Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men

[Ol’Otis]

That’s where that whole toxic masculinity shyt comes from

 

[ignorethis]

Evolve or die.

You can say that but who gonna make sure they die?

nikkas that are scared of guns and conflict
?

You think they're just gonna lay down?

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I like you as a poster but this anti-patriarchy talk is really really silly, and make me think you don't understand how serious and real war is.

Thousands of years of human existence has shown that non-patriarchal societies cannot compete with patriarchal societies. And the west is facing serious competition from China right now which is gunning for the spot of top patriarchy.

I get it, women want to be able to compete with men, problem is men are more focused on competing with other men because the consequences of losing that battle is usually death or slavery.

Women can't understand this because the consequences of losing conflicts aren't the same for them as they are for men.

Remember that time a group got conquered and they killed all the women and kept all the men? Yea me neither.

Off topic, that's why I never could get into the petty African vs. ADOS shyt, because at the end of the day an American black man and an African black man are gonna get thrown in the same gas chamber if blacks as a whole don't get their shyt together.

Even here in America in regards to black oppression, do you think it's by chance that our prison system is mostly black men, and black female incarceration lags behind? do you think it's by chance black men have the highest unemployment rates, when black female employment is healthy? Do you think it's by chance black boys are failing in the school system while black girls perform better?

We're seeing an modern version of "kill the men, keep the woman" its just been adjusted to happen over a longer period of time.

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[Jhoon]

You can say that but who gonna make sure they die?

nikkas that are scared of guns and conflict
?

You think they're just gonna lay down?

Yeah. Look at the incels. For the most part they are taking their rejection from the herd pretty well.

 

[ignorethis]

Yeah. Look at the incels. For the most part they are taking their rejection from the herd pretty well.

Lol so the slowly escalating mass shootings have nothing to do with that?

And let's not get started on the violence in inner cities, which for those who haven't seen it up close, is usually directly or indirectly tied to p*ssy.

Lol y'all gonna learn why the men that rule society created monogamy, they don't care about the low level men, they just realized when men aren't getting p*ssy/female companionship they become much more prone to violence. But this is shyt you were supposed to learn in high school reading Thomas Hobbes.

That's why I can't take feminism seriously because most of their "new ideas" are conclusions people like Hobbes came to 400 years ago, with female viewpoints and emotions attached.

 

[chkmeout]

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End the fukking thread no more discussion.

 

[MaxPain]

I was gonna post something similar.

For the longest most of world has been a "man's world" but now with societal advancements and technology we're slowly transitioning into a "woman's world".

Not really debating whether it's good or bad, I just wonder is it sustainable or is a reset coming soon.

Because I don't believe technology and social conditioning can take the out of men and boys.

This trend started 30-40 years earlier for blacks in America

The cycle goes

Its a man’s world when everything is hectic who fight to make everything peaceful and stable

Then it’s a woman’s world when everything is easy and those men forget how they got to that point

Hard times make strong men
Easy times make weak men

Guess what happens to weak men and women.

We are seeing a decline and strong patriarchies are looking at us like food.

Women should not lead , period. They are not built for hard times. They only feel safe to feel “powerful” during easy times, and its men who give them that power to begin with.

 

[phcitywarrior]

This might have been on of the better threads on the Coli in 2019. Good discussions even deep into the 18th page. Usually we get to a point where the discussion and debate take a seat and we get into name calling and trolling.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Most women leaders I seen in the army were trash at their jobs, minus like 10-15

 

[Eddy Gordo]

It’s hilarious to me. A lot of gmbs are yearning for love and actually want to get married. They go in on women and institution of marriage for that reason.

Men see financial risk in marriage and don’t find it benefits them enough. Women see the emotional toll it takes, and be the first one ready to divorce even with the benefits it offers to us because they aren’t feeling it either. So this shouldn’t be bad news imo.

The article was insulting mainly. It had the tone as if it is somehow men's responsibility for the decline in marriage instead of women's.

Now if only we could do something about child support.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

The better question to ask is if women finally have all these economic opportunities; they got their degrees, cribs, cars, vacays

Why are they still writing these whiny articles every year about marriage decline?

Why is it always men doing something or not doing something, or there's not enough men who are so and so?

Yall are happy now. Shouldn't these articles stop?

Be surprised when brehs respond after women are still complaining that they not doing what they want

There are articles being written on everything. And often some of the same ideas get recycled month after month, year after year, over and over again. Much like on the coli. It’s typically a subgroup of people whining loud. They reflect their subgroup but not everyone. But at least in their case, it makes sense that they keep wining about the topic. They’re unhappy because they want to be married but aren’t. It’s also why they are so invested and defensive about this topic. It matters to them.

I just don’t understand why gmbs whine and complain in response. They don’t want to be married. They’re happy with their choice not get married. They don’t have a reason to be defensive because they aren’t strongly invested in marriage and the very fact that marriage isn’t happening as much lines up with their stance anyway.

But these topics always tend to be page after page of gmbs whining and complaining about women and marriage—why? They don’t want to be married anyway. This topic shouldn’t even warrant a response from them.

I do understand why men that want to be married are defensive, and care. I understand why they lash out when they see these articles. They’re invested in this because it’s what they want too. These are the men that the women that want to be married should be listening to. But I digress.

becuase realistically speaking a family unit is the corner stone of society and the only way a good family can be produced is through a healthy monogamous union of 2 parties, we can argue this all you want but unless you cool with shyt hitting the fan and going to the stone age you should slightly be worried about this too

but imma joker, i wanna watch this world burn and hopefully rise up through the ashes like a phoenix

People who value marriage and see benefit in it are the ones that care about what this means for families and societies. Those who are gmb oppose marriage, and see no benefit for men, only risks. They support men who don’t marry too. That’s why being overly invested in discussing the very thing they oppose makes no sense.

 

[MikelArteta]

thanks to data and the internet, 80% of relationships/marriage are ended by women.
I'm sure every man has dated or loved a woman and everything was going great then one day she changed her mind.

 

[You Win Perfect]

Nah, more like economically stable men don't want to marry "reformed" hoes.

most dudes that dapped that aren't economically stable i guarantee.
but i totally agree with you

 

[CarmelBarbie]

The article was insulting mainly. It had the tone as if it is somehow men's responsibility for the decline in marriage instead of women's.

Now if only we could do something about child support.

Okay, but if y’all don’t want to be married anyway, why do y’all care about what these silly women are saying about you? Regardless of who’s fault it is, or who’s unwilling to take accountability, either way, you’re still not getting married. Your happy with your stance and your choice to remain single. fukk what they say, and how they feel....right?

 

[Eddy Gordo]

People who value marriage and see benefit in it are the ones that care about what this means for families and societies. Those who are gmb oppose marriage, and see no benefit for men, only risks. They support men who don’t marry too. That’s why being overly invested in discussing the very thing they oppose makes no sense.

That's a terrible argument. That's like saying because I prefer renting I can't see the value in home ownership.

Dudes can see the benifits of marriage for family and society, they just don't want to be subjected to financial ruin on the whims of a their partner.