Find Out The Kid Ain't Yours After 7 Years, Breh's

[SheWantTheD]

People are out here having unprotected sex with multiple people at the same time, so if someone gets pregnant or catches a disease or infection they don’t know who bares responsibility.

SMFH

 

[HARLEM AL]

Super fukked up but after 7 years as a man you can’t turn your back on the child, you’re the only father they know
fukk the mama though

Yall looking at the situation like emotional women.

He's been there 7 years, may as well stay.

He has the green light to fukk all the hoes he want. He can bring women home and have his wife eat that puccy while he stroking.

He can have a couple outside children and tell his wife to stfu.

#blackfamily

 

[George's Dilemma]

Real talk. Depending on what state he's in, he might have a problem on his hands.

Paying Child Support for a Non-biological Child | LegalMatch


As noted above, a family court can order a non-biological parent to pay child support in certain situations. The person will need to be a legal or equitable parent. Look to your state’s child support guidelines for more information about when this could apply. Some factors that could weigh into this decision include the following:

You financially supported the child for a significant amount of time;
You emotionally supported the child for a significant amount of time;
You lived with the child and other parent; and
You helped make important parenting decisions, like where the child would go to school or what medical treatment the child would receive.

All of this could support a case for equitable paternity if you are not a biological or legal parent of the child. This can make it difficult to avoid child support payments mandated by court order. However, keep in mind that this will also support a case for you to have custody rights over the child, which means you could fight for shared custody or visitation rights.

You can also attempt to establish someone else’s biological paternity as a defense to making these payments. However, say you acted as a father figure to a child by exhibiting all or some of the traits discussed above. Even if you track down the biological father, if they were never involved in the child’s life then the court may still order you to make the child support payments if you separate from the mother.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

One of the biggest con jobs society has pulled is convincing people that women are the empathetic sex.

I think as men, we are harsh in our approach but logically we are able to understand why something would piss someone off or upset them.

I'd say that women don't care, but then they end up doing shyt that puts them on death's door which makes me think it is a lack of understanding.

You ruin someone's life and then fail to understand why they're hurting. The next step is them throwing you through a window so that you can experience hurt.

I have a theory for why that is (so take this with a grain of salt), but I think if women had our strength & durability, they wouldn't need to be so 'manipulative'. I'm not trying to sound sexist or anything, but women are VERY good at psychological warfare. They got that shyt down to a science

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

I have a theory for why that is (so take this with a grain of salt), but I think if women had our strength & durability, they wouldn't need to be so 'manipulative'. I'm not trying to sound sexist or anything, but women are VERY good at psychological warfare. They got that shyt down to a science

they are
they know what to say and do to stroke our egos or fukk with us psychologically or slowly break us down
how a woman acts and what she is thinking are very very different

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Lowkey, some women are hella bold tbh.
If I was doing someone that dirty, I'd never be able to sleep easy.
Just me knowing myself, I'd have to come clean sooner rather than later cuz my fear of their righteous wrath would have me gaunt, haggard and paranoid.
But apparently, some of these chicks are doing some of the grimiest ish, and still living their best lives......?

I'd level a house, using her body as a sledgehammer to do it if she ever tried me so foully.
Her brain matter on the moulding and plaster, + her blood coating my knuckles and cheeks in the process.
And all my exes know this.

I sincerely believe that your women don't need to be afraid of you, but they need to be terrified of your bad side for it to work longterm.
That would cut these kinda shenanigans down drastically, if they really understood they were risking their lives to do it.

If you ever actually acted on those thoughts you'd get this whole site shutdown

Real talk. Depending on what state he's in, he might have a problem on his hands.

Paying Child Support for a Non-biological Child | LegalMatch


As noted above, a family court can order a non-biological parent to pay child support in certain situations. The person will need to be a legal or equitable parent. Look to your state’s child support guidelines for more information about when this could apply. Some factors that could weigh into this decision include the following:

You financially supported the child for a significant amount of time;
You emotionally supported the child for a significant amount of time;
You lived with the child and other parent; and
You helped make important parenting decisions, like where the child would go to school or what medical treatment the child would receive.

All of this could support a case for equitable paternity if you are not a biological or legal parent of the child. This can make it difficult to avoid child support payments mandated by court order. However, keep in mind that this will also support a case for you to have custody rights over the child, which means you could fight for shared custody or visitation rights.

