Female Friends and Bounderies...

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I JUS GIVE EM THIZZ AND HAVE A LONG NIGHT OF PASSIONATE FUCCING

MAKES IT WORTH THE BULLSHIIT
 
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My guy... please take this not as disrespect but as just older katt, younger dude building wit each other...
I hate when the younger Kings are like "it's a new era...doing such and such is ok now"

Brother... u might not see it because ur probly raised in this generation, but dudes have become way more feminine.... moving and thinking how men arent suppose to move and think.
Just because its 2030 wouldnt mean it's ok now to suck other nikkaz off. U get me?
You are not a female, u shouldnt have much in common with a female
.... females dnt even like being around other females... hence, them always bragging about having guy friends...
That's just my take, bro...
Use it or dont use it...
Aight I hear ya :manny:.
 

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U might have females that u know that uve sexed in the past or that ur trying to get wit
Those are not friends.
Females, imo, dont have Male friends either... just dudes they can get extra attention from, and cause more drama with... but I cant speak on that now... that's just a working theory.
Anyway, any man that actually has a female friend... I always look at him sideways... cause either he a big fronting ass nikka, who's trying to get in shorties pants by playing the long game (and that's some sucka shyt imo)...

I still think you can genuinely be friends with the opposite sex, but these are fair points and true in many cases :ehh:
 

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If you had friends when you grew up there's always that one girl you kept in contact with (once in a while) kinda like family, you don't have fu*k every woman you come into contact with that's just a man on some "hoe" shyt.

Nah breh. I always looked at it if I'm talking to a female, I'm looking to fukk. If I cant I move on. :yeshrug:
 
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So basically you don't believe in checking a female behavior you do know but would check a man you don't know?

So you're cool with the male confrontation but not comfortable with the female?

Not only that then you would blame the women who you were pursuing for expecting you to have appropriate boundaries with your friends?

I hear you but I don't really understand the rationale.

BPE..

For me, I am in a space where I learned that I have to watch how I speak to people. If I had a home girl who was wild and had a tendency to cock block the homies who is trying to get at other women, then I would simply tell her to stall me out (jokingly) and tell the woman I am trying to get at to not pay the home girl no mind because she is just clowning or something to that effect.

In most situations, I would respond to a man differently than I would respond to a woman, given your scenario.

On some really real shyt, I would not fukk with anybody who would outright disrespect me, especially in public and/or around private circles. I am too old to associate with people who lack social decorum.

I can understand you being turned off by a man who doesn’t stand up to fukkery. That makes sense. Thinking about it, if a man can’t stand up to the wild girl you spoke on, then how is he going to stand up for you against a man or someone else if shyt really goes down in the town or even if he isn’t going to stand up to you, should you act a fool? In the latter sense, you would run all over him and dog him the fukk out til the casket drops!

But, at the same token, sometimes, one isn’t in the mood to get into it with people who run around acting wild. I honestly don’t know how I would react, if I had a home girl who is wild, but I just couldn’t see myself associating with women like that.

Women like that and me don’t mix! My personality type wouldn’t even attract those type of women in my life. We naturally live segregated lifestyles. Perhaps, that is why I can’t relate to the scenario you shared. I just know that for me, I am very selective on the company I keep, especially at this stage in my life.

If a woman fukk with me, then she will respect me! If she doesn’t, then she gotta go somewhere else and stay over there on that side of the land!
 

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This happened to me when I was deep in mid conversation with a girl I been trying to get at like dope one on one conversation. My homegirl saw me and interjected herself in there just sitting next to us all awkwardly till shawty left I was heartbroken. Should’ve told my homegirl I’d get up with her in a second in hindsight. Actually ended up dating my homegirl a couple months later.

Having female friends isn’t as complicated as people make it seem I grew up with my sister who was like my best friend growing up. Just gotta know where to draw that line and make sure they’re not on some weird shyt that’s gonna cause all kind’ve extra problems might have to fall back from one another when you get in a relationship though
That's different your related :gucci:
 
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