First date ideas?

TOAD99

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Like others have mentioned, an active ish first date is the way to go

fukk taking her to an expensive restaurant

I’d say an active date like bowling and drink or two to loosen up is best
 

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Like others have mentioned, an active ish first date is the way to go

fukk taking her to an expensive restaurant

I’d say an active date like bowling and drink or two to loosen up is best
 

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Bar w/ a booth and dim lighting by your place
Why? Because you got an excuse to sit next to her, make eye contact w/ her when she speaks, and she'll prolly get turned on and wanna kiss. You right by your crib, so it's easy to invite her back to smash.
 

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Gun range, I need to know if she can handle the iron, I got too many enemies to have a bad aiming broad with me
 
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Gun range, I need to know if she can handle the iron, I got too many enemies have a bad aiming broad with me
A lot of good suggestions in here but real talk I was thinking about the range. Gives you a chance to teach them if they don’t know how to shoot and people Lowkey want to flex on IG that they’re busting a gun lol
 

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yeah I agree with this, women need mental stimulation cause they get bored very fast

there's this girl that I work with that has been giving me heavy choosing signals for a while now

and for a first date, I'm going to take her to something called a escape room

Celebrity Escape Room (Full TV Special) - YouTube

its not going to be cheap, but I'm not just doing it for her, I'm doing it for me too, because last thing I want to do is just a boring walk in the park....

a activity date checks all the boxes

- bonding through fun activity
- loosening up through physical exhaustion, when a group of people are physically tired, they're more likely to open up and bond with each other because mental and physical barriers have been broken
- emotional stimulation - women need their emotions involved with things...so something like a escape room is perfect


and just like you said, once you are done with the physical activity, THEN, you do something light as the icing on the cake

so I'm going to take her to a mall, buy some drinks and talk, this allows for more bonding and laughing from the previous activity




but at the same time, I wouldn't recommend doing all of this for a girl that hasn't giving you any heavy choosing signals

if it is just some chick you have randomly met, I think doing shyt like this is way too much

I like the idea of an escape room but It may run the risk of you getting frustrated at her problem solving skills if they arent great. Then your gonna be pissed off the rest of the date.
 

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Drive in movie's.. You can bring your own food in da whip, weed, liquor Sit there sip, smoke talk and watch the movie..and u get 2 movies for the price of one. Bout time the movies over she gonna be drunk and ready to fukk. I always end up either fukking in the whip or getting necked off.

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Alll of these are good ideas and waaay more likely to have a girl interested in going on a second date with you whilst still on the first.

Think outside the box. THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS TAKE A GIRL ON A SIT DOWN DATE WHILST SHE WISHES SHE WAS SOMEWHERE ELSE AND YOU TRYNA FIGURE OUT HER FAVOURITE COLOUR. Have an activity where her mind is occupied where shes too busy having fun to think about picking up her phone. Make the date fun so you also have a good time so even if shes not the one YOU still had a good time.

Some of ya'll in this thread are hustling backwards cos ur tryna cheap yourself out of a good time then wonder why ur dikks stay dry.

Activity date is the way to go OP, theres lots of free things to do thats easy on the pockets. Theeennnnn you go eat after, even if ur walking in the park eating hot dogs,your going to be goofing off and laughing at each other from the previous activity.
After the date is over DO NOT PRESS HER FOR SEX. You want her to think about it, if she wants to kiss give her a kiss but make it something shes gonna think about. ( This is where you show dominance.) Grab her lightly by the neck, lift her up, but LET HER LEAD THE KISS. Then you take ur ass home jerk off then text her before you fall asleep. Thank her for coming out with you and that you had a really good time.

She will show interest by letting u know when shes free. She will drop it into convo. PAY ATTENTION to shyt shes babbling about over the next few days. THIS IS WHERE THE GEMS ARE. "Omg i loove Moroccan food, my cousin went to some place on xxxx avenue. (This is 4th date information.) PAY ATTENTION. You've only been on date 1 , but you are planning ahead cos this is the day you gonna get some p*ssy. Because you would have fully laid the groundwork.

Second date. Plan this with her by midweek after the first date. Cinema and nibbles and drinks. If she offers to pay (which she should) then your onto a good thing. More kissing, she'll allow you to go further this time.

Third date ask her what's shes up to she may plan this date. By this time you guys will be talking on the phone often figuring shyt out you like etc.


4th date, by this time you guys should be onto a good thing. Make your reservation at the Moroccan place, tell her to wear sumn nice dont tell her where you're going, this should be the night you get some p*ssy. She'll be crawling out her skin to give you some.


Kanyes work out plan.

4 dates for some p*ssy really? This is why you don't take women's advice
 

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IMO not to sound like you gotta take advantage of her. But starting with anywgere you can have drinks is key.

i feel like 2 drink knock off the anxiety of being on a date and put you in the monent.

dont spend alot but dont cheap out. I used to eat well off of byob mini golf. Or a bar on the beach/nice bar
 
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