You can also attempt to establish someone else’s biological paternity as a defense to making these payments. However, say you acted as a father figure to a child by exhibiting all or some of the traits discussed above. Even if you track down the biological father, if they were never involved in the child’s life then the court may still order you to make the child support payments if you separate from the mother.

Honestly this the kind of shyt that needs to be taught in schools. In addition to other courses, kids should learn the law. Should be required right up until 12th grade. From grade 6-12 sex education should be taught as well, first on a more scientific anatomical basis, and then into the complexities and nuances of consent, expressing interest, fidelity, etc.

A LOT of problems would be resolved overnight. There will always be idiots who act stupidly no matter how hard you try to reach them, but a lot of men and boys could be saved if they have this knowledge early. The standard on what men would want out of women would rise dramatically since they know what it is they stand to lose in the case of a marriage or a pregnancy. Marriage is an institution that mainly benefits women. Child-rearing is something that culturally we've put on women to the point where our laws force men to raise the child of a woman they've been with even if that child isn't his.

 

[Dzali OG]

Easier said then done

Oh I know. Because men have this false image of the man/woman relationship dynamic. That image needs to die.

You don't own nann piece of p*ssy. You're not "fukking the shyt outta" nann bytch. That broad decided to smash you.

All the responses are due to this false sense of embarrassment that someone else fukked and impregnated his woman. That can happen to any man because women own the keys to sex.

We need more men willing to be stepfather in our community. If you raise them right your stepchildren will love you the same as your biological. I know from experience.

 

[skylove4]

So as a black man you could turn your back on a black child you thought was yours for 7 years.

Nobody is saying to stay with the mama, just still treat the child as yours

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Oh I know. Because men have this false image of the man/woman relationship dynamic. That image needs to die.

You don't own nann piece of p*ssy. You're not "fukking the shyt outta" nann bytch. That broad decided to smash you.

All the responses are due to this false sense of embarrassment that someone else fukked and impregnated his woman. That can happen to any man because women own the keys to sex.

We need more men willing to be stepfather in our community. If you raise them right your stepchildren will love you the same as your biological. I know from experience.

I dapped until the end
Do you but for me I'm gone
Insult to injury having to raise the child and have it affect my life when it's not mine and the woman did me dirty
Agree with everything else women hold the keys they are the ones who choose

 

[HARLEM AL]

So as a black man you could turn your back on a black child you thought was yours for 7 years.

Nobody is saying to stay with the mama, just still treat the child as yours

If he wants to. If he don’t that’s also cool too.

 

[Deuterion]

Damn I bet that sucks. Couldn’t imagine my daughter not being mine after 7 years. I don’t think I’d be able to turn my back on her if it did unfold this way. Damn I feel for dude.

Same here…if I found out my son wasn’t my biological I’d just try to terminate any child support going to her but I’d still want to take care of my son…he’d still be my son matter what.

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Same here…if I found out my son wasn’t my biological I’d just try to terminate any child support going to her but I’d still want to take care of my son…he’d still be my son matter what.

I might still be in the kid's life as a mentor figure/like family if the kid wants but I'm not taking care of the kid

 

[Commish]

The really cold part about this is that dude can still be financially liable for the child.

The courts, depending on the state, will still presume that man to be the fsther since he has acted as such since the birth of that child.

Just imagine having to pay child support but have no parental rights? If the child is a daughter, then guess who ISN'T gonna walk her down the aisle when she gets married?

Yeah, the child's mother is wrong. Yeah, she may be a fukked up person, but guess what?

She don't give a rat's ass nor a flying fukk! Neither does the courts! I bet Breh signed the birth certificate as well which is really fukked up! Smh..

I feel for Breh! I just hope he don't do anything stupid like killing the child's mother. I think he needs to seek legal counsel and see if he can get some sort of legal remedy.

Smh..

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Damn I bet that sucks. Couldn’t imagine my daughter not being mine after 7 years. I don’t think I’d be able to turn my back on her if it did unfold this way. Damn I feel for dude.

I know a guy who had full custody of his daughter (the mama got strung out on drugs) and this nikka found out she wasn't his daughter when she was like 13.




Like what do you even do at that point?

 

[Negro Caesar]

I know a guy who had full custody of his daughter (the mama got strung out on drugs) and this nikka found out she wasn't his daughter when she was like 13.




Like what do you even do at that point?

Raise ur daughter.