Dude i really liked was about to ghost me for smoking cigs so i quit
If he ghost me now i know that was a lie
If he ghost me now i know that was a lie
Fellas, why did you ghost (hit and quit) her?
- Thread starter murksiderock
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I was dealing with this milf from work. She would always ask me my age. I was around 25 at the time she was 40. She would always ask me my age and I would never tell her. One night I fell asleep at her place and when I woke up she was sitting up and told me she knew how old I was. I didn’t think anything of it at the time.
Fast forward a couple weeks later I tried to ghost her because I had work and school and she wouldn’t give me space. After not answering her texts she shows up to my apartment saying she was worried about me because I wasn’t responding. Im sitting there in shock because I never told her where I lived
I put two and two together and realized she went in my wallet to see my ID when I fell asleep at her place to see my age and also saw my address. She tried to convince me that I told her where I lived but I wasn’t having it. I ghosted her with the quickness.
Fast forward a couple weeks later I tried to ghost her because I had work and school and she wouldn’t give me space. After not answering her texts she shows up to my apartment saying she was worried about me because I wasn’t responding. Im sitting there in shock because I never told her where I lived
I put two and two together and realized she went in my wallet to see my ID when I fell asleep at her place to see my age and also saw my address. She tried to convince me that I told her where I lived but I wasn’t having it. I ghosted her with the quickness.
god shamgod
Veteran
I wouldn’t necessarily say ghosted her but my boy met these 2 chicks at the liquor store bagged one of em. The other one thought I was handsome but I wasn’t tryin to holla cuz I had better options at the time. He asked me to be his wingman when he went to her crib ,got drunk with them,played cards shorty wanted to fukk. I smashed then she proceeded to blow my phone up for 48 hours asking when can we fukk again. Blocked her & never saw her again
She was always on my phone
Didn't have good conversation, only moaning and sexual talk
Decided porn was unsatisfying and never went back
Didn't have good conversation, only moaning and sexual talk
Decided porn was unsatisfying and never went back
Nah fukk all that. If a man cant afford Car Insurance and other basic necessities in life then he should NOT be entertaining any type of relationship.
When you lack the basic elements to take care of yourself and make your woman feel secure, then be prepared to share that girl.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
why would you even fukk someone that you feel like having a convo with them is going to "allow your peace to be disturbed"yalls lines are blurred lol.
hence my answer op (and sorry to disturb the bro fellowship going on here) that no, if i invested to do you in the first place then you had to be above ghost level by definitionit's principalities and moralities
also at this point in my life i think career has just trained me to be responsive as hell and have tough conversations and explain to people lol. i'm responsible to answer serious communications within a few hours or at least the same day, explaining something to a dude at some point is nothing really. we can chop it up lol
murksiderock
Superstar
why would you even fukk someone that you feel like having a convo with them is going to "allow your peace to be disturbed"
hence my answer op (and sorry to disturb the bro fellowship going on here) that no, if i invested to do you in the first place then you had to be above ghost level by definition
You're not disturbing anything! We have a ton of women on this board but sometimes you guys act like you're timid to hop in certain conversations, I wish more of you were more vocal around here. I appreciate the balance of having opinions of women on a male-dominated site...
That said, it's a morality thing for you, but you know all women don't see it as you do. There's many women who'd deal with a guy then disappear on him. I think the difference is most women wouldn't do it after just having sex with you once unless it was a real random thing or some other shyt happened...
I think it's up to what works for the person. If you ghost me and we barely know each other, I don't really feel this yearning to understand why. It could be any number of reasons, you could have a man, you could realize it was a mistake, whatever. I only want that kind of closure from someone there's a built history with...
If we're never, or rarely will, see each other again, if it was some spur of the moment impulsive shyt. You taking off with no explanation isn't something that bothers me...
Dude i really liked was about to ghost me for smoking cigs so i quit
If he ghost me now i know that was a lie
You are waaayyy too fine of a woman to be smoking. It's an unattractive habit, it'll make a fine woman lose attractiveness. I said this to my youngest daughter's mother before (no cigs, she smokes weed) and she was like "I'm not smoking to be attractive"...
I was like, you're missing the point
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Fill Collins
Able to get note from doctor
I met her off of xvideos, that's why 
Holy shytI was driving one day and this car was pulled off the road, pretty busy avenue. It was summer, I stopped because I saw the chick on side of the car with a small child around 3 or 4. Car was smoking, I jumped out and asked if she needed help. She pointed me to her man who was either under the car or under the hood (I can't remember, shyt was almost 13 years ago)...
They didn't have insurance or something so I got them towed for free off my insurance. Old boy rode with the driver while I dropped his girl and kid off like a mile and half away at home. The kid was already falling asleep, when we got to the house old girl invited me in so I knew what time it was. I don't think there was any foreplay or anything, I can't fukking remember. I know we went back to her room and she started slurping me, then we smashed. She couldn't really fukk, and this was probably when I realized I'm the kind of brother that enjoys women who KNOW HOW TO HAVE SEX...
I broke her down with the strokes and when she was riding me she didn't have any rhythm, it was awkward. Left up outta there and she gave me her number. Never called her. The p*ssy wasn't "trash" I guess but it wasn't great...
Fast forward maybe 4 or 5 months later, I'm in jail and old boy walks in the block one day. He thanks me for getting his girl and kid home safely, which the kid wasn't even his come to find out. Told nikkas in the block how much of a good Samaritan I was
We had visitation at the same time one day and it's old girl, she wouldn't even look at me. He got out like the next day or something, I never saw him or her again...
She was nice looking, short dark-skinned dreadhead. She was pretty. Just she couldn't fukk and the snapper was weak...
murksiderock
Superstar
@bourgeoisie tall freak @RehReh
Have either of you ever ghosted a guy before? And what were your reasons why?
Have either of you ever ghosted a guy before? And what were your reasons why?
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Ghosted a few wasn't a one time smash doe lol
MischievousMonkey
Gor bu dëgër
Because I didn't want to deal with an awkward situation or break a heart
VertigoKnight
Veteran
For me nothing in common outside of sex
If after we smash I don't want her touching or hugging me.
Her sex game wasn't great.
Not open-minded.
If after we smash I don't want her touching or hugging me.
Her sex game wasn't great.
Not open-minded.
That post nut clarity is real tho...
As soon as the clingy shyt starts ,it's what did I get myself into
You gotta remember that your "game" isn't the reason they always giving you the p*ssy....
They fukking for IMMEDIATE exclusivity
As soon as the clingy shyt starts ,it's what did I get myself into
You gotta remember that your "game" isn't the reason they always giving you the p*ssy....
They fukking for IMMEDIATE exclusivity
I try 2 give them a warning first