For those of you who gave up on dating and let the right person find you, did it work out?
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This is true.
You have to put yourself out there.
Don't go out with the intentions of bagging bishes. Just go out and do you breh.
when i broke up with my last gf i was jaded as fukk on dating and relationships..the only thing i cared about was how much p*ssy i can get..that was my focus for like 6 months until i got it out of my system..then it was like im open to relationships/dating but i wasn't going to make it a focus..my current gf found me and bam 5+ years and counting
Nothing in life is the norm, iif people knew my life they would think I was lying. I've never made the first move, never asked for sex,
Never asked for a phone number.
I remember when I met my ex fiance I didn't even want to go to this stupid ass birthday party, was only like 5 people there just sat there listening to music, she sat right beside me nothing was said. Found out later from my friend she thought I was handsome. Months later she adds me to MSN, we meet and yeah.. I wasn't looking, didn't Care just happaned.
I've just never really cared, I'll just go out and live my life and stuff happens. Like I'll go and take photos at the waterfront and a chick will talk to me, or I'll use my glow in the dark umbrella or ish.
Hell a few years ago I used to go to pizza hut for lunch a few times a week always was the same cashier , she started to knew my order and we started to small talk, she found me on Facebook when I had it at the time and we dated for awhile
All I'm saying is you never know, you can be hungry at 1am head to the McDonalds sit down and eat and your next gf may be in the next booth alone
You may decide to go to church on a Sunday and end up sitting down beside your next gf/ next bf if your a girl
I'm.not saying sit at home and your doorbell will ring and she will be there, but you never know when your going to meet someone the beauty of life.
Never asked for a phone number.
I remember when I met my ex fiance I didn't even want to go to this stupid ass birthday party, was only like 5 people there just sat there listening to music, she sat right beside me nothing was said. Found out later from my friend she thought I was handsome. Months later she adds me to MSN, we meet and yeah.. I wasn't looking, didn't Care just happaned.
I've just never really cared, I'll just go out and live my life and stuff happens. Like I'll go and take photos at the waterfront and a chick will talk to me, or I'll use my glow in the dark umbrella or ish.
Hell a few years ago I used to go to pizza hut for lunch a few times a week always was the same cashier , she started to knew my order and we started to small talk, she found me on Facebook when I had it at the time and we dated for awhile
All I'm saying is you never know, you can be hungry at 1am head to the McDonalds sit down and eat and your next gf may be in the next booth alone
You may decide to go to church on a Sunday and end up sitting down beside your next gf/ next bf if your a girl
I'm.not saying sit at home and your doorbell will ring and she will be there, but you never know when your going to meet someone the beauty of life.
Women approaching at a bus stop for reasons other than directions?That ain't the norm you are one of the lucky ones breh.
About the topic a woman can come along randomly but if you wait on that your gonna be waiting for a long azz time. Putting your self in social setting is really the only way........sucks when you have no social circle tho
at best buy...I was talking and cursing to myself looking at dvds
the amount of L's lmaooat best buy...I was talking and cursing to myself looking at dvds
Just imagine if you didn't go to best buy that day or 20 minutes earlier or 20 minutes later.
This is what I was trying to say, you never know, just go out and live life whatever happens happens
This is what I was trying to say, you never know, just go out and live life whatever happens happens
at best buy...I was talking and cursing to myself looking at dvds
I think you should switch your thinking around some. You shouldn't have to be someone you're NOT in order to be in a relationship with someone. You can't keep up a charade forever. Being alone will help you learn who you really are. If there are things that you feel may be unattractive to mate, then work on correcting them but also realize that you are supposed to grow with your spouse and there is nothing wrong with not being up to par RIGHT NOW...as long as you're alive you have time and opportunity to improve yourself. So I would say stop focusing so much on dating and learn to be comfortable with yourself, bad habits and all.
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Thatrogueassdiaz
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True.It's a numbers game. You will crap out and you won't roll 7 forever. But how you gonna win if you don't play
I know what you meant. A lot of my closest friendships have come that way. I just need to chill, live life (not in seclusion), and when the season is right itll come. I have faith
Definitely give up "the search".
It signifies satisfaction and fulfillment with oneself. Instantly attractive.
It will also allow you to focus all that outward energy back unto yourself. The extent of this is limitless.
Once you learn to balance giving your gift, love and fun to the world, you will also attract the same because you don't have the void or need associated with "finding" someone. Your not trying to get by hook or crook. Once you start to give your self contained happiness, you become the source of that for others around you. Magnificently attractive and gives you great social value.
"Finding" implies something missing. Someone lost, someone never there to begin with. A form of illusion. Once you stop searching you see who and what's there as they really are.
The objective of a man is not to hunt, but to be found. Not to seek nourishment from women, but provide it. Put yourself and your life on a pedestal, be a provider of the love your looking for, and watch how quickly things change for you.
Its going from 1 searching thru 1000, to being 1 in front of 000
It signifies satisfaction and fulfillment with oneself. Instantly attractive.
It will also allow you to focus all that outward energy back unto yourself. The extent of this is limitless.
Once you learn to balance giving your gift, love and fun to the world, you will also attract the same because you don't have the void or need associated with "finding" someone. Your not trying to get by hook or crook. Once you start to give your self contained happiness, you become the source of that for others around you. Magnificently attractive and gives you great social value.
"Finding" implies something missing. Someone lost, someone never there to begin with. A form of illusion. Once you stop searching you see who and what's there as they really are.
The objective of a man is not to hunt, but to be found. Not to seek nourishment from women, but provide it. Put yourself and your life on a pedestal, be a provider of the love your looking for, and watch how quickly things change for you.
Its going from 1 searching thru 1000, to being 1 in front of 000
Developing the character that is open, free and flexible enough to allow serendipity and fun to occur is important.
It's the joy of being you that we miss out on by thinking a woman will complete us. Once your self sufficient you realize as a man, women and the world need you and your uniqueness a lot more than you may need them. Then you become "That Guy". The gift is in giving brehs.
you hit it on the head breh. When you're to that point that is the best time to have a relationship because whoever that woman is that enters your life will accept you for who you truly are
and because of that usually you don't have a problem staying committed and faithful....sometimes it still doesn't work out but usually it ends on a good note.