For those struggling with dating apps

[O.T.I.S.]

I feel sorry for you single nikkas thats out here having to deal with dating apps, i couldnt imagine having to do that in this day and age..It's literally impossible for you nikkas to find something on a dating app because the women that use them are so ran through, broken down and angry and used up that their ability to pair bond is non existent. Even if you do click with a bytch off a dating app, how long you think its gonna be before she back on the app behind your back? These women have been on these apps for decades and you think you gone change dat? the app is literally apart of their daily routine, wake up, check inbox which is usually full of simps, get their vain high for the day and then rinse and repeat...they are addicts...yall single nikkas are screwed..sorry

Facts

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I never struggled on dating apps. The problem is them chicks don’t never be looking as good as their pictures.
See em on FaceTime and be like

Even if you go out at night
Half the women are fat or super thick
6/10 women are fat
1 is super pretty
The other 3 is mid

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Back when I was dating (or going out in general) my original goal was that I am always going to have me some fun.

On some:

If I invited a woman to come, It was to have fun and keep me company. If she doesn’t want to do what I’m doing, doesn’t show up/flakes, doesn’t want to be with me for whatever reason then idgaf because I don’t have to, I would go alone because it was my interest and could meet other people anyway.



Got into a relationship then was thrown back into this game and it has been all trash since (although, I became more of a homebody during that time… and mostly sober).

But most of the time I was just trying to kick it with someone and to have fun with.. still do, but not to be pressured into some dating/relationship bullshyt. Thats how most of my connections began really.

 

[Treblemaka]

Why yall using apps? COVID season been over.

Please dont say you dont have time to go out. I got friends that work 70+ hours a week that still find time to socialize.

Go outside. Meeting people irl cuts out alot of the bullshxt.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Why yall using apps? COVID season been over.

Please dont say you dont have time to go out. I got friends that work 70+ hours a week that still find time to socialize.

Go outside. Meeting people irl cuts out alot of the bullshxt.

Nikkas say this but with all due respect no tf it doesn’t.

I’ve had chicks approach ME while I’m minding my business and still act funny style when I try and set something up. I’ve had chicks choosing heavy, I approached, vibe was very flirty/happy that I pulled up, then straight not respond or take hours to respond when I’m trying to set something up.

I say all that to say these chicks weirdos and socially autistic. Social media, dating apps, texting, scared of everything, you name it got women moving funny. I’ve never struggled with women (I guess you could say I struggle to get the women i actually want ) and can easily crack a bytch no bullshyt but most men want a relationship including me.

I do have a handful of chicks that want me to twist they back applying pressure on me right now tho that look good and I’m giving em the run around

 

[Treblemaka]

Nikkas say this but with all due respect no tf it doesn’t.

I’ve had chicks approach ME while I’m minding my business and still act funny style when I try and set something up. I’ve had chicks choosing heavy, I approached, vibe was very flirty/happy that I pulled up, then straight not respond or take hours to respond when I’m trying to set something up.

I say all that to say these chicks weirdos and socially autistic. Social media, dating apps, texting, scared of everything, you name it got women moving funny. I’ve never struggled with women (I guess you could say I struggle to get the women i actually want ) and can easily crack a bytch no bullshyt but most men want a relationship including me.

I do have a handful of chicks that want me to twist they back applying pressure on me right now tho that look good and I’m giving em the run around

It does for me. But then again most men can't read individual women for who they are worth a damn.

Imo this is about discernment and where youre meeting women. Ive been on plenty of dates since covid but I haven't gone in a date with a dusty or toxic female in probably 4 years. If she aint winning in her own life im not even trying to smash (unless its vacation). If youre willing to entertain a woman based on just looks and not her personality, goals, intelligence, and ambition level youre going to be dealing with bullshxt most of the time. Guys thinking with they little head and wonder why they keep dealing with garbage.

If youre hanging out in a landfill youre going to meet trash. Meeting a woman randomly and having a 20 minute conversation with her will teach me enough about her to know if want to keep talking, and if she gets past a phone convo or two then we can get a date going, and I dont set up anything if we aint spent time on the phone.

Im a quality not quantity person at this point. Id rather be dealing with one 9 than four 7s. The weird or broken females usually show that in some way within the first hour or two of talking and get dismissed quickly.

 

[Ahadi]

Its fatigue. I used to do extremely well until id say this year i feel a bit of a decline. I think:

1) They've gotten smashed by every dude they wanted / Burnt out
2) They're in provider season / looking for a holiday boyfriend until Feb 15th.
3) Seems like more of them have kids
4) "Higher tier men are dating down or across
5) A lot more attention based / women seeing what they can get

Real life is the way. Had a great situation with this joint i met during the Bud & Canelo fight.