Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men

[13473]

Less people are getting married, because a majority of women aren't submissive anymore. Simple

As a woman, you can't reject patriarchy and then expect to be married. Water and oil don't mix

how many submissive women have u dated

 

[Youseenmywork]

Your angry b/c the inconsistencies of a male dominated world aren’t working in ur favor and have resulted in the mess we are currently in.

I get it. Nobody can take u seriously when u can’t even acknowledge the pure and utter shyt women had to go thru just to get basic rights.

U yelling and screaming won’t make reality go away.
Females don’t have bias in the educational system. They have opportunity that entire generations of women prior to them did not have and those same inferior chicks who could be nothing more than homemakers have taken that opportunity and ran with it.

Whoda thunk that when given a chance women could do so much when they aren’t raped, castigated, blamed, shamed, denied opportunity, and told to get back in the kitchen. The fact that those women u mentioned did that shyt in a Mad Men era more than proves the point my professor was making. Chicks were literally painting in the street b/c their husbands would steal their artwork. Many historians credit Einstein’s wife as a contributor to much of his work...

If they were doing all this while under duress, god only know what could have been achieved with a little opportunity instead of countless other contributions lost b/c male ego gets shook anytime a woman wants to do more than cook, clean and fukk.

That all caps yelling ain’t saying much bro. This world is burning down due to the excesses caused primarily by men. Men say they run the world, wanna lead, that women should submit—welp this is where it got us. Worldwide sex slavery supported by and for men. Countless wars waged by men. The possibility of ethnic extinction due to a lack of respect for females as a result of female child fatalities resulting in countries with huge male populations and no females, rape, sexual harassment, extreme wealth disparity, glass ceilings...and u wanna neckyap about FEMALE accountability?!Women don’t take ya’ll seriously with that bullshyt b/c men NEVER wanna be held accountable for shyt. And now women are saying fukk it.

To the point that chicks would literally choose dying alone as a senior citizen than put up with even one more second tied a man society pushed her to get with back in the day.

Yelling and screaming and gnashing of cyberteeth won’t stop this truth.
Adapt or die.

Birth rate in the US just dropped again, hits lowest level in 32 years
Women even sayin fukk it to having kids worldwide.
'Delaying marriage by even 1 year lowers domestic violence against women'

Why a bad marriage is worse for women than men
Marital Status May Impact Women's Health

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/his-hers-marriage_b_3129269/amp

There has been decades of these findings. And getting angry Won’t make it go away.

I love how she sounds like the women's study course that I walked out on in my 20s while going to a black University ....walked out cause I can see past the BS....and I can always since when the victim hood is coming.

 

[Rawtid]

Does the idea of traditional marriage really exist among black people actually looking to get married?

Hell yes. I think that's why some fail to find someone. They want a traditional set up when it's just not reality. You'll women complaining about men wanting them to be submissive, although they paying more than half the bills.

I like you as a poster but this anti-patriarchy talk is really really silly, and make me think you don't understand how serious and real war is.

Thousands of years of human existence has shown that non-patriarchal societies cannot compete with patriarchal societies. And the west is facing serious competition from China right now which is gunning for the spot of top patriarchy.

I get it, women want to be able to compete with men, problem is men are more focused on competing with other men because the consequences of losing that battle is usually death or slavery.

Women can't understand this because the consequences of losing conflicts aren't the same for them as they are for men.

Remember that time a group got conquered and they killed all the women and kept all the men? Yea me neither.

Off topic, that's why I never could get into the petty African vs. ADOS shyt, because at the end of the day an American black man and an African black man are gonna get thrown in the same gas chamber if blacks as a whole don't get their shyt together.

Even here in America in regards to black oppression, do you think it's by chance that our prison system is mostly black men, and black female incarceration lags behind? do you think it's by chance black men have the highest unemployment rates, when black female employment is healthy? Do you think it's by chance black boys are failing in the school system while black girls perform better?

We're seeing an modern version of "kill the men, keep the woman" its just been adjusted to happen over a longer period of time.

I'm not talking about black women being in competition with black men, but working together. Basing associations on strengths and weaknesses vs roles and responsibilities. Because the truth the matter is that more black people are UNABLE and in some cases UNWILLING to fulfill them, yet at the same time refusing to "settle" for a spouse that doesn't meet that criteria. The reason women aren't being "submissive" is because their role in the relationship, out of necessity most times, aligns more with what the man should be doing. This is why the tired ideal of "traditional, be married like my grand parents for 50 years" annoys the crap out of me. We'll never form the necessary associations with one another continuing to seek out these traditional attributes in one another.

