I understand why you're bitter and angry, it's going to be ok.
There are lots of misguided women out there who will do absolutely diabolical things. I'm not denying that those types exist, but there are things you can do to diminish the possibility that you'll end up with a woman like that.
For example, wanting to "wife" a video model

Trolling POF for one night stands

Picking up women at the club or bar

Not valuing your chastity by giving yourself sexually to virtually any woman who offers
Not to demean you brother, but there is a reason why you're not attracting more pious women. The thing is, you want to be able to play the field, sleep with a multitude of women (creating illegitimate b*stard children in your wake), then say that the women trapped you. YOU TRAPPED YOURSELF. Stop devaluing yourself and guard your chastity
A woman who has no problem submitting to her husband wouldn't pay you any attention because you have nothing to offer. You're angry, not in control of your emotions, lack control of your sexual urges, and have shown yourself to be incapable of being rational or just. A woman will only submit to a man who is worthy of being submitted to. You can't demean women then expect them to want to play their role and serve you.
Honestly, I'd be frustrated too if I were you. It's hard out there for people who go against gods word