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So funny you made this thread @BlackPearl The Empress, I was just talking to a girlfriend about how I should try to make some male friends.

But this type of BS is why I don't bother. I'd really like to know how people feel about having friends of the opposite sex... is it truly possible?

You can have male friends when you single its just 9 out of 10 guy friends you make is going to try to fukk at some point. :yeshrug:

However if you set up boundaries that you not a freak or into their flirting with you often times if a dude feels you on the low he'll respect it cause it's your choice (despite despising it cos he still want to smash.)

Its very rare you will run into some dude who is purer-minded about how he feels about women with monk like self control trying to genuinely make friends with women. The reason is because no dude has time for that when he feels like his self worth is not needed from women's validation. In reality us dudes know that a woman's validation means a hell of a lot to us but we keep that ourselves to feed our own ego/confidence.
What I am saying is if you look deep enough to want to connect with any dude on a friendship level you got to be like a friendly co-worker because no dude is going to accept any chick trying to boss their way into being friends Lmfao df??
 

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How did you handle it at the time?

I didn't check her on it which I obviously should have done instead of ignoring it. The better thing in hindsight which I alluded to earlier was not even allowing someone like that to get close in any kind of way in the first place. If you give them an inch they take a yard. That's why now I don't give anyone the benefit of the doubt. If my gut doesn't have a good feeling around you no matter how small, you don't get any type of convo, my phone number, nothing. It may sound harsh but that's just the world we live in and you gotta look after number one.
 
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My guy... please take this not as disrespect but as just older katt, younger dude building wit each other...
I hate when the younger Kings are like "it's a new era...doing such and such is ok now"

Brother... u might not see it because ur probly raised in this generation, but dudes have become way more feminine.... moving and thinking how men arent suppose to move and think.
Just because its 2030 wouldnt mean it's ok now to suck other nikkaz off. U get me?
You are not a female, u shouldnt have much in common with a female
.... females dnt even like being around other females... hence, them always bragging about having guy friends...
That's just my take, bro...
Use it or dont use it...
Ya'll better listen to this man. Repped.
 

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Ya'll better listen to this man. Repped.
Some of this stuff true but the last part isn't at all. Some chicks talk that I don't female friends but most do have them so anybody parroting that bullshyt hasn't been around many women IMO.
 

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Some of this stuff true but the last part isn't at all. Some chicks talk that I don't female friends but most do have them so anybody parroting that bullshyt hasn't been around many women IMO.

I dont think u realize it but.... ur kinda proving 2 of my points
 

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So funny you made this thread @BlackPearl The Empress, I was just talking to a girlfriend about how I should try to make some male friends.

But this type of BS is why I don't bother. I'd really like to know how people feel about having friends of the opposite sex... is it truly possible?

You can have male friends when you single its just 9 out of 10 guy friends you make is going to try to fukk at some point. :yeshrug:

However if you set up boundaries that you not a freak or into their flirting with you often times if a dude feels you on the low he'll respect it cause it's your choice (despite despising it cos he still want to smash.)

Its very rare you will run into some dude who is purer-minded about how he feels about women with monk like self control trying to genuinely make friends with women. The reason is because no dude has time for that when he feels like his self worth is not needed from women's validation. In reality us dudes know that a woman's validation means a hell of a lot to us but we keep that ourselves to feed our own ego/confidence.
What I am saying is if you look deep enough to want to connect with any dude on a friendship level you got to be like a friendly co-worker because no dude is going to accept any chick trying to boss their way into being friends Lmfao df??

The bolded is really one of the core reasons opposite sex can not be friends...
One of the 2 ppl is attracted to the other...
Usually the dude is attracted to the female, at the very least wants to smash...
Because in reality, that's naturally what men are supposed to do with women.
So how could u actually be a friend with some one that really wants to sex u?.... it only doesnt happen, cause u dont let it.
9.5 times out of 10... the niggs only knows u or interacted with u because he wanted to hit...
Men don't give attention to chix they're not interested in...
U know who got the most Male "friends", good looking women lol
Anyway, him trying to get with u is the foundation of yall "friendship"... that isnt good.
This shyt always ends up with the women getting a boyfriend ... and her Male "friend" drunk txting her about how he always loved her
:russ:
 
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Not really but if you need to believe that go ahead
2 things:
1) I said they BRAG about not having female friends.
"Women are too messy, yadda yadda yadda"
Shows women dont like women

2) The fact that they still actually have these female friends that they said they dont have and called "messy"...
Shows u that they're are delusional, problematic, and u shouldnt wanna be around them as a man...

The floor is yours, brother
 

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2 things:
1) I said they BRAG about not having female friends.
"Women are too messy, yadda yadda yadda"
Shows women dont like women

2) The fact that they still actually have these female friends that they said they dont have and called "messy"...
Shows u that they're are delusional, problematic, and u shouldnt wanna be around them as a man...

The floor is yours, brother
I don't care what you said I said some women do that most don't. Whats your point? Your number 2 point is shyt I didn't even mention regarding if they still had female friends or not so again if you need to feel right go ahead. Doesn't make me any difference but I see you need to feel right so fukk you're right.
 

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I don't care what you said I said some women do that most don't. Whats your point? Your number 2 point is shyt I didn't even mention regarding if they still had female friends or not so again if you need to feel right go ahead. Doesn't make me any difference but I see you need to feel right so fukk you're right.

:wtb: ok... Thanx lol
 

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The bolded is the really one of the core reasons opposite sex can not be friends...
One of the 2 ppl is attracted to the other...
Usually the dude us attracted to the female, at the very least wants to smash...
Because in reality, that's naturally what men are supposed to do with women.
So how could u actually be a friend with some one that really wants to sex u?.... it only doesnt happen, cause u dont let it.
9.5 times out of 10... the niggs only knows u or interacted with u because he wanted to hit...
Men don't give attention to chix they're not interested in...
U know who got the most Male "friends", good looking women lol
Anyway, him trying to get with u is the foundation of yall "friendship"... that isnt good.
This shyt always ends up with the women getting a boyfriend ... and her Male "friend" drunk txting her about how he always loved her
:russ:

Well, In USA everything is meant to be lived bolded and fast past due to capitalist system, where older world cultures back home though adapted to modern dating and hook up culture still tend to take it more subtle slowly. (Dont get me wrong. Wild shyt happens very openly everywhere if you know where to look.)
I'm just saying in other places than yo hood where it's one bytch to every 10 dudes getting knocked up that slutted out at 21 there places where that behavior aint tolerated or it gets to be a very harsh life for that girl.
Matter of fact most foreigners want American women out of the idea of a pretty bytch being easy for sex compared to a pretty chick back home wanting to be courted. (Like I said when it comes to rules best believe they will be thrown out for the heat of the moment but I'm just explaining the mentality differences. If a chick fukking she going culture bringings dont stop that but to think people arent real friends out of wanting sex is a stupid idea. I mean I see your reasoning its not possible in most cases but I already stated that it can be because sometimes its more goal or business oriented or serves another purpose beside sex.)
 
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