Find Out The Kid Ain't Yours After 7 Years, Breh's
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7 years?Might as well go all the way champ
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I would definitely tell the kid the truth.
"I found out I am not your father,your mother lied to me
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We would cry together,get it all out,they would know the piece of shyt their mama is. Closure for everyone involved.
I would try to continue the relationship with the child on my terms. Also understanding the child or mother could have different terms.
If those terms don't line up?so be it smh.
But you have to be careful taking on the full role of father in this situation. Of course the child will probably still want you around now.
But as they grow up into adulthood and have independence,and don't need parents.
Its a very good chance that they will view you as even less of a parent or feel the need to remain connected.
Afterall,this happens to kids with their REAL parents,so it could likely be worst for you since there is technically no obligation.
Just a fair warning if you decide to pick up the mantle.
?I would definitely tell the kid the truth.
"I found out I am not your father,your mother lied to me
"We would cry together,get it all out,they would know the piece of shyt their mama is. Closure for everyone involved.
I would try to continue the relationship with the child on my terms. Also understanding the child or mother could have different terms.
If those terms don't line up?so be it smh.
But you have to be careful taking on the full role of father in this situation. Of course the child will probably still want you around now.
But as they grow up into adulthood and have independence,and don't need parents.
Its a very good chance that they will view you as even less of a parent or feel the need to remain connected.
Afterall,this happens to kids with their REAL parents,so it could likely be worst for you since there is technically no obligation.
Just a fair warning if you decide to pick up the mantle.
Voice of Reason
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Some of these women are cold blooded 
Voice of Reason
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I wonder can he sue her for the money that he spent on the child over the years?
god shamgod
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why is his revelation online? Everybody puts everything online now fukkin weirdos , this a private conversation
Cat piss martini
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Ozymandeas
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Bruh a 7 year bond that you’ve created with a child you thought was yours is about you and the child not the trifling mama
you can tell her to kiss your ass with bullshyt requests but that is still your child now and when she becomes an adult and y’all’s bond is strong, nothing her mama did will matter.
Nah
These clout hoes about to start givig live births On Live..
A month of the child's upkeep should cover some hood chicks putting her in the hospital nicely
Hopeofmypeople
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Mandatory DNA tests should be carried out before the signing of the birth certificate or having to support the child finacially.
shyt like this is...
people don't realize the little things men have to put up with it and hold inside and suck up.
This is why men get bitter and angry sometimes. It's not "men don't open up". It's men having to deal with shyt like this. This is literally an extreme form of emotional abuse that most women have ZERO idea how to relate to. And the worst part? No punishment. People criticize you as a guy if you decide to leave or if you react poorly in the moment.
@Booksnrain
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@dora_da_destroyer
@colicolicoli
I always understand and try to listen to women, like genuinely, but it's hard for me to agree when they say "women are scared of men" when they willingly do shyt like this to men. I know it's just one story, but shyt gets me fuming because I've dealt with similar shyt in real life and my blood is boiling
the most relatable scenario for women to what this man experienced is when some find out the child they're raising was switched at birth in the hospital.
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HARLEM AL
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They will never do that. The state and government don’t care as long as someone paying for that child. Which is why they have child support and custody separated.
