For The Men That Claim To Have "Mouthpiece"

[Wild self]

Good speeches are moreso a result of being an effective speaker/orator, not necessarily having the gift of gab. There's certain techniques involved in being an effective public speaker. Adolf Hitler and Martin Luther King are 2 of the greatest speakers ever,

Gift of gab is moreso being knowledgeable on a wide variety of subjects and being able to relate to different people. Basically having the ability to "chop it up" with just about anyone. Dudes like Tupac and Rick Ross defiantly has the gift of gab.

You right, and it worked for me in the past, but I get burnt out at times and sometimes rather just be left alone. When I'm on a social mood, things will go and go well.

If I'm in a kood that I rather stay home, my mouthpiece be . Problem is, a lot of women want you to be on the tip on talking 24/7, that I have trouble doing so.

 

[tater]

Most of the time this "game" dudes run has no effect. A girl will play along, but for the most part she knows if she wants you based off initial interaction. Not necessarily just attraction either, could be your personality, money, material goods etc. I've never had a guy talk me into or out of something I didn't already want to do.

This isn't the case all the time, but most. Some girls do get gamed though.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Most of the time this "game" dudes run has no effect. A girl will play along, but for the most part she knows if she wants you based off initial interaction. Not necessarily just attraction either, could be your personality, money, material goods etc. I've never had a guy talk me into or out of something I didn't already want to do.

This isn't the case all the time, but most. Some girls do get gamed though.

What you see as his personality is part of game, tho. If your perception of his personality is confident, funny, bold, sociable, that pretty much means he has game. If your perception of his personality is dull, timid, weak that means he has no game.

Game is all about how you present yourself, not some magic words to get a girl's panties wet.

I feel like people get caught in the word itself because some people interpret it as tricking a woman that isn't attracted to you into giving up the draws. But it's really just having good social skills and being able to communicate value. Most men don't approach women in a confident manner and don't have great social skills. So when a guy does, that's having game.

 

[tater]

What you see as his personality is part of game, tho. If your perception of his personality is confident, funny, bold, sociable, that pretty much means he has game. If your perception of his personality is dull, timid, weak that means he has no game.

Game is all about how you present yourself, not some magic words to get a girl's panties wet.

I feel like people get caught in the word itself because some people interpret it as tricking a woman that isn't attracted to you into giving up the draws. But it's really just having good social skills and being able to communicate value. Most men don't approach women in a confident manner and don't have great social skills. So when a guy does, that's having game.

That's personality to me. You can usually tell if they really have those traits or are just pump faking. I don't think presentation of yourself is "game" per say. But I get what you're saying.

 

[4North1Side2]

This dude proves op's point. You can be corny as fukk with no game and still bag beautiful women just based off your looks.

 

[feelosofer]

I'll say this, 'game' is an overrated aspect to pulling women, it can get you over the top, but it's not going to make or break you one way or another, it's just one aspect to the laws of attraction.

 

[iBrowse]

I use my eyebrows

 

[Cynic]

That's not game. That's basic instinct in communication. Only a socially inept person couldn't manage that.

Fight or flight is basic instinct... I had to learn through trial and error and then read books
on improving it as a skill and endure more trial and more errors and some successes here and there.
I took what I could and made it my own ...as it applied to me. Maybe I was "socially inept"
and game improved that

That's the randomness of everyday life anyway. And if they react the same, why do you need improv?

To stay sharp and have wit..again you have to understand female nature first

Not just wealth, all the things that science tells us women like.

Wealth = resources and drives up your utility as a man. Which is all women see
when they see you. A utility for entertainment, attention, vacations, shopping etc....

Off course this doesn't apply when you have women as rich as you or those
who come from old money but that's a totally different subject.

 

[Larry Lambo]

That's personality to me. You can usually tell if they really have those traits or are just pump faking. I don't think presentation of yourself is "game" per say. But I get what you're saying.

The lines get blurry between personality, social skills, and game. However, they are correlated.

If you have a good personality and good social skills, you will have game.

If you have a terrible personality and poor social skills, you will not have game.

Some guys have have good personalities but poor social skills. Women can look past that, but he will struggle if he's trying to pick up random chicks.

If a guy has a wack personality but has good social skills, he'll end up getting a lot of numbers and even sleeping with some girls here or there, but girls will get tired of him within a couple of conversations.

 

[Murkman]

Biology. If someone has a high T at a young age he can get girls to notice.

@Doomsday spend time at a job (if you have one) in a section where you're usually around women, I'm friends with half of mine on my staff and you can learn a lot by not intervening (hearing how they interact with each other), It's like doing reconnaissance on women, I been at my job for more than a year and the amount of shyt I've learned just casually picking up their conversations, indirectly.

Knowing what makes them laugh works wonders too, figuring out how their personalities work, playfully making fun of their weaknesses/insecurities, you'd be surprised.
The other day, I overheard that one of the girls (White redhead) hates (is scared) of dudes who whispered in her ear without her knowing (one of our older cooks is a basically a "Cobweb perv" which prompted her aversion to that). So today, I had to restock the storage room area and before taking out the trash, she asked for my help in there for a few minutes later on.

