Females jockin/eyeing you at the gym

SheWantTheD

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Small talk and asked her to grab some food, she said cool then got her number. Things changed afterwards, she was always up there with family from there on out. Like I said I left it alone, didn't want cause any issues and she was being weird.
invite her back to the crib and see what happens.

These chicks don’t want people to know they fukk with nikkas on the low.

Or the bytch somewhat interested but just really likes the attention
 

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‘Never holla at the gym’

Shiiid. Nggas been sold a bag of goods. I’m slowly creepin out the game and 1 regret I have is not shooting my shot all these years.

I’d amend it to ‘don’t holla at the gym in the open’. Do that shyt discreet, find a low key corner or off peak hours:lolbron:

This new gym I go to there’s just no way. I’m shootin that bytch coach. Idgaf…Legit ig model caliber chicks and they be lookin as much as we do.
:francis:

If you got some bad ones at your gym and you don’t holla, you will regret it.

Something I actually thought of doin is goin to a gym that’s not mine and just go ham :russ: nothing to lose
 

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invite her back to the crib and see what happens.

These chicks don’t want people to know they fukk with nikkas on the low.

Or the bytch somewhat interested but just really likes the attention

Long gone fam, ain’t seen her in over a month.

I tell you what on the bolded, Indian peeps are usually brought up in strict household and dating outside they race is usually a hell no. I know from my fam in ATL, his wife is Indian, they been married over 10, mother in law still be looking shife at him to this day.

I would say this one is interested, shy, nervous, all at the same time. The few times she started convo seemed as she had to get the nerve up to say something.
 

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I normally get teenage girls staring or older black women staring and saying hi to me. just like the other brehs have said i don't talk to any women or people at the gym

just leave me alone and let me listen to my underground hip hop beats from the 90s. :wow: The gym is like fukking therapy for a nikka :to:

:sitdown:
 

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As a women, if I'm staring a guy down. Yes, I want him to say something to me. It's my way of giving the "green light". And if he doesn't say anything after I stare for a while, I assume that he's not interested, has a significant other, only focused on him work out, etc.
To this day, I have never understood why women won't just approach. You're already being weird as shyt by staring from across the room. Him shooting you down won't look any worse:heh:.
 

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If any do, I wouldnt know I’m too focused on my training.
ive mastered this since i last posted. i don’t even look outside of my peripheral range anymore for the entire session. white ppl be in everyone’s business especially black men. all the competitive mugging and unwanted convos really started to get on my nerves

assess it how you want
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they stare at me and i don't make conversation with them.

come on breh don't come at me like that i got a younger daughter

Kids staring at you don't count, B. :stopitslime:

--- break ---

I've had old ladies at my last gym start up convos and feel up the arms, but that don't count either.

We talking strictly wifeable-aged brawds, bro. :hubie:
 

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I stay chattin up hoes in the gym :banderas:

Gotta look good, have that subtle cocky/confident vibe going on ( I dance a lot between sets, I stay makin eye contact when I'm bustin a move or bobbing my head & love to smile at chicks while dancing - everyone loves a fun dude)

Gem of advice is to befriend at least 1 or 2 chicks at least semi-attractive in the gym or occasionally work out with a female friend, whether those are your targets or not, that way other shorties who might catch your eye see you have positive interactions with other women & get intrigued. The badder the better

I'm fit enough to be a trainer so I use that angle a lot "I always see you going hard in the gym... I'm studying to be a trainer and wanted to get some diff workout programs created for future female clients.... I was wanting to shadow your workout one day to get an idea of what I could put together with a little help, if that's cool with you" Compliment... aspirations (trainer).... collaboration... casual connection

Just can't holla at every bytch & come across as that guy. Females always peep what's going on even if they act like they sooo oblivious. Hasn't been until after I chatted up chicks they'll tell me they always see me going hard or like my dancing, thought I had a girl, etc. so key is to have YOLO attitude at times and shoot your shot. Rejection won't kill you, if shorties do tell me they have a man I usually tease em and ask why he ain't in here working out with her so we wouldn't be at this point & they usually laugh or smile it off.

Physical escalation --- gotta break the touch barrier with em. After they get comfortable or pass you on multiple occasions, a fist bump/smile when passing, quick lil side hug if yall have chatted before... don't generally offer unsolicited advice but if I know a chick doesn't know what she's doing on a certain machine I'll give my .02 if it includes repositioning or changing form to hit the intended muscle groups, touching her where she should be feeling the work out..... stretching after yall workout together first doing solo exercises then alternating stretching each others legs.... I'll straight up ask women if they want massages from time to time, some have mentioned needing one before I have which always make it easier... last chick after 10 mins was like oh no Ima need you to come over to really get certain spots :youngsabo:

Bottom line.... go hard, get ripped, have a smooth balance between cool innocent looks & animalistic eye contact.... playful power. Let's eat
 
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