I just wanna further expound on this post I made. I have no idea why people are taking many of these women seriously. A narrative is being painted that BW are all looking for HVM or high earners and its not the case. If you want a high earner or potential high earner all you have to do is date within certain professions. It's really that easy. I have never known exactly what anyone I ever dated made and I'm pretty sure most women don't either. Women are dating the men they have access to. Most of these women have children with or actively have sex with normal men. That behavior is reflected in their actions which they usually admit after further dialogue. Saying you date non-HVM or low to moderate earner to women is basically the female equivalent to a man admitting he has a little dikk. Even if it's true they will never admit it. I see a whole narrative being painted around a premise that just isn't true. That's why women can call in night after night because they know that it's not really something they are pursuing. So when they get talked down to or lectured they can keep it pushing because they know that were lying in the first place. I hate to say this but many women are happy if you just take them out and throw a few gifts at them every so often. Most women value presentation. So yes women have a lot of work to do with decisions they make and their overall attitudes. But the VAST MAJORITY of BW are not struggling because they are looking for a HVM or super high earners. We struggle because we weren't taught to make marriage or relationships a priority. This "I need xyz" attitude is flexing for the gram. If the last few men a woman dated aren't high earners then it's not her reality...and women know this.