I just feel that it’s interesting that feminism is driving a revolution it seems completely unprepared to handle the results of. What I’ve learned in life is most people in general want and desire power, even going as far as to say what they’d do better if they had it, but in the end, most people aren’t ready to manage real power and responsibility.
With this issue, I think many women don’t understand that men value different things in a partner than they do. We don’t care about their degree or money or status, yet many new age women anchor themselves so deeply to those things that they develop a sense of entitlement. The problem with that is the attitude that is derived from that is intolerable for a lot of men who want someone to feel at home and loved by, not someone to compete with. A lot of women these days seem to be in competition with men, which is okay in the boardroom but not in the bedroom. It doesn’t work for men.
I’m happy that as a society we continue to move more toward equality. I just hope we can find that balance in make-female relationships.
Thought I was the only one to notice this. Women literally went and attained the things they look for in a man, and then hold up in our faces like that's why we are attracted to them. News flash ladies: Men aint dumb, we may be stubborn, but we aint dumb. We realize you can be independent and get all your own things and accomplish great things and be leaders and all that. That's cool, buuuut it still don't change the fact that I WANT p*ssy.
For real though as much as we accuse women of only using us as resources we be doing the same shyt brehs, we literally use women for p*ssy everyday breh. It's the only resource they have that we don't, and vice versa. No matter who is in control, if it's a Patriarchy or a Matriarchy men and women got to deal with each other, just for survival alone we have to.
I aint ever had a problem with women handling they own business as long as they don't expect men to pick up the pieces if it don't work. Don't get me wrong men done did some fukked up shyt to women, but in a way men keeping women in the house did kind of shelter women from the true coldness of the world, and a lot of women haven't fully adapted to it yet. The world has always been hard to men, and men came home and took it out on their wives; that shyt was fukked up but that's just what it was. Men were willing to provide and shelter women from a lot of shyt(even though some of the things men did to women it can be looked at like trading death for slavery) women haven't realized something about men.
Human beings are inherently about self preservation aka survival; men and women just have different ways of doing that. Women band together in social groups, while most men keep our circles very small and even then our levels of communication pales in comparison to their friendships. This is because if a man doesn't see value in someone or something he will completely abandon it with no afterthought. Look at the lack of even marriage proposals and the number of single mothers out here if you don't believe me. You gotta understand how we look at it: you basically gave us men a big ass fukk you and slap in the face(and honestly fellas we probably at least deserved that) when you said 'We'll do it on our own fukk y'all!' and ladies you have to understand to men that is like an up front challenge to us, you want to do it yourself go ahead, don't make it right but men can be petty too(we need to stop attaching that only to women fellas).
We all gotta do better though cause male mental health is a serious issue in this country and I firmly believe women's empowerment is a huge factor in that. Men lost their place in this world, and really didn't get a say so in how the pieces would get put back together and mentally that shyt fukked us up when you are used to calling the shots for so long. Women gotta realize, and this is one thing I do agree on with women, that men are faaaar more stubborn and faaaar too stubborn to change that fast, we are prideful creatures it is always our downfall: either pride or p*ssy, in this case BOTH.
Also honestly... Monogamy don't really work. People(especially men when it comes to women wanting strange) really need to grow the fukk up and realize this. I'm married as fukk and I will tell you the urge NEVER GOES AWAY. You can surpress it, but it is hard and it hurts sometimes but it will never leave, and I'm sure women deep down feel the same way.
