Idk about that mate, their main complaint is that men only see them as a last option, something you fall back to when the girls you want aren't to hot about you, a lot of them think that men will leave them the second those girls give them any kind of attention.The men they want aren't giving them what they want.
/End of story
Edit: You also need to put yourself out there. If you are a woman you need to put yourself where men are, and as a man you need to approach women.
If your physical attractiveness is the issue, then work on that, lose weight, change your wardrobe, haircut/hairstyle etc.
And let's be honest here the girl in op is exactly that, a last option.
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