Female Friends and Bounderies...

[mag357]

For the most part... real men dont have female friends.
Friend is a very strong word.
U might have females that u know that uve sexed in the past or that ur trying to get wit...
Those are not friends.
Females, imo, dont have Male friends either... just dudes they can get extra attention from, and cause more drama with... but I cant speak on that now... that's just a working theory.
Anyway, any man that actually has a female friend... I always look at him sideways... cause either he a big fronting ass nikka, who's trying to get in shorties pants by playing the long game (and that's some sucka shyt imo)...
Or he is just like a woman, gossipy, delusional, and needing drama (no disrespect to women, but you know)

Stay away from niggsz who got female friends and stay away from chix trying to be ur friend...
Ur welcome

 

[number21]

Female friends either got thrown in the friendship pit or threw the breh in the friendship pit

Regardless they can be pretty dope....once u keep letting em know, they can get the D at anytime. The shennaningans with me and my female friends

Nah man. If she ain't with it at jump, I'm not wasting my time being some side dude option.

 

[Nintendough]

I kiss my female friends on the lips and ive slept with a few of them.

 

[The Fade]

You haven't picked up on women cockblocking you.

To answer @BlackPearl The Empress question:



We don't pick up on it. I remember a friend of mine flipping the fukk out whilst I was hitting it off with one of her friends. I checked her on principle but it took me a while to piece together her motives.

A lot of the time we are left questioning the sudden interest, mood swings, need to bring up inappropriate stories etc.

Because it hasn’t happened.

Aint no spider sense bullshyt

 

[Elle Driver]

Cause they probably fukkin.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

For the most part... real men dont have female friends.
Friend is a very strong word.
U might have females that u know that uve sexed in the past or that ur trying to get wit...
Those are not friends.
Females, imo, dont have Male friends either... just dudes they can get extra attention from, and cause more drama with... but I cant speak on that now... that's just a working theory.
Anyway, any man that actually has a female friend... I always look at him sideways... cause either he a big fronting ass nikka, who's trying to get in shorties pants by playing the long game (and that's some sucka shyt imo)...
Or he is just like a woman, gossipy, delusional, and needing drama (no disrespect to women, but you know)

Stay away from niggsz who got female friends and stay away from chix trying to be ur friend...
Ur welcome

Also Stay away from dudes who befriend nothing but men because low-key y'all might be fakkits , a female "acquaintance" is different from a "friend" & having not having at least one or two acquaintances is somewhat gay in highschool dudes would high-key clown you if all you knew of & hung around with is men maybe y'all old heads don't see it that way but it doesn't go like work like that anymore.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

The responses over on Lipstick Alley are the complete opposite
A lot of women are lying to themselves about their male friends

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

That shyt only happening to a weak ass dude who like it that way anyway

Ain't no real man out here in a situation like that

That must be a female relative not just a friend

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Also Stay away from dudes who befriend nothing but men because low-key y'all might be fakkits , a female "acquaintance" is different from a "friend" & having not having at least one or two acquaintances is somewhat gay in highschool dudes would high-key clown you if all you knew of & hung around with is men maybe y'all old heads don't see it that way but it doesn't go like work like that anymore.

Either u a female posting as a dude
Or a flat out fakkit
All your post be zesty as fukk

 

[BXKingPin82]

When i was like maybe, 15-16 or whatever.
I had a chick friend that all she would do is suck my dikk.
Like, we'd kick it.
Get high.
And she would just suck my dikk.
She was fine too.
I dont even think I ever fukked her.
She would just...




Suck my dikk.

 

[Strapped]

Why to some of ya'll let your female friends run wild?

I swear there is nothing more unattractive than a man with a female friend that doesn't know her place.

Went to a dinner party last night and saw one chick sabotage 3 dudes in one swoop.

The first she totally ruined dude's chance at getting a chick who was interested by being affectionate with him and then turns around to say she wouldn't be interested in a guy if she were in the other woman's shoes. lol

Then she cocked blocked another chick from a dude she didn't want or know because she doesn't like the girl.

