First Paycheck Without Child Support

Yaboysix

That nikka
Joined
May 28, 2012
Messages
20,592
Reputation
3,467
Daps
50,500
Reppin
Tampa Florida
I'm on child support for 3 of mine, time kinda flying by though...I was stressed out about it but once them crackas told me

"Make it enough"...
:birdman:

Aight...I'ma play by Y'ALL'S rules...

I met a guy who told me to do "mediation" and get that shyt worked out .best decision if my life.



Moved to a new city where I get to spend less time with my babies, but make TRIPLE the money I was making back home....child support still going off the OLD pay ...

740 a month for 3 kids!

:blessed:

Iont know HOW I'ma act when I get child supportless pay
 

-DMP-

The Prince of All Posters
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
37,051
Reputation
9,609
Daps
116,007
Reppin
LWO/Brady Bunch/#Midnightboyz
Man I feel for yall boys. My bro had an arrangement with his ex wife where he was paying outside of the system. Well, they fell out so she reneged and put him on CS.

Courts said he owed back CS even tho he broke her off during that time, monthly, said it didn’t count cuz it wasn’t through the state 😮‍💨

My boy was paying a stack a month for a while 🫠
 

Regular Developer

Supporter
Joined
Jun 2, 2012
Messages
9,196
Reputation
2,347
Daps
26,329
Reppin
NJ
I don't think we're agreeing with the system. It's probably unfair, but from the kids perspective, they need somebody to take care of them, and it's at the minimum the responsibility of both parents.

It's not a system you have to participate in. It's just dudes have various options before hand to avoid having to go through this situation yet time and time again they get a girl pregnant, which is how sex works, and have to complain about a system that every dude before them and after them has\will complain is unfair. In a country that already has challenges without a kid.
 
Last edited:

Bolzmark

Superstar
Joined
May 23, 2012
Messages
8,520
Reputation
1,331
Daps
27,999
Reppin
ATL
As many people as we hear say “my Mom had no help raising me”? You hear it so much from pro athletes it’s almost cliche. And rappers? It’s damm near the norm.

Child support laws need to be modified yes but you are not living in reality. Child support is the only thing putting food in some kids mouths.
 

2 one 3

wavy
Joined
Nov 11, 2017
Messages
7,059
Reputation
2,076
Daps
53,932
Reppin
Westside
As many people as we hear say “my Mom had no help raising me”? You hear it so much from pro athletes it’s almost cliche. And rappers? It’s damm near the norm.

Child support laws need to be modified yes but you are not living in reality. Child support is the only thing putting food in some kids mouths.

It’s just really sad when two grown-ups cannot come to an agreement without having the court dictate financial obligations. That is the part. I really don’t like is having to be told to do something by an outside force that has no idea what goes on behind closed doors.

Child support laws definitely do need to be adjusted because it is highway robbery more often than not
 

ThrobbingHood

“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Joined
Nov 11, 2017
Messages
33,892
Reputation
17,080
Daps
238,708
Yeah, me having to pay is bs when his mom is an assistant principal making good money. Most men in my position don’t have to pay anything. I’m making perfect sense but you’re just an ugly fat bull dagger bytch that wants to talk sh*t. You just worry about your high blood pressure and that sore on your foot that won’t heal you big diabetic bytch. My kids are over good…
Breh, she’s truly retarded. Claims to not be easily offended but she has half of the forum on ignore everytime her simple ass gets schooled. :mjlol:

And people on here are acting like child support isn’t weaponized by scorned women. You could provide financially for your little one even if the relationship doesn’t work out.

But once she gets jealous of the new girlfriend or has an argument with the baby dad, that’s when she wants to get the courts involved. shyt is crazy. :francis:
 

HARLEM AL

Your broad loves me.....
Joined
May 19, 2012
Messages
23,744
Reputation
4,455
Daps
95,368
Reppin
Harlem, NYC
That shyt is like you hit the lottery. Funny thing is you get so adjusted to it you don’t know what to do.
 
Top