For the men on this new age relationship tip...

Amy Traphouse

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Because I'd rather actually do something then sit in his crib :camby:
If I wanna play Playstation I could stay at home. Got both consoles with PS+. Send me a invite.

I got netflix, hboGo, and Xfinity on Demand so I don't need to chill at your house to watch movies and shyt. I can do that in my own time and ugly down while at it.
 

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If I wanna play Playstation I could stay at home. Got both consoles with PS+. Send me a invite.

I got netflix, hboGo, and Xfinity on Demand so I don't need to chill at your house to watch movies and shyt. I can do that in my own time and ugly down while at it.
I can too (not Xbox though) but if he talking about not going out on dates then I want to do something in my interest :yeshrug: I wouldn't mind going to a dudes house to play some multiplayer
 

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it's not about never wanting to get married or never paying on dates or never going out/always staying at the crib. it's about her knowing and internalizing the concept of me not being obligated to do any of these things. it's about her understanding that it's always my decision to make and i won't be shamed or guilt tripped into doing something i simply don't want to do. if you want me to do something how about learning to actually make me feel like doing it instead of "you're not a real man because XYZ a real man would...". But deep down, i don't think most men mind taking care of their woman and having a solid bond with her. this is ideal. i think most men don't want to feel like their woman feel like they're entitled to it.
Chix are entitled to the world as long as they're loyal and they ctrl their mouth. But I look at it as weakness on my part if she's talking reckless about me or in my presence. There's no coming back from that shyt. It's like having a friend that u clown all the time and borrow money from cuz he's a sucka n one day he punches u in the face n breaks ur jaw n knocks u out in front of everybody n u still tryna keep him in ur circle and still look like the boss at the same time. That shyt ain't gon werk.

I don't even argue with chix no more. If she has a grievance n starts running her mouth, I axe her two questions very calmly.

"What makes you feel that way?":mjpls:

"What can I do that would make you happy?":youngsabo: (w/ those exact same facial expressions, too)

If she has some retarded ass unreasonable solution then I agree to her demands n cut her off the next day. If it's within my power and I feel like making the effort, I agree to do it in some form or fashion and tell her not to be doing that reckless mouth shyt in public n if we're in private I tell her I love her n respect her n I exist to make her happy n the only thing I demand of her is total trust, total loyalty, n total respect, n that if she's not happy she just needs to calmly tell me n we can chop it up like adults.

If I love her then even if she wigs out in public I'll tell her the same thing, basically. The second time she does it in public, she's getting her ass left where she stands n I'm gathering her little weeknd knick knacks from my crib n putting it in a gym bag on my couch for when her dumb ass finds her way back to my crib. She wants to do anything besides take her shyt n bounce I'm calling the poe-leece on her Prozac Nation ass.:salute:
 

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Chix are entitled to the world as long as they're loyal and they ctrl their mouth. But I look at it as weakness on my part if she's talking reckless about me or in my presence. There's no coming back from that shyt. It's like having a friend that u clown all the time and borrow money from cuz he's a sucka n one day he punches u in the face n breaks ur jaw n knocks u out in front of everybody n u still tryna keep him in ur circle and still look like the boss at the same time. That shyt ain't gon werk.

I don't even argue with chix no more. If she has a grievance n starts running her mouth, I axe her two questions very calmly.

"What makes you feel that way?":mjpls:

"What can I do that would make you happy?":youngsabo: (w/ those exact same facial expressions, too)

If she has some retarded ass unreasonable solution then I agree to her demands n cut her off the next day. If it's within my power and I feel like making the effort, I agree to do it in some form or fashion and tell her not to be doing that reckless mouth shyt in public n if we're in private I tell her I love her n respect her n I exist to make her happy n the only thing I demand of her is total trust, total loyalty, n total respect, n that if she's not happy she just needs to calmly tell me n we can chop it up like adults.

If I love her then even if she wigs out in public I'll tell her the same thing, basically. The second time she does it in public, she's getting her ass left where she stands n I'm gathering her little weeknd knick knacks from my crib n putting it in a gym bag on my couch for when her dumb ass finds her way back to my crib. She wants to do anything besides take her shyt n bounce I'm calling the poe-leece on her Prozac Nation ass.:salute:
i don't believe in entitlement at all but everything else i agree with. :salute:

EDIT: but i wouldn't call the police either cause you already know how that shyt will go careful with that breh
 

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:mindblown:JFC I WAS BEING SARCASTIC ABOUT THE TRAPHOUSE. Wtf meds are you children taking?:snoop:
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That's what I'm saying. :dahell:
:damn: Sarcasm!



Also: If ur at ur man's crib n he's too busy to focus on u after he axed u to come over, that breh better be clocking bread like he's running a traphouse, tho. Or meeting with Chinese investors for a new tech start up or some shyt. fukk u look like being a bad bytch on his couch n ur dude is in the bathroom playing with his prick while u tryna beat Socom?:camby:
 

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Men and new age relationship tip is sort of a oxymoron. You don't become a man necessarily by age but rather wisdom, knowledge and experience. So in refernce your question, I think it isn't logical to ask about relationships such as marriage with and to people who aren't mature enough to understand how to to have a successful one.
 

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:damn: Sarcasm!



Also: If ur at ur man's crib n he's too busy to focus on u after he axed u to come over, that breh better be clocking bread like he's running a traphouse, tho. Or meeting with Chinese investors for a new tech start up or some shyt. fukk u look like being a bad bytch on his couch n ur dude is in the bathroom playing with his prick while u tryna beat Socom?:camby:
:dead: I meant playing the game with him like Street fighter, King of Fighters, Injustice, MK :noah:
 
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