Then she tried to "help" another guy out by trying to pull me for him which of course didn't go over well because the guy never asked her to do that and because we're not in junior high. shyt was so awkward and she was aggressive too. lol

On one hand I kinda wanna say something to the last guy about reigning her in. But on the other hand the fukkery was pretty entertaining to watch and the engagement would be rather dull without it.

It's not uncommon to meet guys with pushy or overly involved female friends. IDK why some of ya'll allow that. It's dating suicide.

& you throw shade at @skeetsinternal every chance you get . Females are just messy , always trying to get at males with women or cockblocking

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Any female that stops me from getting p*ssy...... owes me p*ssy.

Spoiler

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Your male friends are p*ssy for not calling the bytch out in the middle of the party.

The bytches nikkas tryna go at get turned on by that and also the annoying bytch does too. You’ll smash both if u got game (most nikkas dont)

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

First , before at address your questions, I wasn’t referring to you specifically when I said those women weren’t shyt. Just wanted state that before I proceed..

To your first question, I don’t think a man should police nor should he be held responsible as an arbitrator for the actions of another person, male or female. That isn’t his responsibility. The responsibility of good behavior lies in each person.

Next, I can agree that a man or woman should exercise their option to disassociate themselves with people who behave in a disrespectful manner, but truth be told, sometimes one may not be in a mood to get into a potential confrontation with a woman in public, not to mention, it could be a damned if you do damned if you don’t situation for the man.

A man can check a woman friend for acting a fool in front of a pursued woman and still turn off the pursued woman, if said woman feels that the man isn’t checking the disrespectful “friend” properly. So, either way, he is assed out and to be real, the pursued woman who was turned off wasn’t really interested in the pursuing man to boot because she could have simply held the fool acting friend accountable for her foolish behavior and still talk to the man who is interested in her.

As for how a man responds to conflict being attractive attribute or not, I will say that I don’t have an issue with you being turned off, but I don’t think it should be universal for all women. But, if I had to choose, I would prefer if a woman simply looked at things a lil more objectively and not be so punitive towards men. Confronting women who you said was displaying aggressive behavior can really go bad for himself, the woman and witnesses.

Regarding your other question, if I am pursuing a woman who invited me to a social event where her male friend(s) were also in attendance and one of those men were overly affectionate towards her and she was reciprocating the gesture, then I would assume they are fukking each other and would leave her alone. If any of her male friends were being affectionate toward her and she seems uncomfortable with it, then I may pull dude to the side and speak to him about it or pull her to the side and ask her if she is ok and suggest going somewhere else. I would have to assess the situation and based on the situation, act accordingly.

So, this is what it comes down to with me. I don’t have any close female friends. At best, I have one female friend who I keep in touch with via social media every now and then, but I don’t have any female friends that I can call a true homie like my male friends. Most women I know outside of family are work associates or women I may have known from the past who happens to be on one of my social media friends lists.

But, I get your point, you want dudes to check women who get out of pocket. In some situations, I would agree with you, but in other situations, I would side with caution doing such, especially these days. I would honestly tell dudes to stop being platonic friends with women and only deal with women who are romantically interested in them.

So basically you don't believe in checking a female behavior you do know but would check a man you don't know?

So you're cool with the male confrontation but not comfortable with the female?

Not only that then you would blame the women who you were pursuing for expecting you to have appropriate boundaries with your friends?

I hear you but I don't really understand the rationale.

 

[mag357]

Also Stay away from dudes who befriend nothing but men because low-key y'all might be fakkits , a female "acquaintance" is different from a "friend" & having not having at least one or two acquaintances is somewhat gay in highschool dudes would high-key clown you if all you knew of & hung around with is men maybe y'all old heads don't see it that way but it doesn't go like work like that anymore.

Ok... I'll take the bait...
Bruh, I dnt know how old u are. But a real man doesnt need any friends, male or female, tbh with u...
But if he was to have an actual friend or friends, its gonna be a person who is more like him, than not..

I look at niggsz funny too who I see with a bunch of dudes and not 1 chick in sight..
But if u read my post that u quoted... i said...
A man will have females that he knows...
but in no way, shape, form or fashion will them knowing each other ever be misconstrued as a "friendship".

Now just because nowaday you think it's ok to have female friends because that's what u or this younger generation believes...
Doesnt refute anything I said about a man who have female friends.