When I saw that she was by herself, I had a bright idea to scare the shyt out of her with the whisper thing, when I came back from the trash dump area. I peeked to make sure she didn't see me, when she wasn't looking I straight up rushed to her ear, like:

("Did you still need my HELP!?")

Had her dying laughing for 5 straight minutes, just small shyt like that goes a long way bro. It's not "game" it's simply communication skills and some psychology like you said earlier.

I work with the women there who are of various races, and knowing how their humor works differently, makes it that more enjoyable. Here's 2 examples:

A Black chick from there I know is from Compton, so our banter is always on some CA hood shyt, trying to outsmart the other with slang. One of the Mexican girls I'm cool with, is a Hip-Hop Head.
We joke around about whatever is trending, rap our favorite songs and express things both of us like/dislike about certain rappers.

Whatever you do, don't ever use one-liners, you're not a rapper (even so, that would make it worse if you were one). Personally, idk why guys stress the intimacy part so hard, like try being a fukking person to them first, lmfao.......all that other shyt comes later anyways.

 

[Murkman]

To stay sharp and have wit..again you have to understand female nature first

That isn't emphasized ENOUGH in these man-to-man talks on impressing women, should be said as part of some pledge of allegiance to manhood, EVERYDAY.
Men fall for that "women don't like smart guys" bullshyt all the time, lmfao, more like "women don't like guys who are too prideful for their own good".
Women don't ever want to feel stupid compared to men, which is understandable, so you have to level with them to your relative base of knowledge.
Most appreciate a man who can match their wits, connect to their interests and pick their brain on stuff. Giving them tips on general things, is always invaluable too.

 

[Primetime]

I agree with that. If she thinks you're ugly, no amount of game is gonna get you in the draws.

However, these chicks have so many attractive male options, you have to separate yourself from the pack if you want a girl on par with you.

Now if you just want to smash a basic chick, then you can rely solely on your looks.

But any chick that is legit attractive and that you would want to build with, is gonna have offers from other dudes that she is just as physically attracted to. If you come off real wack, you'll be disregarded.

if i can contribute to this thread quickly

for some you dont even need game, ive had good nights up in clubs all by myself in the middle just chilling and groups of chicks or pairs will come near me and stalk me out , theirs been times when id notice a chick eyeballin me and id just let her look at me till she would come near me and start something , one time i didnt even have to look at this chick in the eyes to get her to come prod my elbow and chat to me

im not even the best looking guy but sheeeiittt anything is possible if 50 fukked Vivica

These are good points that I can relate to. Speaking for myself:

I'm 6'2, work out a lot and women have said I look like a swoll marlon wayans.. idk , so i may not be denzel or usher but i know i aint bad looking either.

So one thing i noticed years back when i was in college was that most bad females, from AKA sorority to random big booty pretty thing on campus, would kinda size me up from a distance and entertain a convo if i approached them. But very early on i didn't have the social skills to close the deal like i would later. I used to think it was b/c i wasn't in a frat or on the bball team... but just through some self-reflection and observation i learned that i just had to be better/smoother in my convo, as opposed to when i was weeding through the 5-7/10 chicks who didn't really care how corny or lame you sounded long as you smiled or flexed. On some lowkey thirsty lol

Granted, there are some differences in dating as a grown adult versus back in college but i agree in principle with what yall both said about attraction.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Is this loser movement real or am I missing out on an extremely complex joke?
Women are easy to talk to IRL...Online...On the phone, it doesn't matter. If somebody's easy to talk to, you're comfortable around them, they're comfortable around you, there's a RAPPORT.
When a rapport is built, p*ssy happens, then the possibilities are endless. p*ssy isn't the only thing you can get, nor is it the PRIZE.

 

[Cynic]

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That isn't emphasized ENOUGH in these man-to-man talks on impressing women, should be said as part of some pledge of allegiance to manhood, EVERYDAY.
Men fall for that "women don't like smart guys" bullshyt all the time, lmfao, more like "women don't like guys who are too prideful for their own good".
Women don't ever want to feel stupid compared to men, which is understandable, so you have to level with them to your relative base of knowledge.
Most appreciate a man who can match their wits, connect to their interests and pick their brain on stuff. Giving them tips on general things, is always invaluable too.

It depends, anything I do now has bigger applications than impressing women.

So gaining women is usually a tertiary effect of other things I have going on not the central focus.


But that's just me and I've gotten disgusted from seeing the true side of female nature so I no longer care for their approval in a dating sense.

 

[Giselle]

I'm of the belief that it doesn't matter what you say to a girl as far as small talk. It ultimately comes down to basic attraction and little else. Women are prejudice, and as long as you appeal to those prejudices you will win.

As someone who considers himself overtly logical, this whole "game" bullshyt sounds like superstition. An excuse that guys used because they don't want to admit they got that girl because they were 6'3, or got the girl because they were rich.

For the guys who's stance with women is you ultimately have to know the right "code words" to use and it's all about having "game", would any of you mind posting pics of your dime piece female you pulled? If all it takes is the right talk, and you're an expert in that field, you should have bad bytches on deck...

Game is slang for good communication skills, charm and for some people it ivolves lying to get the guy/girl they want.

You'll need a little more than just game to keep a woman.