Exactly
Is that really that big of a problem? I'm pretty sure that the vast majority of dudes have never heard of Kevin Samuels. In my entire life I have only heard of one Youtuber in a conversation in real life and that was Umar and that was from some brehs That are "Hoteppers". Just because we frequent these message boards doesn't mean the average dude or dudette does. Kevin hasn't been on The Breakfast Club and I doubt that he will ever get an invite.
Why is what dudes listen to considered so destructive? I mean damn have you ever listened to swirl/divest youtube? They make the most blanket statements about Black Men and Black women's IR dating has increased by 50% but no one ever says that Shea Buttas are "ruining Black Love" like the dudes do.
shyt You talk about Kevin when was the last time a Black woman actually said she was looking for a "regular degular" Brother and wasn't clowned for being "Pick Me"?
Breh regular black men are in relationships with regular black women. Regular black men have no problem bagging regular black women. Correct me if I'm wrong but that is the whole point she is trying to make. These women are lying. Listen to what they say about their dating history. They were with regular and below average men, not HVM.