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the best doms were subs first. just saying. you can't truly call yourself a master if you haven't been there.

but it sounds like you're just going for kink. I prefer to make everything permission based until I feel out what really works for both of us. the pleasure you can give your partner is just that. given. you hold it, and you decide how much she deserves.
 

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the best doms were subs first. just saying. you can't truly call yourself a master if you haven't been there.

but it sounds like you're just going for kink. I prefer to make everything permission based until I feel out what really works for both of us. the pleasure you can give your partner is just that. given. you hold it, and you decide how much she deserves.
Yeah. kink. not trying to go all in.
 

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the best doms were subs first. just saying. you can't truly call yourself a master if you haven't been there.

but it sounds like you're just going for kink. I prefer to make everything permission based until I feel out what really works for both of us. the pleasure you can give your partner is just that. given. you hold it, and you decide how much she deserves.
:sas1:
 

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I'm trying to become more dominant in the bed room. I want some tips. Maybe some tying up or blind folding nothing too crazy. I just wanna spice shut up. any suggestions ?

When you plan on tieing her up, use straps and not cuffs
You don't want her to be in the type of pain she's not going to enjoy
Use these things, not necessarily in order
Blind fold
Candles
Hot candle wax
Whips
Halls (the shyt for your throat)
Ice
Hot chocolate
Feathers
Spanking
Spitting
Hair pulling
Name calling
Call Her by a different name
Be spontanious
Don't let her know what's coming
And don't OD
Don't get too deep into character where you're choking her and don't realize what's going on
 
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