banana bread for me and shyt. A nikka was living the life. On our first link we chilled on the Art Museum steps, and went back to her crib to smash. The whole time we were messing with each other, she never came to my spot. That was also convenient for me because my ex was still coming over to smash during that time period, and a lot of her stuff was still there.

 

[Ahadi]

Hers. Too many bad situations with them coming over to my place.

• Clocking my finances based on amenities ( Eyes light up like they’re in a candy store).
• Showing up unexpectedly
• Getting TOO comfortable
• Wanting to be with you cause you have “resources”. (Later down the line it’s okay for them to come over, but not instantly, women become different after coming over.

Rather go to hers, she’ll feel more comfortable & I have an exit.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

My place.. I never go to a broads place until I’m 5 nuts in

 

[T.H.E. Goat]

Hers or a hotel room, ain’t letting any bytches know where I stay unless they’re moving in

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Real ballas have a second place like Prince Hakeem of meager belongings

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

hers

homebase is a sacred place

 

[Rhyme n Tekniq]

My Place - thanks to social media, now she can share my location so she can line me up for home invasion lick, Even if I successfully fend them off, they know where i live now so a repeated attempt is still a possibility

Her Place - She could still line me up, have a a whole other nikka she never mentioned come home early. Depending on the neighorhood, random nikkas might be loitering around looking for a reason to press.

I was taught to always move like I got enemies ...


Which leaves me choosing a neutral location, like a hotel or some shyt, I'm the only one with a key card, I'm not getting jammed up for thinking with my dikk. even if the bytch try to pull a slick one, at least it didnt go down on my home turf.

these are real things nikkas need to think about regardless if you're about "that life" or not

impressionable bytches looking to be down with a set will line you to get put on, especially if ther alternative is getting gangfukked into the set.

nvm me tho'. I'm aware that I sound like I'm tweaking but like Terrence Howard said:

 

[Mr.FOH]

I’ve had a few hoes jump out the bushes on me so def her place if she’s single single and the exit is always easier.
I hate when you ask a bytch if she’s ready for the uber and she responds by saying ur kicking me out already. Yes bytch leave

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

DEPENDS. I USUALLY OPT TO GET A ROOM. I DON'T LIKE BRINGING NEW BUNS TO THE CRIB.

 

[Oatmeal]

Brehs need to think outside the box

 

[Ahadi]

Revisiting this thread.

I think we also have to incorporate age (18-22) and the type of women who won’t act foolish when they get to your spot.

Like if you’re taking to a new joint and she doesn’t have her own spot that puts you in a jam.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

This

I fukk better at home

 

[Strapped]

Mines

 

[Jasonmask]

Planning on making a move on this broad soon. I’ll offer to go to hers first, but if she tripping I’ll offer my place

 

[Nymbus]

what I look like pulling up in Baltimore checking addresses at 2 am