For the brehs in relationships, do yall give out monthly "girlfriend allowance"?

[Ashley Banks]

You did not state this until several posts later in fact, after your original post got the block hot. On top of the enormous ducktales of claiming that you only have one body (more like "one body.. at a time") you have now began virtue signaling as if you are the one woman in the world capable of not mistreating her partner.

Please award 10million in punitive damages to the defendant.

Yeah you’re clearly a new member lmao everyone knows I was a virgin until I got married a few years ago. Been on here nearly 10 years never changed my tune. Never claimed I’m incapable of any mistreatment of anyone but he was describing a psycho, you don’t have to be perfect to not be an ungrateful bytch. smh

 

[Ashley Banks]

You would have been out of there the moment he let you pay his rent and you know it. p*ssy would have dried up like the Sahara instantly.

Lmao probably

 

[Music Fiend]

I dont give my girl money. IMO relationships are transactional enough.

You being with me means when you are with me, you dont have to pay (hopefully you offer and pay every blue moon to show appreciation).

So if im paying for our outings, you should have all the funds to keep yourself goinf

 

[Robbie3000]

glossed over that little detail totally.

 

[Ahadi]

Everywhere I turn, be it dating TV shows or social media posts about relationships, it seems like this shyt is a thing were a man is supposed to be giving his girl a "girlfriend allowance"

So for those of you who are in relationships: do you'll give out this allowance? Why or why not?

“Push presents” too

 

[jmegamar]

I’m legit shocked at this thread. Even in the most traditional places where men pay a dowry to the woman’s family, money exchanges hands only after a marriage has taken been agreed upon.

nikkas are actually out here financing the lifestyles of girlfriends? Not wives, but gfs?

From some of these posts, you are in a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement, you just don’t know it.

Facts!! I can see paying for dates, nice things here and there. Damn all that if,especially in this economy, I’m paying my rent and yours. A gf rent at that. Wife/fiancé totally different and understandable.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Man, some of these young cats out here think that a woman is doing you a favor by being your girlfriend.

Ya'll got the game twisted...or at least women have convinced ya'll that the game is their way.

 

[InkosiYe]

Y'all stopped marrying these hoes and they've been looking for back door deals to be wives


Paying a girlfriend a salary? Is she a prostitute?

This is Africa breh, Ghana to be precise.

Every fukking day I see my people breaking their backs to provide for lazy unemployed women who are entitled as shyt. @CouldntBeMeTho NEVER

Ain't that about a bytch, same thing on the continent now too huh. We're living in different times

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Them reality shows dont have nothing but Black male simps that buy trophy hoes


Me m my girl was watching this show about women that been married multiple times
And this 50yr old Black chick had been married 4 times and was engaged to some lame nikka that kept bragging about all the shytbhe buys her


Real loser shyt

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Sugar baby bidness

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Well i'll be damned, its a new day huh

No wonder my new girl been catching an attitude with me lately after she learnt how much I make. The bytch probably thinks I should be wiring a percentage of that money to her account every month

My playbook old as hell and by the looks of things, I wont be updating it any time soon.

my dude seemingly became the same way (not really "attitude" but more so wanting me to be more flashy) when he found out how much i make. this is why i don't lead with my job as an effort to make an impression or even disclose how much i make, unlike the majority of men.

 

[Cobalt Sire]

No, they just offered it. Like a perk to dating them. I never needed it. My dad paid it before they did and would have continued if they didnt. I always had/have money, they just wanted/ want me to spend my money on things I like which is nice.

What kind of life on easy mode is this? You making me mad, man lol j/k.

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

I can't even give myself an allowance with my own money, government and inflation takes it all. Imagine me giving a....woiii Jesuus!

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

my dude seemingly became the same way (not really "attitude" but more so wanting me to be more flashy) when he found out how much i make. this is why i don't lead with my job as an effort to make an impression or even disclose how much i make, unlike the majority of men.

I fukked and let it slip indirectly in a convo where I was talking about rejecting a job offer a while ago because the money they offered was not enough. She hit the "wait a minute, thats too little to you?"

I tried to julz my way out of that but it was too late. Eventually disclosed the numbers. Now i regret it because even though she promised it wouldnt change things, i can see she looks at me differently as far as expenses go. She aint lifted a finger since to get the bill when we're out and whenever i complain about the price of anything she hits me with the "but babe you a 6fig nikka tho "

 

[Bumblebreh]

I dont give my girl money. IMO relationships are transactional enough.

You being with me means when you are with me, you dont have to pay (hopefully you offer and pay every blue moon to show appreciation).

So if im paying for our outings, you should have all the funds to keep yourself goinf

Conditional, yes.But the whole allowance thing is not a universal standard. A man but buy gifts or give her money, but it is not a weekly requirement.