Folks into Dom and Sub shyt get in here.
- Thread starter Neuromancer
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I always thought that BDSM shyt was corny caccery. Dressing like a fukking gimp. Whips and chains. Just cliched dress up BS. I guess that's why 50 Shades of Grey was so popular; could give milquetoast women a nice. bland unseasoned fantasy. Honestly, a truly dominant relationship is going to extend outside of the bedroom in a lot of subtle ways. It's that subtlety outside of the bedroom that will lead to the anticipation of true dominance in the bedroom. Your walk, talk, attitude, thinking, actions etc. If it all gives off an air of dominance, true dominance, not stereotypical thuggery, then by the time you get into the bedroom she will be ready to submit and be your little whore.
@The Grendel Also, pain is good. And not just inflicting. Taking. Let your girl make you bleed. Let her scratch up your back. Your face. Bite your nipples. Make your chest red with your own blood. The ability to take that sort of pain and sneer at it makes women crazy. It also makes them think you're crazy. And that's okay because they love that element of danger. They love as you hold a knife to the throat in one hand and have your fingers interlocked with theirs in the other. In the bedroom, or in all aspects of life, a woman shouldn't fear you per se, but she should never know what to expect from you either. Always keep your eyes wild and hungry.
Uh. Imma have to ease into all that.
It comes with time breh. There was a time I wouldn't let a girl piss on me believe it or not.
How old are you?
I'm 30. But I'm a late bloomer.It comes with time breh. There was a time I wouldn't let a girl piss on me believe it or not.
I'm 30. But I'm a late bloomer.
Yeah, you're slightly behind the curve but if you're even asking these questions you're definitely ready to ascend to a higher plane. I realized what I was truly capable of with my ex. Sick, twisted things became normalities and once you cross that threshold there's really no going back. Every subsequent woman is going to have to match that. And I've yet to meet my match.
Yeah I liked being vanilla for the most part. I'm just trying to add some toppings.
I like vanilla breh. It's steady.
Hmmm, you might be on the right track. Though I've seen that steadiness will make them feel safe but they will always have a mind, heart and eye for the madness. My advice is be a bit of both.
I agree. I just fear once I embrace madness. I may enjoy it too much and will be ...changed.
'Tis true young Grendel. Once a man or woman has truly embraced a form of madness they shall never let it go. That's why I've come to embrace who I am. I'm too far gone to ever return to what I was even six years ago. In this life we must just hope to meet our match that ignites our flames.
I see sir I see. I am but a simple man and though madness entices. I just want to be a writer and a simple. gentle man. unless madness will increase my writing ability .
A lot of great writers were and are bat shyt insane. A creative mind never quite has it all there.