Folks into Dom and Sub shyt get in here.

[Aphrodite]

My fav is role play. Start long before you go to the bedroom. Be a prison guard over a female prisoner. You want to give her hell and rough her up. But not leave evidence where she can get you fired.

Me: Da fukk you doing out yo cell?
Her: The Sargent said I can go to chow.
Me: Fukk dat! What did I tell you, hunh? I should write your ass up. But see, that's being too nice. Everytime I give you an inch you wanna take a foot... Well come here, I'm bout to give you something. And you gon take all of this.

Me: Fukk wrong with yo uniform? That ain't regulation. Take it off! Don't tell me shyt about what Sargent said... I Run This! This Is My Jail... This the 2nd time I done caught you with a cellphone. you gotta pay me. I'm sick of covering for yo ass.

Breh, me in my girl be in script in front of company. Folks don't be having a clue what is going on. Sometime I just step into my role unexpectedly. And all she knows is that she better get right because it's going to be a long night.

Role Play >>>

 

[Neuromancer]

Bro. you have to recognize your boundaries and confidently push past them. if she's not into it she'll say no.

fukk her like an animal man. Give into your animal instincts. Bite her. if she ain't switching positions fast enough punish her. or man handle her. Put her in the position you want her in. Control her orgasm. She doesn't get to cum until you allow her.

You own her body. Her arms are yours. Claim them. Grab them and tell her "these are mine now." You control the air she breathes and everything she feels.

The key is to condition her to associate her orgasm with pain. When she's feeling pleasure make her feel pain too. Tell her, "This feels good to me." lol use whatever words you want.

let her know you get pleasure from her getting pleasure from something bad. girls Iike pleasing their man. they like taboo.

Tell her, "are you a good girl?" if she says yes punish her. if she says no punish her. Then say, "bad girls get punished, I like bad girls, are you a good girl?"

Be a sadistic motherfukker man. Be petty. Tell her the other dudes she's was piping were bytches. Then make her feel pleasure. Prove your point. Only give her D when you want to.

I like to completely control my partners. I dunno if this is exactly what you're looking to do but I hope this helps. Hit her man. trust me she'll like it.

Touch your thumb to her chin, keep your wrist straight and raise your hand slightly and bring it back down. Slide that hand down to her neck and lightly choke her. Kiss her too. She'll melt for you.

Might have to try this. How do I control her orgasm you mean like stopping when she's about to cum?

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Try being dominant with her mouth/throat

I like it when I'm giving my boyfriend head and deep throatin him and he holds my head down like throat fukking me for a bit so I can't breathe

That actually makes y'all mouth wetter

 

[Neuromancer]

My fav is role play. Start long before you go to the bedroom. Be a prison guard over a female prisoner. You want to give her hell and rough her up. But not leave evidence where she can get you fired.

Me: Da fukk you doing out yo cell?
Her: The Sargent said I can go to chow.
Me: Fukk dat! What did I tell you, hunh? I should write your ass up. But see, that's being too nice. Everytime I give you an inch you wanna take a foot... Well come here, I'm bout to give you something. And you gon take all of this.

Me: Fukk wrong with yo uniform? That ain't regulation. Take it off! Don't tell me shyt about what Sargent said... I Run This! This Is My Jail... This the 2nd time I done caught you with a cellphone. you gotta pay me. I'm sick of covering for yo ass.

Breh, me in my girl be in script in front of company. Folks don't be having a clue what is going on. Sometime I just step into my role unexpectedly. And all she knows is that she better get right because it's going to be a long night.

might have to work our way into this breh. shyt kinda embarrassing .

 

[Vice Queen]

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Might have to try this. How do I control her orgasm you mean like stopping when she's about to cum?

Exactly. just stop. at look her in the face and tell her she doesn't cum until you allow it. tell her to be obedient or she doesn't get to cum. then tell her to take the D and then lay pipe breh. tell her you know she likes it. then tell her to cum. she'll cum.

Edit: the key is to condition her to associate pain with pleasure. you have to keep raising the level. so take your time. always know what your next move is. you also gotta not cum. so BREATHE man. deep breathes.

 

[David_TheMan]

I'm trying to become more dominant in the bed room. I want some tips. Maybe some tying up or blind folding nothing too crazy. I just wanna spice shut up. any suggestions ?

Start soft dom and then work yourself up to the heavy stuff if that is what you are comfortable with.
I would say start with blind fold, silk, tie hands up with silk do some tickle play, maybe some hot wax, and do that until it feels comfortable, slowly ratchet it up, maybe not so soft bindings, then you can get into spanking and rougher physical play. You can work some dirty talk into there as well.

 

[Neuromancer]

Exactly. just stop. at look her in the face and tell her she doesn't cum until you allow it. tell her to be obedient or she doesn't get to cum. then tell her to take the D and then lay pipe breh. tell her you know she likes it. then tell her to cum. she'll cum.

Edit: the key is to condition her to associate pain with pleasure. you have to keep raising the level. so take your time. always know what your next move is. you also gotta not cum. so BREATHE man. deep breathes.

What pain do I inflict on her?

 

[Neuromancer]

Start soft dom and then work yourself up to the heavy stuff if that is what you are comfortable with.
I would say start with blind fold, silk, tie hands up with silk do some tickle play, maybe some hot wax, and do that until it feels comfortable, slowly ratchet it up, maybe not so soft bindings, then you can get into spanking and rougher physical play. You can work some dirty talk into there as well.

I can spank with my hand but the paddle kinda weirds me out.

 

[Neuromancer]

What kind of pain should I inflict.

 

[David_TheMan]

I can spank with my hand but the paddle kinda weirds me out.

You can do spanking with lighter things and read your partner and what they want, ask them, do they want harder, do they want the hand, do they want a paddle, or do they prefer a belt.

 

[Wild self]

you would do great.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

I'm trying to become more dominant in the bed room. I want some tips. Maybe some tying up or blind folding nothing too crazy. I just wanna spice shut up. any suggestions ?

Grab her throat and choke her while you smashing from the back. They love that shyt

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

What pain do I inflict on her?

That's up to her. I slap, pinch nipples, and spank ass. if she's tough slap the outside of her thigh. it hurts a lot. or fukk her hard and deep.

I recommend you get comfortable with idea of hurting and slapping her. you'll figure out what a love tap and a corrective slap feel like from how she responds.

You don't have to tie her up man. You can get her in doggy, grab her wrists, and pull her arms back. She'll be face down ass up. perfect angle to kill it in.

If you're in missionary grab her wrists and put her arms above her head. You can also wrap your legs around her legs and spread them open for her. missionary is great for restraining a girl. use your body weight to pin her down.

You can flip her over so she's laying on her stomach and do what I suggested for missionary.

 

[PeridotPuss]

in and experienced so.....