You see that last sentence of yours.. it's a very important sentence... we can all be from the hood, but u got different types in the hood.
U can call it grimey, i can call it real...
Again, I've never had anything in common with q female for us to be friends.... and even if we did.
Our sexual natures are stronger than us both playing basketball or playing video games...
My dude I barely have or want to have dude as friends...
So why would I have ppl as friends who think diff than me, goals and aspirations are diff than mind, mating habits are different, emotions are different... shyt, she might start catching feelings for me and start cock blocking like the story in the OP..
It ain't no sense in it..
Every person is in my life for a reason...
Women barely wanna be around women... even after they are around each other, they talk bad about them afterwards.
Most female friends will use male friends for attention or a back up niggs just incase everything else falls through.
Sexual nature is you both have complimenting body parts that arouse and pleasure each-other. Big deal!
Man to man, we will have to disagree but nothing twisted in our forum debate bro I respect the points you are making which of course naturally my flesh side as a hot blooded man definitely of course agrees with to a certain extant.
But subconsciously I taught myself a different view points of reality by being versed in different worlds. Sometimes I was the nikka that looked out for everybody lately I made myself the nikka to make everybody look out for. Get me what I'm saying?
Okay let me dig deep I dont like always being this articulate but here it is:
We're not going lie about thot behaviour being normalized in our communities with the knowledge to re-stabalize instead continues to be exploited. Thats a hard situation to fix, so trust me dog I feel you completely that there some scandalous and promiscuous women that are totally fake ass bytches in abundance that do sorts of fake fowl shytty behaviour mainly created out of these misguided societal ancedotes that werent designed for our benefit or for our generation. Yes this is race related too, our women are special to us even though a Lot of us hate to admit that because bros feel nagged and only reminded negatively of black women behavior whether be by family or associations we witnessed so the idea of meeting a good black women almost becomes a pipe dream after experiencing,certain negatives of reality even to our benefit. Yet it takes a certain amount of heart to want to see past that ills though many fail to look past it themselves.
Okay, like you know as I was saying:
$$$ and systematic racism has lead to decay in having to destabilized the healthy black family as a normal reality for mass perception even though it still exists commonly just the perceptions of black people as the face of criminal poverty has made it unfortunately a destructive cycle of dysfunction to make it appear this is normal for blacks (to be "G'z and Hoes" for example when it's not that way till it becomes that way.)
Once you scratch into the surface the way things are you start getting into the realness how far it goes thats why I say,
I'm smooth I can be friends with a women all day. A female bestfriend is the best because she will let you crash and hold your bag when you on the run from the police she'll might even watch the lil nikkas if I need to bounce and handle business. The one dimensional view on this gender stuff got to stop. In the real hood you know damn well certain groups and clicks been life-long friends. Its just easier to understand who you are dealing with when you not fitting them into generic boxes but as the person as they are no matter how shytty or glorious they can be. Even if you do get buns out of it, you werent expecting it to begin with and it makes shyt more real fast.
Now we will agree what this topic really boils down to is averagely people in general cant (and won't) be friends like that EVER, but a smarter way is to look at it is what it is: A LOT OF PEOPLE LOST IN LIFE running on bad ideas mixed in with truth trying to take advantage to all they know but dont have any complete mastery so you end up with all the fukkery resulting from it.
That dont mean go holding hands with chicks in public but its okay to have female friends sure sometimes its a ass thing other times its genuine but the only real difference is what you are willing to accept. Dont be a simp just because it's going too simple (4 you.)
How this all correlate? If you see all these black women as pieces of meat who are dirty hoes than face it thats the only kind of women you will ever meet because thats what you see out of them.
Now if you want to use women thats on me but that never been my mode of operandi.
Yes the average dude is going to look at random chicks and want to smash even myself included but c'mon man.
Its time to wake your inner wakanda and get on this hotep pyramid wave. #MentalCleanser
and salute to u
lol
ok I normally don't fold but you and the pearl chick got me redhanded on this one.
There's only so much platonic stuff I can be cool with.
That doesnt stop my stance because I still believe in all said but I just am selfish enough to not get into fukked up situations over chasing p*ssy 
