I think you're on to something.
Woman's mind = I gave up the "p" to Tyrone because he was just some dude and it didn't mean anything. I'm making you wait because I want this to work long-term.
What she's really saying is that she wanted Tyrone to be her long-term boo, but he had too many character flaws. He was physically her ideal but was lacking in other areas. She's willing to wait for sex with you because you're NOT her physical ideal. She's had better so she can wait you out and use sex as leverage for resources. A woman doesn't consciously think this way but you'll never see a woman make a (what she considers) "hot" breh wait. She'll fukk him and then regret it later before fukking him again. Women only have self-discipline with average-looking, average income men.
Men's mind = so I have to go out on multiple dates, commit to you and all this shyt but you let these other nikkas hit ASAP?