Female Friends and Bounderies...

[phcitywarrior]

Real talk, outside of a few chicks I’ve known since I was like 10 I don’t really see the point of having a bunch of female friends.

I got enough female cousins so I’m good.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Women not even fun to be around wit for extended periods of times. idc how “cool” they are

For real. I must be an old soul. Unless they’re my siblings or relatives, I’m not entertaining no woman I’m not at least trying to fukk.

We all know as men, it’s very rare to find a female that’s tolerable, if you take away the sexual aspect.

But of course being honest makes me a misogynist.

Real talk, outside of a few chicks I’ve known since I was like 10 I don’t really see the point of having a bunch of female friends.

I got enough female cousins so I’m good.

College is the only time really you should have female friends. It’s the easiest way to get the hook up. I swear I didn’t even have to try back then.

It was so simple. “Oh you like her Throbby? She’s in my English class. I’ll hook you two up.” Man, those were good times.

 

[MaxPain]

Total nonsense breh. Like honestly what would you need a female "accquaintace" for if you ain't looking to fukk, already fukked, or fukking?

Access to more women & the allure of already having a female.

Most dudes don’t know how to finesse this so they just end up having an out of pocket female friend who uses them for favors and validation.

I’ve used female acquiantances to get into clubs or pass them off to security guards at strip clubs (to get at a stripper). Or have them hook me up with other females or at the very least have them accessible to me by proximity (the we met through friends explanation).

But never and I mean never will I consider a woman a “friend”. They are horrible friends, even to each other.

 

[MaxPain]

Lol! I've seen this happen. A girl usually does it to a guy she has in her hoe account b/c she has intentions towards him down the road if she doesn't find someone better.

To her he is too good to give up completely but not good enough to want something real from.

Here's the spooky part...I've seen this from married chicks. Imagine wanting to control a male friend's love life but you all the way boo'd up in a whole entire marriage.

Gotta pick a struggle.

Right on.

Aim, center mass and zeroed.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Thanks for the civil discussion. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Any time. You do the same.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Lol! I've seen this happen. A girl usually does it to a guy she has in her hoe account b/c she has intentions towards him down the road if she doesn't find someone better.

To her he is too good to give up completely but not good enough to want something real from.

Here's the spooky part...I've seen this from married chicks. Imagine wanting to control a male friend's love life but you all the way boo'd up in a whole entire marriage.

Gotta pick a struggle.

The ones in the relationships are the worst. And they are always the ones with the powder puff soft dudes who barely know how to hold a conversation. Thinking the can run every man.

 

[Da_Eggman]

Never saw the point of having a female friend.

Thread is done

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Because those women are a threat to them. If he bags a new chick, that means she gets less attention from him.

And a lot of times these women want you; even though you're just friends. Even if they don't want you now, they may want you later, so they're still gonna try to keep you around until that time comes.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Because those women are a threat to them. If he bags a new chick, that means she gets less attention from him.

And a lot of times these women want you; even though you're just friends. Even if they don't want you now, they may want you later, so they're still gonna try to keep you around until that time comes.

This totally

 

[DaRealness]

I'm reminded of a female "friend" from years back when I used to be part of a sports group. This bytch always just happened to be in the vicinity whenever I was talking to this woman who was part of another group in the same hall we used to rent out. Always coming with some slick mouth bullshyt and disrespectful remark out of nowhere. If I had the backlog of experience and knowledge I do now, it would have never happened, but you live and you learn.

 

[DaRealness]

Because those women are a threat to them. If he bags a new chick, that means she gets less attention from him.

And a lot of times these women want you; even though you're just friends. Even if they don't want you now, they may want you later, so they're still gonna try to keep you around until that time comes.

This is what dudes need to discern and know when to bush someone like that ASAP. At least now I know when someone is gonna be bad news. The red flags are ALWAYS there from the beginning.

 

[devizelle]

So funny you made this thread @BlackPearl The Empress, I was just talking to a girlfriend about how I should try to make some male friends.

But this type of BS is why I don't bother. I'd really like to know how people feel about having friends of the opposite sex... is it truly possible?

 

[charmander]

Yaaaas sis I be so tired of the mess chile PERIODT

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So funny you made this thread @BlackPearl The Empress, I was just talking to a girlfriend about how I should try to make some male friends.

But this type of BS is why I don't bother. I'd really like to know how people feel about having friends of the opposite sex... is it truly possible?

I have plenty male friends. My best friend is a guy and is getting married soon.

Why would this thread stop you unless you have plans to be a habitual line stepper? lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I'm reminded of a female "friend" from years back when I used to be part of a sports group. This bytch always just happened to be in the vicinity whenever I was talking to this woman who was part of another group in the same hall we used to rent out. Always coming with some slick mouth bullshyt and disrespectful remark out of nowhere. If I had the backlog of experience and knowledge I do now, it would have never happened, but you live and you learn.

How did you handle it at the time?