Female Friends and Bounderies...

[The Coochie Assassin]

That’s not that common ime. Those dudes sound soft and probably get treated like that by a lot of people.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Naw women in general are just habitual line steppers.

They will take a mile if you don’t check them.

 

[Konnan]

Never saw the point of having a female friend.

exactly

if we not gonna fukk go on somewhere else

 

[Apollo Creed]

A male with female friends is called a gay person.

 

[Umoja]

That's what happens when you entertain women who view you as an option down the road. Cockblocking to keep you available or setting you up with women they feel they can push out of the picture at any given moment.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Female friend shyt is an oxymoron. I’m trying to fukk damn near any women in my phone that’s not family or business related. Either I have already, or will when the opportunity presents itself. Ain’t none of that hanging out shyt with my homegirl. I had to dead that shyt long ago. Ain’t shyt in it for a nikka. The most I will do is go have a drink with female coworkers, but even them hoes know what’s up cause I demand them hoes put me on the homies. You just gotta let these hoes know what you about OFF TOP

The last sentence is pretty much my point. I understand that a lot of guys keep females around wait for the opportunity to smash. What I don't understand is when these chicks thwart future opportunities and dudes just let it roll.

 

[froggle]

Never saw the point of having a female friend.

Female friends either got thrown in the friendship pit or threw the breh in the friendship pit

Regardless they can be pretty dope....once u keep letting em know, they can get the D at anytime. The shennaningans with me and my female friends

 

[Nymbus]

I remember those days

 

[Benefited]

This happened to me when I was deep in mid conversation with a girl I been trying to get at like dope one on one conversation. My homegirl saw me and interjected herself in there just sitting next to us all awkwardly till shawty left I was heartbroken. Should’ve told my homegirl I’d get up with her in a second in hindsight. Actually ended up dating my homegirl a couple months later.

Having female friends isn’t as complicated as people make it seem I grew up with my sister who was like my best friend growing up. Just gotta know where to draw that line and make sure they’re not on some weird shyt that’s gonna cause all kind’ve extra problems might have to fall back from one another when you get in a relationship though

Are you comparing a sister to a femal friend
A female friend obviously finds you attractive in some way and is keeping you around as an option if everything else falls through,or possibly waiting on you to get your act together.
Sabatogue is almost 100% guaranteed if she is around you and other women.
But to answer OP's question,most men are hoping to have their female friend around while he interacts with women.
They are hoping she will see him interact and get jealous and suddenly desire him enough allow him to fukk,as he's been stuck in the friendzone.
It definitely works,but sabatogue is the more likely scenario. They don't reign the friend because they somehow see the sabatogue as a win.

"She cock blocked me,I guess I must be wearing her down

 

[Okocha]

The female friend was probably drunk and a little excitable

 

[The Fade]

I’ve only been cockblocked by men

Women are actually cool about helping brehs get laid

 

[Umoja]

I’ve only been cockblocked by men

Women are actually cool about helping brehs get laid

You haven't picked up on women cockblocking you.

To answer @BlackPearl The Empress question:

The last sentence is pretty much my point. I understand that a lot of guys keep females around wait for the opportunity to smash. What I don't understand is when these chicks thwart future opportunities and dudes just let it roll.

We don't pick up on it. I remember a friend of mine flipping the fukk out whilst I was hitting it off with one of her friends. I checked her on principle but it took me a while to piece together her motives.

A lot of the time we are left questioning the sudden interest, mood swings, need to bring up inappropriate stories etc.

 

[Benefited]

That's what happens when you entertain women who view you as an option down the road. Cockblocking to keep you available or setting you up with women they feel they can push out of the picture at any given moment.

Best thing you can do as a man if you are going to entertain those women is to flip the situation around. By making the woman she is cock blocking you from aware of the clockblocking behavior.

you-"She acting weird,do yall know each other?She normally don't act like this"

her-"no"

you-"oh"

The women will take it from there.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

I've never had that probably back when I was in the dating market a couple of them would put in a good word.

Cockblocking only happens is if that woman low-key wants that alleged male "friend", otherwise most women don't cockblock on the regular they know the deal already that you're just a "friend / brother" like person to them.

I have women saved in my phone who are nothing more than female acquaintances, nothing more & nothing less who they know their boundaries and respect it.

 

[DaRealness]

That's why I only have females who are aquaintances at best.

I know exactly the type you're talking about. You can always tell who they are from jump - always talking too much, no type of discretion or tact, always having to be in the mix etc. I keep those types of females at arms length because once they get to know you a little bit then they start to get too overbearing and overfamiliar for their own good and think they can just deal with and talk to people any old way. You have to dead that shyt from day one, don't give them your number, nothing. If you're in an environment where you have to see them regularly, hi and bye is all that needs to be said.