Men have value far beyond making money, just as women are valuable beyond being domestic and because, as you listed black men are incarcerated and unemployed at higher rates, is the reason to abandon these concepts of tradition altogether. Again align based on strengths and weaknesses and you can move effectively within a system designed to destroy us all. We need one another.

 

[Rawtid]

You do realize that this article puts that on women. There is a lack of men who can traditionally provide so women don't wanna get married.

Why can't yall love a man who ain't providing?

I do realize that and feel they need to abandon that strategy, it has only led them to disappointment. Partnering with someone financially and taking care of (providing) for them are two different things.

 

[Youseenmywork]

You make good points and have actually opened my eyes to some things, I'll give you that.

But you act as if the world would be sooo much better if women had been given power earlier. You don't know that, and you can't prove that. To act like women are all these perfect creatures that have been held back is silly. Both genders are more similar mentally than we have been led to believe right? so why would you think women being in power would have precided over less wars?

Your obviously a strong feminist so your views will be skewed in that direction and we have to take what you say with a pinch of salt, but I agree with you on some things.

I'm not buying a lot of her points cause I've been put on game a while ago. My grandmother and auntie's live through the civil Rights era and talking to them it was never as bad as she is making it. Plus I have other books that prove as much. Anybody that sounds like a college course is always a red flag. Hell I can put snippets of Jordan Peterson in this thread he would cut the BS down to size.

 

[UpAndComing]

how many submissive women have u dated

All of them were

 

[13473]

All of them were

how many of them did you marry

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Why are threads about marriage always so long? If y’all are gmb and see so much risk in marriage, then why y’all get so invested in convos about this?

 

[Offthegrid]

Hotgirl summer hotboy summer is a mirror of society RightNow,alot of fuking Sukn rawdawgin unwanted children by mfs they dont even know pil Poppincucumber challenges driving the boat everybody fakeballi g living their so called best life living fast dying lonely and old 20-30yrs from now marriage ain't for everybody

 

[Youseenmywork]

Why are threads about marriage always so long? If y’all are gmb and see so much risk in marriage, then why y’all get so invested in convos about this?

It's not that hard to understand if white people are saying marriage has gone to shyt even with us ...that means blacks and many other races may not stand a chance. If white people have a cold then blacks have leprosy...

The future of men and marriage is bleak

 

[Youseenmywork]

I could go Alllll day

 

[CarmelBarbie]

It's not that hard to understand if white people are saying marriage has gone to shyt even with us ...that means blacks and many other races may not stand a chance. If white people have a cold then blacks have leprosy...

The future of men and marriage is bleak

But if y’all are gmb, then why does marriage going to shyt bother yall? Its not like y’all want to get married anyway, or do you?

 

[UpAndComing]

how many of them did you marry

None, and when I am ready to get married and start a family, I will get with another submissive woman. The only women I deal with, whether friendship or relationship will always be that way... I don't deal with feminists whatsoever. I knew what you're 2nd question was before you asked, ya'll so see through




So you're saying a submissive women should only be that way to catch a man? That can't be a her natural disposition? Enlighten me

 

[The ADD]

Hell yes. I think that's why some fail to find someone. They want a traditional set up when it's just not reality. You'll women complaining about men wanting them to be submissive, although they paying more than half the bills.




I'm not talking about black women being in competition with black men, but working together. Basing associations on strengths and weaknesses vs roles and responsibilities. Because the truth the matter is that more black people are UNABLE and in some cases UNWILLING to fulfill them, yet at the same time refusing to "settle" for a spouse that doesn't meet that criteria. The reason women aren't being "submissive" is because their role in the relationship, out of necessity most times, aligns more with what the man should be doing. This is why the tired ideal of "traditional, be married like my grand parents for 50 years" annoys the crap out of me. We'll never form the necessary associations with one another continuing to seek out these traditional attributes in one another.

Men have value far beyond making money, just as women are valuable beyond being domestic and because, as you listed black men are incarcerated and unemployed at higher rates, is the reason to abandon these concepts of tradition altogether. Again align based on strengths and weaknesses and you can move effectively within a system designed to destroy us all. We need one another.

I have my doubts those people truly want to get married. If they did they wouldn’t be as rigid with the construct of the relationship IMO.

 

[13473]

None, and when I am ready to get married and start a family, I will get with another submissive woman. The only women I deal with, whether friendship or relationship will always be that way... I don't deal with feminists whatsoever. I knew what you're 2nd question was before you asked, ya'll so see through




So you're saying a submissive women should only be that way to catch a man? That can't be a her natural disposition? Enlighten me

me quoting you was about your logic, not my stance on submissiveness.