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If I’m paying for everything all the time, I’m the boss, period. If she a stay at home mom that’s one thing but if we live together and I’m paying all the bills I aint trying to hear I’m tired when I want sex, I’m not tryna see piles of dirty dishes/clothes, no hot plate when I get home….it’ll be 1962 in my house.
 

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What does this have to do with the topic?

Both parties can and should work. Contribute to the mortgage, finances and the rearing of the children. A lawyer and a doctor on that show doing it the right way.

Anecdotal evidence, of the couples that were stay at home versus making over 70K each that I know, the latter stays together longer.

As a black community with our wealth where it is at, both parties need to work.
 

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Im living it right now. Thats why I'm not running around here angry like most of yall miserable dudes lol. Its not just something that sounds good.
 

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Both parties can and should work. Contribute to the mortgage, finances and the rearing of the children. A lawyer and a doctor on that show doing it the right way.

Anecdotal evidence, of the couples that were stay at home versus making over 70K each that I know, the latter stays together longer.

As a black community with our wealth where it is at, both parties need to work.
I agree completely, breh.
It's best for everyone involved.
 

FeverPitch2

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Yall post hoe babble then write a book addressing it

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I used to wonder if she was marriage material and after these couple of videos of her talking about relationship dynamics, I know she's not ready.
She honestly will never be ready you can tell. She wants to be married for certain benefits but doesn't have the personality imo which is fine. I know I don't have the personality for marriage but I realized that years ago.
 

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IF YOU ARE THE BREAD WINNER IN THE HOUSEHOLD AND YOU DON'T ALLOW YOUR WIFE TO WORK, EXPECT TO BE TAKEN TO THE CLEANERS IF YOU DIVORCE.

Coli brehs really don't want that traditional marriage life. I paid all the bills in my house before, when you are the breadwinner someone is ALWAYS coming with they hand out for your bread and that shyt gets fukking old... FAST.
 

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Coli brehs really don't want that traditional marriage life. I paid all the bills in my house before, when you are the breadwinner someone is ALWAYS coming with they hand out for your bread and that shyt gets fukking old... FAST.

IT MADE ME UNDERSTAND MY GRANDPA'S GRUMPY WAYS.
 

Dallas' 4 Eva

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IT MADE ME UNDERSTAND MY GRANDPA'S GRUMPY WAYS.

It made me understand two phrases 'whoever makes the money does what they want.' And 'men do what they want, boys do what they can.'

Keep it 100 I'm married and I wouldn't recommend this shyt to nobody. As a man outside of my son, it really aint worth it I woulda been better off on my own.
 
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