For the brehs in relationships, do yall give out monthly "girlfriend allowance"?

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Also i dont advocate paying for a girlfriends rent or giving her allowance. Just explaining why yalls girls think how they think and why you realistically cant tell them shyt. Your in a polygamous relationship with you,her and her other husband. Better known as the European:respect:. Dont get me wrong,you do have a say. But sometimes she is going to tell tou "Hold that thought,while I ask my other husband:usure:"
 

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This is why alot of yalls wives and girlfriends actually belong to the European. He is her provider,he is her rock,he is her strength with that job:francis:

Some of us have deprogrammed our women and want to shield them from white supremacist, high risk hellhounds and the assimilateds. Who they will be surrounded by in the workforce. Not condusive at all to what im trying to do. If your plan is to be fully assimilated and stay in thie country . Yes,might as well send your woman into massas house.
Let’s just break this all the way down.

Last time I checked, we live in a country/world dominated by Europeans. This idealistic scenario of every man being able to be the sole bread in a marriage applies to a small minority. Unless you managed to be financially free from the matrix, we’re all under a European system. There’s no shielding or running away from white supremacy.

Most couples are barley surviving on a dual income. Very few people have the luxury to depend on their husband to provide complete financial security.

This idea of an “allowance” is nonsense. If you both have a joint account or split the bills, there’s no need to treat your wife like a Hooker/sugar baby.

The funny thing is, although I don’t like discussing my finances, my lady and I could live off my passive income alone until we retire.

But I don’t date bum bytches who expect handouts. If I even said “here, take 300 bucks and treat yourself”, she’d spit in my face and feel insulted. She likes getting her own money. She’s smart enough not to be solely dependant on any man.

That’s how these single mothers end up destitute and bitter, because their trash baby dad absconds and if they do somehow get him on child support, it’s merely a pittance.

That being said, I have no issues buying gifts, treating my woman, going on vacations. That’s all on me. But an allowance like she’s a prostitute? :hhh:
 

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Everywhere I turn, be it dating TV shows or social media posts about relationships, it seems like this shyt is a thing were a man is supposed to be giving his girl a "girlfriend allowance" :dahell:

So for those of you who are in relationships: do you'll give out this allowance? Why or why not?:jbhmm:

I’m legit shocked at this thread. Even in the most traditional places where men pay a dowry to the woman’s family, money exchanges hands only after a marriage has taken been agreed upon.

nikkas are actually out here financing the lifestyles of girlfriends? Not wives, but gfs?

From some of these posts, you are in a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement, you just don’t know it.
 

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Nah - no allowance from me.

We are on an 80/20 split of rent & bills so she should have the money to do as she pleases.

This..
We've become so used to carrying them, that basic logic has escaped us.
I suspect unemployed females sit on more cash than unemployed men of the same age.

Women are way better at getting and holding onto money than men.
 

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I'm so glad that we aren't on social media like that. Everyday there is some new trend or toxic behaviour that people want to implement into their relationship. Remember the Birkin bag from way back? Only learned about that on here.

Paying for spa, nails or groceries are my limits. Maybe some clothes while we out. An allowance is weird to me, if we were married and she was a stay at home (which I'd not prefer) then she would balance the books and we'd both be on an allowance.
 

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I’m legit shocked at this thread. Even in the most traditional places where men pay a dowry to the woman’s family, money exchanges hands only after a marriage has taken been agreed upon.

nikkas are actually out here financing the lifestyles of girlfriends? Not wives, but gfs?

From some of these posts, you are in a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement, you just don’t know it.
These clowns are so game goofy. It used to annoy me but I know if I ever go back on the market, it’ll be so easy for me to clean up.

These fools will be paying the rent, hair, clothes, nails of some bytch, only for me to roll up and provide stiff dikk. :mjlol:

These clowns are letting women dictate the narrative, that’s why there’s so much confusion.

If you’re “dating” a woman who needs or accepts help with her rent being paid, just ask yourself what calibre of woman you’re dealing with.
 

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I like nails on a lady. So I pay to get that done regularly.

Other than that nah.

Even now I’m married. I pay 70% of the bills. Most of the food shopping subs etc. so she has more disposable income.
 

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no.. do i pay for shyt when we go out and buy gifts? sure, but I’ve never done any of that extra shyt. no woman has ever asked me to/expected it either. every woman I have dated since college had a job and money of their own and wasn’t looking for no handouts.

they were relationships because we were attracted to eachother, not some sugar daddy simp shyt.
 
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