Fellas, why did you ghost (hit and quit) her?

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I didn't ghost her, I played a role I knew she would HATE and let her do the falling back.

She was kinda.. butterfaced, but she had BODY. Perfect shape. Butt was healthy but still had a fitness to her.

So we Hallmark Movie and chill and smash, then a few days later at work (I KNOW!!) she IMed me to come to her desk.. but when I was walking over I see her cheesing with some dude.

I had already thought it would be smart not to get too deep with a coworker. So I used this opportunity.

I actually waited til she spotted me before I veered off and went the other way. When she IMed me I wrote some slick shyt like I don't play well with others. She tried to actually introduce me to guy cause he was just a friend.

I kept making snide remarks like "oh, I bet you and ol dude had a great time kee keeing"

Sure enough she texted me a Dear Ghost about wanting to be friends 'only'.

Phew. That's how you do it. After that, I can't be considered the smash and dash bad guy. So I was able to get a bit o honey and exit stage left and still have her still hugging me and shyt afterward.

I ain't gone lie. After she quit I tried to ease back in but alas. It was too late (cause if she don't work there then I can do whatever without the coworker problems)
 

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1. Ghost one chick who told me out the blue that she was gangbang by 2 nikkas twice and she was living wild and now she in the church :martin: .. I banged the broad and bounce.. we was co workers.. but I hit on my last few days I was at the job

2. Ghost another broad because she said she had 1 kid.. I went to her house and fukk and I happen to look around and I saw a pic with her and 3 kids

3. Ghost one chick who was acting like she was this pure and innocent black queen, but these women have no idea I do research on they ass from Facebook to Instagram and I tripped them up with questions.. I knew this broad was a ho when she said I don’t hang around a certain area of town:francis: meaning that’s where nikkas had they turn on her…. bytch probably had the best ass I ever fukk even though she was stiff.. but some nikka saw me and said I saw u with that chick tawana.. u two dating and I said naw,, he was like good because I know about 7 nikkas from this blood set who ran up in here..

Thos is hilarious. Some women will lie about how many kids they have, that's a fact!

My nikka said you knew from her saying she don't fukk with one side, that that's where she was getting done up at 🤣 🤣...
 

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I've never ghosted a woman

That is a low tier immature behavior, which is why women are the biggest perpetrators of that shyt
 

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I've never ghosted a woman

That is a low tier immature behavior, which is why women are the biggest perpetrators of that shyt


You cats are funny


Sit there and explain yourself to another grown muthafukka that this shiit isn’t working out…:mjlol:


It’s not you it’s me ass niiggas…:mjlol:


Look. Everyone is grown as fukk. Eventually the other person will get the hint and move on. Why would you sit there and allow your peace to be disturbed simply because you don’t want to ghost or hurt some feelings.
 
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You cats are funny


Sit there and explain yourself to another grown muthafukka that this shiit isn’t working out…:mjlol:


It’s not you it’s me ass niiggas…:mjlol:


Look. Everyone is grown as fukk. Eventually the other person will get the hint and move on. Why would you sit there and allow your peace to be disturbed simply because you don’t want to ghost or hurt some feelings.
“Dear madam,

It occurred to me that our brief excursion at the conclusion of our recreational outing concluded in us failing to further establish future events and planning through oral or written communication. It has been determined that while your company was sufficient for the act in reference, a more suitable candidate is desired to the benefit of both parties involved. As a result, correspondence will cease effective immediately. I would like to take this time to extend gratitude as well as best wishes on your future engagements of companionship.”
 

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Great question

I don’t normally ghost women i get intimately involved in unless it’s something serious

I did ghost a chick recently though but I wouldn’t call it a complete ghost. We still cool, I write her back when she writes me. I just don’t go out of my way to have her over at times. Last time she was over she did something that pissed me off and I just stopped inviting her to the house. Plus, she’s a heavy drinker

But ultimately, it’s because either there is no connection, I don’t care for their attitude/behavior, hygiene, disrespect, etc.
 

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Annoying to be around outside of sex
Found a badder chick that i wanted to replace her with
Wack p*ssy
Wack head
Too many thot pics on IG
Super clingy
Signs of being violent
Feeling entitled
This is it right here for me :snoop:

This one girl had a crazy body and immaculate head. Do you know how annoying you have to be for a man to turn down good head AND sex? :mjtf:
 
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You cats are funny. Sit there and explain yourself to another grown muthafukka that this shiit isn’t working out…:mjlol: It’s not you it’s me ass niiggas…:mjlol:


Look. Everyone is grown as fukk. Eventually the other person will get the hint and move on. Why would you sit there and allow your peace to be disturbed simply because you don’t want to ghost or hurt some feelings.

why would you even fukk someone that you feel like having a convo with them is going to "allow your peace to be disturbed" :hula: yalls lines are blurred lol.
hence my answer op (and sorry to disturb the bro fellowship going on here) that no, if i invested to do you in the first place then you had to be above ghost level by definition :ehh: it's principalities and moralities :queen:
 
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